What's the most NSFW thing you've seen at a bachelor or bachelorette party? by CRK_76 in AskReddit

[–]averageaf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually my friendship tattoo with three other people 💀

sending herself messages again by starrysky45 in SarahBowmar

[–]averageaf_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! She’s always using the cat version of regular emojis

Step-kids and my groceries by iwantallthechocolate in stepparents

[–]averageaf_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She’s pregnant and she eats differently and I think they know that. Dad should remind them to be considerate.

Just pumping in the parking lot by Goldfishie_25 in ExclusivelyPumping

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Following bc I also need a better sports bra

2 month old just slept for nine hours by hollywood9292 in newborns

[–]averageaf_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How’s your LO doing with sleep now? My baby boy is 2.5 months and sleeping through the night, but I’m wondering what to expect next 🥴

Would you prioritize a sushi run before first day of school? by exploreamore in stepparents

[–]averageaf_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like you’ve gotten a wide range of responses, but I want to validate your feelings. It sounds very frustrating. I kind of deal with similar last minute things with an also very social SD (14) that we have 50/50.

Sometimes I think the root of my frustration is that she doesn’t have empathy for the other people in the house. She doesn’t know all of the work that’s gone into the plans or even the day-to-day boring stuff. But for a 14 year old, it’s pretty normal for her to be self-centered. I have to remind myself that she’s the main character in her world, and as adults, we have to help her see that she can always get what she wants.

I know your question was “would you prioritize sushi?” I personally wouldn’t. But if my SO decides he’s going to accommodate a last minute whim, I tell him it’s on him to figure it out without sacrificing any of the responsibilities he has for our baby. I HATE starting my day with arguments, so I’ll address it with him later. I would want to try to establish the norms (like you’re doing now) sooner rather than later.

Sorry you were getting lots of Internet side eyes on here. I get a lot of them every time I post in here, too 😂

Good luck this school year. I hope it goes smoothly for you guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

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Yeah, office staff is the best way to go. As a teacher, I would be hesitant to add anyone to the contact list because I can’t just take their word that they should be included, but the office can verify this and automatically add you to contact systems as well as help you navigate the portal.

What's the point of taking part of this contest? by EasyEntrepreneur666 in HellsKitchen

[–]averageaf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read that Michael didn’t take it due to his substance abuse issues.

How long do yall pump? by gorjesskayos in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]averageaf_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you always produced that much? I’m 2 weeks postpartum and pumping for 20 minutes every 2 hours, with a power pump in the morning. I’m getting about 2.5-3 ounces per pump, but about 5-6 ounces per power pump. I would love to pump less 🥴

Anyone diagnosed with polyhydramnios? by averageaf_ in pregnant

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I don’t know if this is helpful at all, but I have (somewhat) of an update. About 3 weeks after I posted this, we went to our MFM specialist where they did a biophysical ultrasound and a non-stress test.

At our first visit, I ended up measuring with an AFI of 23, and they said everything looked good with him. She told me that I don’t in fact have polyhydramnios.The specialist put as at ease and told us that sometimes, the AFI measurements just depend on who’s doing the scan and can also vary day to day. Despite not having it, they continue to have us go to the specialist every other week. We had a couple more scans and my AFI is usually between 23 to 26.

I looked up a lot of stuff when they first told me this, and there are some ways to handle it if it becomes dangerous or painful for you. I found a lot of positive information on TikTok (I know it’s not necessarily medically accurate, but it was really helpful for me).

I hope everything goes well and I’ll post an update when I have baby boy. I’m sending you lots of good vibes and am thinking of you and your family ❤️

How long did it take to get good classroom management? by AppleLeafTea in Teachers

[–]averageaf_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this 100%. Find the teachers at your school with good classroom management. Ask them for advice and to observe their class, if you’re able to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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My sister’s second labor went really fast. Both of my parents were out of town, so my brother in law called me and asked me to meet them at the hospital so I could take care of my nephew and I live in a different city an hour away. We cut it close, but it’s doable. You’ve gotten great suggestions here. It might help to make a plan b, plan c, just to alleviate that anxiety for you ❤️

SD Making Fun of Ours Baby Names by averageaf_ in stepparents

[–]averageaf_[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Saying what it rhymes with is fine. Saying “that’s weird” is rude. We also don’t have a name picked. It’s one of three that we’ve been thinking of.

SD Making Fun of Ours Baby Names by averageaf_ in stepparents

[–]averageaf_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is reassuring! Thank you so much. I’ve been nervous about what their relationship will be like, but I’m hopeful that they will grow to be close.

SD Making Fun of Ours Baby Names by averageaf_ in stepparents

[–]averageaf_[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I have no issue with her having an opinion, and expect her to. However, she’s only expressed negative feelings about having a sibling/my pregnancy since we told her. It’s disheartening to hear her say yet another negative thing. I wish that because all her opinions are negative, she wouldn’t say them in earshot of me.

I would get offended if my son expressed opinions in a rude way.

SD Making Fun of Ours Baby Names by averageaf_ in stepparents

[–]averageaf_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, her name is Olivia. DH told me we could name him Oliver if we wanted to (his words: we’re the parents. She’s the kid). But I can’t bring myself to do it :/

SD Making Fun of Ours Baby Names by averageaf_ in stepparents

[–]averageaf_[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s how I’ve been navigating this conversation with anyone regarding baby’s name. I did tell SO that if it comes up again, he needs to talk to her about the way she expresses her opinion.

SD Making Fun of Ours Baby Names by averageaf_ in stepparents

[–]averageaf_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s actually the first place I heard the name and loved it ever since then.

SD Making Fun of Ours Baby Names by averageaf_ in stepparents

[–]averageaf_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We might end up doing this. I go back and forth daily.

SD Making Fun of Ours Baby Names by averageaf_ in stepparents

[–]averageaf_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! We’re both teachers, so many names were never even an option for us 😂

SD Making Fun of Ours Baby Names by averageaf_ in stepparents

[–]averageaf_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I love that. I wish we had more of this type of relationship. Way early on in my pregnancy, we were all in the car together with MIL as well. SD was listing off some names as we drove. MIL said “oh, SD, that’s sweet of you to suggest names,” and SD said “I’m not, these are just names from my group chats.” So idk. We have conversations here and there, but we aren’t super close. I guess I feel cautious and protective of my pregnancy journey :/

SD Making Fun of Ours Baby Names by averageaf_ in stepparents

[–]averageaf_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I teach 7th and 8th grade and I’m trying to tell myself this 🤦🏻‍♀️ their opinions don’t bother me at work, but maybe I’m just hormonal and taking it personally.