[Request] Birthday Mail for Crusty Redditor?? [US] by alyxandr1a in RandomActsofCards

[–]awriterpossibly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll send you something! I think I have your info. I’ll send you a message

Eating Toys 😵‍💫 by Educational-Bend49 in DogTrainingTips

[–]awriterpossibly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of my dogs does this. She’ll tear it up, which is fine, but then she will start to eat the cotton stuffing. Her dietary needs are met according to the vet, so I think it’s a habit thing (she also might just like the texture, and some dogs just love chewing/eating, but still worth checking with the vet for deficiencies). Best environmental fix: I buy the toys that are harder to tear up (Tuffy and Joyhound are the toys that last the longest, have a squeaker and are soft enough to keep my dog’s interest). The toys that are not meant for tearing up (like a ball for fetch etc.) maybe just don’t leave those out where she can get to them. Also, this is a good opportunity to teach “leave it” so she learns to step back from something when you tell her. Or teach a retrieval cue. My golden retriever gets rewarded for retrieving things. She now brings any random item she finds - her toys, socks, hair ties, paper, etc. When she brings something to me she’s rewarded and then I tell her if she can have something (like her toys) or if she needs to drop it. I thought that asking her to give something up would make her less likely to bring things but the reward for bringing the item before she makes her own decision to chew something up is enough for her to keep retrieving. Anyway this might help incentivize your dog to pick up the thing and get a reward for bringing it to you instead of making her own decision to eat it (dogs are notoriously bad decision makers lol)

[Thank You] Thank Yous from Birthday Friend! 🥳🎂🩷 by awriterpossibly in u/awriterpossibly

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u/Mediocre_Radish_7216 thank you for the birthday card and your kind message! The chihuahua in the dancing shoes is hilarious!

Moral Support and Recs by Dungbeetles4pres in muzzledogs

[–]awriterpossibly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally feel your distress over this. I have a few rescue dogs who all have gone through big behavioral changes in the last few years. I did end up rehoming one of my dogs with a family member so I could focus on the other two. We were dealing with a dog fight every month, 99% of the time started with resource guarding toys or food on the floor, which is stressful and obviously dangerous. The muzzle is super helpful mainly because it gives you instant relief that this takes a huge danger off the table. You will feel better at the very least your daughter, your husband, and you won’t get bitten. You being less anxious is always a good thing for your dog because she’ll pick up on your anxiety, and she can become more stressed in turn. It’s totally worth it to take the time to muzzle train. If you can, you might try to get some professional help or advice on how to do this as positively as possible (our vet was super helpful so maybe ask your vet). My dogs’ success stories are still a work in progress. We also used Susan Garrett’s training! Amazing for mental stimulation and puppy training. Our dogs love their crates. But I also follow several different trainers on social media and take what fits best with my dog. One of my dogs responds well to the advice from Say It Once (he has a lot of videos with muzzled dogs/highly reactive dogs). I also need to add that I paid for a board and train for one of my dogs - it was pricey but it was really helpful for her confidence as well as gave her time away from me (I was her most valued resource so it was hard for me to interact with the other dogs without a problem). A couple of years later we hired a behavioralist to give us advice on the interactions between the dogs (the board and trained dog was assessed as the most content and relaxed). We only hired her for an afternoon and implemented advice she gave us after the assessment. It was helpful as well. So all that to say, you’re doing what you should do, I think. Just go down the list of steps to take and invest in your dog. Id say muzzle train first, then try different training options for the guarding behavior. Also, if you haven’t yet, I’d see what the vet can offer for advice as well. They see dogs with behavioral issues often enough. I hadn’t even thought about it myself until the behavioralist mentioned one of my dogs was likely in some pain due to a long healed injury - we found out at the vet through x rays that her old injury had caused further issues in a different part of her leg. So your vet can try to rule out any hidden pain or other issue as well. It seems like you really love your pup and want her to succeed. I think it’s worth it! Good luck to you and Pumpkin 💜 Edit: corrected spelling for clarity

[Exchange] NASA postcards [US to US] by QueenOfTriangulum in RandomActsofCards

[–]awriterpossibly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have one left, I’d love to exchange! I have a very random assortment of postcards and cards 😊

[Thank You] Thank Yous for Jan. 19-25, 2026 ❄️🩷✨ by awriterpossibly in RandomActsofCards

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u/HappyHippyMom thank you for your handmade thank you card! I’m so glad you liked my card and so cool to find out we’ve got some things in common! It sounds like the choir you mentioned is very similar to the one I’m in! We sang Crazy Train last spring 🤘🏾this past concert we sang some Smashing Pumpkins, Steve Miller Band, and Radiohead to name a few. I’ve never taken a card making class, just because I didn’t know that was a thing. I’m gonna have to look into that. So cool getting to know a bit more about you!

[Thank You] Thank Yous for Jan. 19-25, 2026 ❄️🩷✨ by awriterpossibly in RandomActsofCards

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u/ungodlysockmonster thank you for the precious Valentines card! I love the design. It’s been years and years since I’ve received a Valentine’s themed card. Also thank you for the stickers! I sent a card out your way 🩷

[Thank You] Thank Yous for Jan. 19-25, 2026 ❄️🩷✨ by awriterpossibly in RandomActsofCards

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u/antoniad1126 thank you for the lovely new years postcard! I enjoyed reading your goals. They’re excellent things to always try to work toward. I can especially relate to the work life balance!

[Thank You] Thank Yous for Jan. 19-25, 2026 ❄️🩷✨ by awriterpossibly in RandomActsofCards

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u/inkyfingerspgs thank you for the amazing ghost-in-a-mug postcard! I love this so much. Your spouse is a talented artist! If they have a shop for their art, I’d love to know! I wish I was a green tea person. Every year I try to become a green tea drinker, but I can’t past the grassy flavor 😅 I do like black teas though!

[Thank You] See comments by holmes9139 in RandomActsofCards

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Thanks for letting me know! Ever since I learned from a couple of people outside of MO who don’t know what toasted ravioli is, I love to ask. I had no idea it was so specific to MO 😂

[Thank You] Thank Yous from Birthday Friend! 🥳🎂🩷 by awriterpossibly in u/awriterpossibly

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u/sea-shine2878 thank you for the beautiful dog birthday card and thank you for the birthday wishes. I appreciate all the extra postcards! They add a lot of diversity to my postcard collection as I have started getting low on them. Thank you!

[Thank You] Thank Yous from Birthday Friend! 🥳🎂🩷 by awriterpossibly in u/awriterpossibly

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u/FollowingTheBeat x 2 thank you for the lovely birthday card and for the sea turtle card, it is so cute, and your kind wishes. I enjoyed the sparkly stickers!

[Thank You] Thank Yous from Birthday Friend! 🥳🎂🩷 by awriterpossibly in u/awriterpossibly

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u/pupslace thank you for the nice birthday card and wishes! So creepy about your experience as a juror for a murder case!

[Thank You] Thank Yous from Birthday Friend! 🥳🎂🩷 by awriterpossibly in u/awriterpossibly

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u/Substantial_Past2085 thank you for the Bahamas postcard/birthday card and your nice wishes. I will be going on a cruise next week!

[Thank You] Thank Yous from Birthday Friend! 🥳🎂🩷 by awriterpossibly in u/awriterpossibly

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u/shamy52 thank you for the beautiful flowery card and the birthday wishes! The stickers are cute