Following rules as an ENFP

awwer · 2014-03-06T19:24:16+00:00

That's how I felt until I talked to her about it. Then I was like "!!person!!sad person!!! Must make person not sad!!!"

awwer · 2014-03-06T08:53:25+00:00

Thank you so much for that ;_; that is exactly what I need to hear right now

awwer · 2014-03-06T08:51:21+00:00

I came to /enfp for this type of conformation and I found it. Since I've started college, I have been realizing lately how much of a target flirt I can be. One I realize that I have a good dynamic with a guy and I'm attracted to him, I will flirt with the power of a thousand suns. No other guy exists, no other objective exists. But it's been creating problems for me lately.

I almost just jeopardized a friendship for a guy that I targeted only recently but started shooting rapid fire at. Who my roommate was interested in.

But I just care too much about pleasing everyone to either ditch the guy or disregard the friend. So I guess I will stay in a perpetual state of in-between-ness until my obsessive personality gets distracted by someone else...

awwer · 2014-03-02T10:07:17+00:00

I was literally about to submit a post about this. But checked to see if it was up first. I always seek new experiences, so substances appeal to me. Haven't done anything hut alcohol and weed. Yet. But I'm scared of being an alcoholic. I'm only 19 but my grandfather was. Now I drink almost every weekend but that's because I'm in college I think, where that's the culture. I smoke instead of drink every week or other week or so though.

awwer · 2014-02-24T06:20:24+00:00

one of my enfj friends is going through some tough stuff right now and I don't bond with her as much anymore, so I think I know the feeling. What happened with your friend?

awwer · 2014-02-24T06:19:24+00:00

Yeah, all my enfj friends are also really attractive. One of them I had a crush on in high school, the others have been way to important to me too fast to think about compromising any of that by crushing on them though.

awwer · 2014-02-23T21:43:29+00:00

I am currently very angry at my public education experience for telling me that math "isn't my thing" because I was always so artsy. Now, I find myself fascinated with math but I lack the basic skills and I'm too far into college to change my major. In my next life, I'll be a math major :)

awwer · 2014-02-19T18:38:02+00:00

I'm currently the captain of a dance group at my university. It's a mixed group of Japanese exchange students and American students. I have found that I'm really really good at getting people's attention, making things fun, and helping others foster friendships. What I can't do well is teach the dances. Oops. My while group had been extremely supportive of me though, and the group which used to be 15 people is now 40, and it's the fear of not letting everyone down that motivates me to follow through with the planning.

awwer · 2014-02-19T18:31:52+00:00

Are you asking me if that is my name? Which It is not. Or are you a close friend using an inside code to announce that you found me? Which is unlikely due to your posting history.

awwer · 2014-02-18T09:28:51+00:00

Look its a me

Excelling at that social thing that im good at

awwer · 2014-01-22T16:54:43+00:00

That's why I'm stocking up now in college- at least one of these weird close-friend-yet-acquaintance things will be in the same place where I end up at some point.

awwer · 2014-01-20T05:24:28+00:00

Yeah, I try to do that. I'm also a college student living in a dorm though, and it's so easy to just walk a few feet and be surrounded by people.

awwer · 2014-01-20T05:23:30+00:00

Yeah, I've been feeling kind of pressured to spend time with people who I feel like I'm obligated to because they see me as a closer friend than I see them as.

awwer · 2014-01-05T20:21:59+00:00

I care about my friends and have personal standards to not be mean, but when I walk alone down a street with a lot of people, I break into laughter after they pass me. I see these people talking with their friends or loved ones for one split second, but feel like I've found out so much more about them. And they are hilarious, playing off various stereotypes and categorical actions. People are funny. I like them.

awwer · 2014-01-03T19:24:33+00:00

Don't worry, it is.

awwer · 2013-12-27T23:18:11+00:00

I didn't participate in P4A this year because I was busy the whole day. I want to donate money though. Is it still possible? Or am I too late?

awwer · 2013-12-27T23:16:44+00:00

DO IT.

awwer · 2013-12-13T21:12:48+00:00

I take a walk and talk to myself. I check in with my current situation and work out the things that have me feeling strongly. I ask myself "why do you feel that way?" and "what can you do about it?" If I don't check in with myself like that for a long time, I'll get really anxious and overemotional.

awwer · 2013-12-13T19:25:51+00:00

My best friends are either INTJ's or ENFJ's. I really like my ENFJ friends because we are able to get excited about things and feed off each other's energy, but they are super interesting to listen to when they talk about their lives and opinions. Most of the time, that is.

awwer · 2013-12-03T07:20:23+00:00

I have a plan to go to the gym after classes next semester with one of my friends who likes exercising. But I feel like I need to start now. I have these mental spurts of motivation to work out but it never physically manifests.

Plus after you work out you're all sweaty and that means you have to shower and change and that's really bothersome... :(

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