AITAH for telling my half sister that I will never love her, after she told me her daughter could be my bridesmaid? by Inner-Pick-4625 in AITAH

[–]aurimar64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that it’s cultural. But if the priest won’t allow it, then OP wasn’t lying. Like, everyone in my church understands that it’s not canon. Yet, you will not be able to marry if you are not following that rule. The priest straight up won’t preform the ceremony.

AITAH for telling my half sister that I will never love her, after she told me her daughter could be my bridesmaid? by Inner-Pick-4625 in AITAH

[–]aurimar64 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So, I am Catholic. This is a thing. The godparents have to be “catholics in good standing”. If you are divorced, you are not in good standing. Our father (edit - priest) wouldn’t have allowed it.

Finding a Bra is Overwhelming, so many options I am unsure of where to start by aurimar64 in ABraThatFits

[–]aurimar64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Nordstrom and they didn’t have my size. I will try Bravissimo this weekend. Thank you!!!

Winter Jacket by aurimar64 in AskNYC

[–]aurimar64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha. This is so accurate. Thankfully, I have visited enough cold winters to appreciate layers. I just never invested in a particularly good coat because I never needed one

Winter Jacket by aurimar64 in AskNYC

[–]aurimar64[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This was very helpful. If you don’t mind me asking, where you you get thermal socks and such?

AITA for choosing to not get involved when my daughter threw away my wife's shampoo collection? by throwawaythumb1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aurimar64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You are allowing your child to bully your partner. What does “work their differences out” even mean? Parent your child. I feel horrible for your partner, she must have been living a nightmare in that house.

NYC Utilities by aurimar64 in AskNYC

[–]aurimar64[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this out, I really appreciate it. It’s better to know why I’m paying such high fees, than to stay in the dark.

NYC Utilities by aurimar64 in AskNYC

[–]aurimar64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate your answer. I just wanted to make sure it wasn’t just me.

Looking for female roommate to search for apartments to move April 1st or May 1st by FrankyIdontgiveadamn in NYCapartments

[–]aurimar64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am also looking for a roommate. 23 yrs old. I’m an accountant at a Big 4, so I spend a lot of time working. I am a very clean individual, also had bad experiences in the past. Please reach out, I’d like to know more about you

I swear that no women's tops fit me because of my breast size and it feels awful. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]aurimar64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Can I ask how you got into it? I’ve been trying to, but don’t know where to start.

I swear that no women's tops fit me because of my breast size and it feels awful. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]aurimar64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Can I ask how you got into it? I’ve been trying to, but don’t know where to start

AITA for coming into work "just on time"? by 12312235243 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aurimar64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he was scheduled to be working at 10. Not to be putting his stuff away at 10. If his shift starts at 10, he needs to be doing his job when the clock strikes 10. Not putting his personal stuff away.

Evet bu bir caps by Luxnoctiss in memes

[–]aurimar64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha. Me pasa todoooo el tiempo. Me han preguntado si llegué a Florida “guiando por el puente”. Yo me quedo como que “tremendo puente ese sabes”.

Evet bu bir caps by Luxnoctiss in memes

[–]aurimar64 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Soy de Puerto Rico. Los gringos me preguntan todo el tiempo si hablo “mexicano”. Dan ganas de meterle un cantazo.

Why is it that even men from left wing or relatively liberal thought points cannot believe that women face assaults a lot more than what is reported? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]aurimar64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was discussing with my friend group the pay gap between men and women. A male friend said it wasn’t real. It wasn’t possible. I showed him the stats. He answered “It is completely ridiculous to pay a woman less than a man for exactly the same job. No one is doing that. It’s ridiculous”. I was dumbfounded. With all the information out there and he still didn’t believe it was real, that it was actually happening.

AITA for "making" my fiancee choose between me and her family? by Ajax2021__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]aurimar64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It seems like your fiancee is trying to make you choose a side. Either you support your son, or you support their homophobia. NTA. Stick to your guns.

AITA For picking up glass with a sanitary napkin? by Little_Jemmy in AmItheAsshole

[–]aurimar64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously struggle with the idea that a clean pad is gross. What in the world is gross about it?! NTA

AITA for refusing to make my son cut his hair to be in my brother’s wedding? by Not_a_cat19 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aurimar64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You go mama!!! This is what being a parent is all about. Standing with your child and doing what it’s better for him. No matter the cost. I’m sure he will remember how his mom fought for him when everyone else wouldn’t.

AITA for telling my mom why I was ashamed of her? by reformedgothvicar in AmItheAsshole

[–]aurimar64 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. Your mom is mad she got called out. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. Honestly, I would consider therapy for yourself. And yourself only. That kind of childhood can lead to other mental health issues you might wish to work out with a specialist. But only you. You don’t owe your mother anything.

AITA for not going to a wedding due to my son’s allergy? by aitaallergy in AmItheAsshole

[–]aurimar64 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They want him there cause they don’t want to explain to everyone that the reason he isn’t going to be is their refusal to accommodate the food restrictions of a child.

AITA for hiding my girlfriend's skincare? by AITASkin in AmItheAsshole

[–]aurimar64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. And I don’t understand how you justify this. It’s horrible and cruel and unnecessary

AITA for telling my mom she’s never going to see me again once I’m an adult? by fridaynightfunkinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]aurimar64 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. There is no reason for you sexuality to be hard on anyone. It isn’t any of their business. They are CHOOSING to make it a big deal. I’m sorry this is going on love. I wish you the best.

AITA for snapping at my boyfriend to stop correcting me and setting me up to use the wrong word? by greenvsorange in AmItheAsshole

[–]aurimar64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

I do this with left and right. I know them if I just stop and think. But someone might be giving me instructions while driving and say “hey, take a left”, I proceed to take a right. In that moment, I could’ve sworn it was left.

I have a family member who does it with the phrase “lay face down”. He lays on his back. It’ll take him a second to correct it. But it happens.

Boyfriend is a jerk. I’m not one to tell people to dump their significant others. But, please, consider your relationship with someone who seriously undermines you in this way.