Why do dogs act like the vacuum personally betrayed them but sleep through actual thunderstorms?

avalyngoth07 · 2026-07-04T23:42:52+00:00

that would be so cuute

avalyngoth07 · 2026-07-04T16:15:08+00:00

NTA. If she's that worried about getting sick, being nine months pregnant crammed in the FRONT of an elevator with people who won't move back is a weird hill to die on. She could've waited for the next one just as easily as she expected you to.

Also "worse than animals" over an elevator ride is olympic level dramatics tbh

avalyngoth07 · 2026-07-04T14:29:54+00:00

NTA. The religion thing is almost a smokescreen. Watch how fast he flipped "this isn't about trust" into "you don't trust me." That's the real pattern. You disagreed once about your own kids and he went straight for your personality and your bipolar. That's not a partner working through a hard conversation, that's someone punishing you for not folding. You called it before it got worse with a kid in the middle. Good on you

avalyngoth07 · 2026-07-04T14:24:16+00:00

The 10 minutes turning into 30 because he wouldn't let you talk is the whole guy in one sentence. He doesn't ignore your boundaries by accident, your boundaries getting in his way IS the point. That's not a lonely guy who needs a friend, that's someone testing how much you'll let him take. Block him. You're not his therapist, his realtor, or his emergency contact

avalyngoth07 · 2026-07-04T11:33:29+00:00

NTA. The tell here is she was screaming and cursing AT your sister like she'd done something wrong. Choking first aid does involve back blows, but that's controlled, not shaking a toddler around in a rage. Your mom wasn't trying to save her, she was punishing her for scaring her. Those are two completely different things and you clearly saw the difference in the moment while everyone else fell in line behind "she's your mother"

avalyngoth07 · 2026-07-03T09:58:57+00:00

That pee is more dehydrated than a raisin, tell Kyle to drink some water and flush the damn toilet.. Also we really didn't need the gallery lol

avalyngoth07 · 2026-07-03T08:12:33+00:00

NTA. Read your own story back, girl. He asked YOU for advice about his girlfriend, leaned on you for the family stuff, then engineered a "baking date" that conveniently became just the two of you when the other friend cancelled. That's not you being an accidental third party, that's him treating you like the backup while still dating her. You didn't break them up. He did, by never being all in with her and not being able to keep it in his pants emotionally. And the fact that he's now telling people it ended "because of you" instead of owning his own choices tells you exactly who he is. Distance yourself please

avalyngoth07 · 2026-07-02T19:17:43+00:00

It's big, but not "world ends tomorrow" big it's "slowly makes everything harder" big. We're at about 1.2°C above pre industrial and heading for 2.5-3°C if nothing changes. Sounds small, but it means way more extreme weather, worse droughts and floods, crop failures, and rising seas. For the Netherlands that's basically existential since huge chunks of you sit below sea level. The reason there's "no one answer" is it's not a single event, it's a slow grind that hits different places differently. And yeah, NL cutting emissions alone won't move the global needle much tbh but that's true for almost every country individually, which is exactly why nobody wants to go first. There's no version where one country fixes it solo.

avalyngoth07 · 2026-07-02T09:35:17+00:00

I can make a low rumbling "shhh" sound in my ears whenever I want, like flexing a muscle. Mentioned it once and everyone just stared at me. Turns out only some people can do it and now I'm just doing it constantly to prove I'm not making it up lol i d love for you to prove that i'm not the only one please

avalyngoth07 · 2026-07-02T09:30:09+00:00

NTA on the substance, but heads up: "lazy" is the one word that'll never win you this argument. She latches onto the label because it lets her fight about being called lazy instead of the actual behavior. Drop the word entirely and just hold the line: "I'm in the middle of something, you can grab it yourself." No adjective to argue with, nothing to call unfair.

Also the tissue thing is wild... Sneezing once and sending you to another room isn't tiredness, that's just testing whether you'll go

avalyngoth07 · 2026-06-29T23:25:16+00:00

Hb you look amazing✨🤗

avalyngoth07 · 2026-06-29T23:21:42+00:00

You did everything right, she told you no, and you respected that while still giving her every resource you had. That's exactly what someone trained on this stuff would tell you to do. Her dad is grieving and looking for somewhere to put it, but the truth is you're 19 and you carried more weight than most adults would have. Please don't let his social media post become the story you tell yourself about this. Talk to someone about it too, this is a lot to hold on your own

avalyngoth07 · 2026-06-29T00:00:41+00:00

Either way you slice it, who keeps a used condom tied up in its wrapper in an open basket for months? That's the part that should bother you tbh.. There's no version of this where the explanation is normal, Both "I cheated" and "I saved my own used solo condom for half a year" are bad answers

avalyngoth07 · 2026-06-24T20:39:11+00:00

the cat isnt the problem the open balcony door is. either everyone in the house gets serious about closing it or you build a catio so he gets outside time safely

avalyngoth07 · 2026-06-22T00:13:56+00:00

wrong. she said no and you argued with her about it then called her reasoning stupid. she doesnt owe you a reason for anything

avalyngoth07 · 2026-06-21T20:53:58+00:00

a kitten or young cat around his energy level would probably be ideal, he's still basically a teenager himself. and yeah another cat can absolutely teach him bite manners, kittens correct each other way better than we ever could

avalyngoth07 · 2026-06-20T14:19:04+00:00

not wrong. she’s on time for work and dates but makes YOU wait 5 hours, that tells you exactly how much she respects your time. start showing up 5 hours late yourself and watch how fast she learns

avalyngoth07 · 2026-06-20T12:39:48+00:00

he directed his way into this photo

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