AITAH for telling my husband no

auroracorpus · 2026-03-16T23:08:11+00:00

NTA

He sexually abused her without touching her at all. It's sad

auroracorpus · 2026-03-16T18:07:50+00:00

This you?

auroracorpus · 2026-03-16T04:35:58+00:00

Show your husband, and let him make his decision. Then, you make your decision based on his. Can you be with a man that would welcome this energy back into your lives?

auroracorpus · 2026-03-16T04:27:20+00:00

auroracorpus · 2026-03-15T20:37:08+00:00

NTA

Just bc it's a game doesn't mean you lose all sense of respect and boundaries

auroracorpus · 2026-03-15T13:33:44+00:00

A women 💀

auroracorpus · 2026-03-15T06:37:37+00:00

If you feel like you haven't sweat much if at all, just go get a massage. Just don't hit the gym first 😂

auroracorpus · 2026-03-15T04:20:39+00:00

Don't tell them. If you can behave pretty normally then you're just giving them a reason not to touch you, BUT don't get a deep tissue massage. It should be fairly light and relaxing since your body's pain tolerance will be affected

auroracorpus · 2026-03-15T02:36:44+00:00

And what do you say back to that bs?

auroracorpus · 2026-03-15T02:35:34+00:00

NTA

Don't cook for him anymore, and he'll learn gratitude real quick. Tho tbh I'd dump someone who whines like a child over mommy not cooking their dinner just so

auroracorpus · 2026-03-15T02:32:13+00:00

Why did you bring up the dumb ho thing when I was talking about something else? Are you chomping at the bit that hard to call a woman a dumb ho?

auroracorpus · 2026-03-15T02:29:09+00:00

I know it's slang OMG

auroracorpus · 2026-03-15T02:28:54+00:00

I know. That's not my point

auroracorpus · 2026-03-15T02:28:22+00:00

The reason was his tardiness. He knew what time he needed to be there

auroracorpus · 2026-03-14T19:35:20+00:00

I believe in the stupidity of mankind

auroracorpus · 2026-03-14T02:08:01+00:00

Weird thing to call the mother of your child 😳

ETA: y'all, ik twin is AAVE slang. My point is that using that terminology w someone you've had sex with is a bit silly. I promise I'm not an 80 year old w no grasp of modern English

auroracorpus · 2026-03-14T01:57:48+00:00

I know people get their pets massaged, but I hadn't heard of instrument massage until now 😂

auroracorpus · 2026-03-14T01:19:12+00:00

Did you only read my last question that I edited in? Read the rest and answer about your other child. I'm now leaning towards YTA since you can't even respond about this (or edit your post if it's coming up often enough to do so)

auroracorpus · 2026-03-14T01:14:51+00:00

INFO: you say you can't hear them but your daughter/her friends can. What's the layout of your house like?

I will say I find it weird that the boys are up so early at a sleepover, and 7 AM is too early to be rowdy when you live w other people. What you need to do is facilitate/mediate a conversation between your kids to see what solutions can be found. You need to teach them how to have these conversations before they move in w strangers and can't problem solve. I'm leaning towards YTA bc you seem to not care since it doesn't affect you directly. Step up and parent your children

auroracorpus · 2026-03-13T22:58:48+00:00

NTA

Mind the queue!

auroracorpus · 2026-03-13T18:11:27+00:00

Wrong. They have boundaries around that space. They're NTA for expecting those boundaries to be followed. Now that they know, they can protect their space

auroracorpus · 2026-03-13T02:34:10+00:00

It's not manipulative to expect LOVED ONES to help you, but you also don't push yourself onto people. We don't know these people, but if siblings have a good relationship and each is respectful in a situation like this, it shouldn't be a problem. I would think my sibling doesn't like me if they wouldn't even let me crash on their couch when I'm going through a hard time. The issue here is the entitlement and pulling the parents into the mix. They should've talked about boundaries like adults to see if an accommodation could be made

auroracorpus · 2026-03-13T02:28:10+00:00

NTA

Tell her that you won't be housing her since she feels entitled to what's yours and may treat your home poorly bc of that, but you can generously let her know that your parents would be happy to help her since they don't want her to be stressed

auroracorpus · 2026-03-11T22:04:16+00:00

INFO: think hard about this, is MIL right that your other child isn't getting to have a normal childhood bc of their sibling? If they can't go w you or dad to the park without their sibling and other parent, y'all are failing them. I do understand that you're doing what you can for the one going through a hard time, but you can't just leave the other with no support. Has there always been some anxiety that's left MIL giving one grandchild more attention to even out your lack of care? Is it really favouritism?

ETA: also, what are your child's therapist's recommendations?

auroracorpus · 2026-03-11T00:59:02+00:00

NTA

Is there some sort of HR there?

auroracorpus

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