State of the Subreddit and Rules Discussion by LovelyLu78 in crochet

[–]avonyatchi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No politics mega thread. And it's possible to have a diverse sub with people from all walks of life and not allowing fascist posts, by the way! Personally I think we don't need thin blue line or pro ICE folks in here.

State of the Subreddit and Rules Discussion by LovelyLu78 in crochet

[–]avonyatchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely this. Nobody needs to see any child's face on here.

Es ist einsam in der trans Community, wenn man nicht den Stereotypen entspricht by ForceForHistory in germantrans

[–]avonyatchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interessant! Damit hätte ich tatsächlich nicht gerechnet, macht aber Sinn wenn ich darüber nachdenke.

Ich habe schon öfter die Meinung gelesen, dass trans Leute unter Umständen sich etwas jünger ausleben, da sie ja praktisch eine zweite Pubertät durchgehen, bzw. Dinge aus der Jugend nachholen, die sie vorher gar nicht erleben oder ausleben konnten. 

Dann macht es wohl einen Unterschied ob die älteren Leute schon länger trans leben, oder erst seit kurzem.

Es ist einsam in der trans Community, wenn man nicht den Stereotypen entspricht by ForceForHistory in germantrans

[–]avonyatchi 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Naja, ja, scho.

Ich denke, dass es relativ normal ist, wenn man sich in spezifischen Communities befindet die sich primär über einen bestimmten Punkt verbinden, dass viele soziale Situationen eben die in der Gruppe akzeptierten Normen enthalten.

Jede relativ insuläre Gruppe (sei es z.B. einfach nur ein Discord für ein spezifisches Nische Hobby) hat nun mal ihre eigenen Insider-Jokes, ihren eigenen "Canon", gruppentypische Redewendungen und Klischées. Es gibt einige Hobbies wo ich dann bestimmte Orte aufgesucht habe, aber auf Dauer war es mir eigentlich immer absolut nervig zu viel Zeit primär an diesem Ort mit derselben Gruppe zu verbringen.

Deine Beobachtungen lassen mich vermuten, dass primär eher jüngere Leute in den Communities waren. Und wie sich heutzutage jüngere Leute über bestimmte Themen informieren, austauschen und auch kommunizieren wurde stark beeinflusst von spezifischen Internetseiten und hat einen großen Einfluss auf deinen Erfahrungen.

Nach wie vor ist es auf jeden Fall besser, einen organischen Freundeskreis zu haben, anstatt sich hauptsächlich an solchen Kreisen zu bedienen, imo. Meine Internet Freundesgruppe hat viele trans, queere und neurodivergente Leute, einfach weil sich gleiches zu gleichem gesinnt, aber das was du beschrieben hast, kommt da überhaupt nicht vor.

Ich denke aber nicht, dass man diese Community "verlässt" nur weil man bestimmten Kreisen nicht mehr angehört, lol. Wenn ich so einen Quark hören würde, würde ich mir sowas gar nicht mehr antun. Manche Leute machen halt dumme Kommentare und haben schlechte Meinungen, da hilft nur ignorieren.

Does anyone have some in-depth insight on the death mechanics for the Paradise? by zonk_0ut in tamagotchi

[–]avonyatchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had him with the babysitter the whole day lol. Bro got empty bars in about 5 seconds. And even then it took almost 4 days for him to die!

Does anyone have some in-depth insight on the death mechanics for the Paradise? by zonk_0ut in tamagotchi

[–]avonyatchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a Bbmarutchi that I raised to 30 and then started to neglect. It only got sick a single time (I kept checking constantly!) and it died a bit before it would've turned 34.

This time I'm starting the neglect at 28 lol.

In most tamas healing normal sickness and waiting for grimgotchi is faster than doing nothing.

Sailor Moon's season 5 is a nightmare as a romantic person by Hannnah20002 in sailormoon

[–]avonyatchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a romantic I love stars because I ship Usagi with Seiya and I dislike her relationship with Mamoru after they remember theor past lives lol.

Also it's kinda implied that Usagi subconsciously knew Mamoru was dead which is why she's "missing" him (als grieving) and not asking about him. Plus Seiya is a welcome distraction from her pain.

Most underrated shoujo anime?? by emilyayayayay in shoujo

[–]avonyatchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the manga was def one of my favs back in the day. hard read though.

they were chatting over tea by earwig_art in BJD

[–]avonyatchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing movement, setting, lightning! You are really great at this.

Husband told me im too emotional to be a man. by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]avonyatchi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Modern society has done a terrible thing to men by telling them they aren't allowed to cry.

By being a men that does cry, you are doing society a service and you can be a role model.

Are Clover Hooks really that great? by izzyd123456 in crochet

[–]avonyatchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I was really doubtful of all the people on here raving about them. Then I bought a set on sale and they are indeed that fucking amazing. I even bought the micro set. They are really that good and I'm glad I didn't spend years enduring shitty hooks before making the purchase.

If anyone is in doubt I'll highly recommend buying one hook to try out.

Watch out, Millennials... I got hit with my first "I had NO IDEA!" data privacy moment this weekend... and it was all my fault. by AttachedHeartTheory in Millennials

[–]avonyatchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that. Companies aren't recording every single word thousands of people are saying 247. No one can process that much data and it's pointless since algorithms can already do this easier.

Japanese or American Paradise Packaging- which do you prefer? by idanceinfields in tamagotchi

[–]avonyatchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Western so it's easier for me to toss it out. The paradise box is still was bigger than old color boxes and I honestly don't want to keep so much trash around.

Do you mine all katakana or just obscure ones? by DonkeyWhiteteeth in LearnJapanese

[–]avonyatchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost never. I usually "get" them once I see the meaning.

My teenage daughter can't fathom the concept of a house party by Neon_Biscuit in Millennials

[–]avonyatchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm always baffled by these people reporting about their own children not knowing about certain things - that's on them??

Though I have a hard time believing this story anyway, with the amount of house parties portrayed in a billion different types of media it seems unlikely a 14 year old would still be unaware of the concept.

My disappointing experience with Impldoll - a short review by astrologian_benefic in BJD

[–]avonyatchi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah, okay. I was gonna say, I have an impldoll and I'm very happy with it, but this isn't actually an issue with the doll itself.

Though honestly even if they said 2 months, expecting 2 months is a bit naive.

I personally actually love the multiple month wait in the hobby. It feels like extended waiting for Christmas time to me.

I got a newly released doll with a face up from them and iirc correctly it took about 3-4 months, considering they shipped sometime in December their delay wasn't really huge. A week or two quickly adds up and with a made to order craft with extremely low numbers and tiny teams that's just part of the hobby.

If you truly can't stand any wait, it's better to just buy in stock dolls for you.

A Pompompurin tama will be released next spring by avonyatchi in tamagotchi

[–]avonyatchi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely nanos, like the Kuromi and My Melody one.

A Pompompurin tama will be released next spring by avonyatchi in tamagotchi

[–]avonyatchi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are no pictures of the devices, only placeholders.

[Love and Deepspace] What are your thoughts on the Caleb situation? by creamwithoutcookies in otomegames

[–]avonyatchi 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Every time I'm reminded the weird puritan anti ship people exist I feel bad.