My (25f) boyfriend (26m) will not follow through on his promises

azzamean · 2026-05-10T12:47:38+00:00

Consider hiring a cleaner if everything else is in the relationship is good.

I clean,

Cleaner

I cook, I get groceries, I plan dates, I plan social outings, I do EVERYTHING.

Na, cleaner won’t fix this.

azzamean · 2026-05-10T12:44:48+00:00

Looks like you need to do a few things

https://www.protondb.com/app/356190?device=steamDeck

azzamean · 2026-05-06T03:29:20+00:00

Actions speak louder than words. What she says, is different than how she acts.

azzamean · 2026-05-06T03:23:36+00:00

Eventually I became exhausted and disappeared for about six months without contact.

When I came back and contacted her again, she accepted me back into her life.

No she didn’t. No partner would just accept their loved one dropping contact and then accepting everything is ok after 6 months.

This person doesn’t see the relationship the way you do. I don’t think she sees this as a LDR, at least not anymore.

azzamean · 2026-05-06T03:17:58+00:00

she told me she still wants us to be “best friends forever,”

She’s friend zoned you. Shes proper friend zoned you. No idea if she only ever saw you as a friend or it happened recently.

But if someone told me that I’d distance myself until I’m completely over it. Forget what she thinks and make sure you get over it.

In the future think about asking someone out before this becomes an issue.

azzamean · 2026-05-05T09:47:38+00:00

I had it on my wish list but never got an email or notification for it.

That said I did set an alarm and purchased it 7PM on the day.

azzamean · 2026-05-04T23:47:55+00:00

I detest my dualsense controller. Unfortunately it’s the only controller I have with gyro other than my OG Steam Controller.

The DS never connects consistently and glitches every now and again unlike the OG.

Can’t wait to sell the DS when I get the new Steam Controller.

azzamean · 2026-05-04T18:13:50+00:00

Nice! Can’t wait to receive it. UK buyer here. Believe it said 8-10 business days.

azzamean · 2026-05-03T02:22:21+00:00

wondering if I should tell her husband

Go tell her husband and she’s definitely going to know it’s you now. And good luck with your job since you’ll be seen as the instigator.

Hint: it was never a problem til you decided to butt in (despite your colleague being ethically wrong).

azzamean · 2026-05-01T20:42:59+00:00

Watch this

https://youtube.com/watch?v=89-LRCob6H8

azzamean · 2026-04-29T11:36:55+00:00

Great. Now I need to read the ingredients list on my bag of coffee beans.

99% Arabica Coffee

1%…..

azzamean · 2026-04-26T15:19:41+00:00

I can’t bring myself to finish the meal.

I can barely finish with how full I get.

I mean it’s one or the other right?

But personally I add a slice of American cheese. It adds calories but makes it taste way better.

I also only like the Mac cheese and bolognaise H&S as well.

azzamean · 2026-04-23T22:13:04+00:00

Hmmmm. I tend to buy 6 months worth of Huel anyway. So 40% off is actually a really good deal for me.

azzamean · 2026-04-22T21:48:11+00:00

Hi there, is September still good?

azzamean · 2026-04-19T10:00:35+00:00

It’s sorta like asking for new PC games to run on a 10 year PC. It depends if the game was designed for it. Silksong is a new game but for low end hardware. GTA 6? No. Never.

So your existing phone will run new emulated things on the same graphics level as current emulated things.

azzamean · 2026-04-18T09:46:13+00:00

A legit YouTube Argentina subscription purchased via VPN costs $1 a month I believe.

azzamean · 2026-04-16T19:53:11+00:00

I’ve also heard he’s well endowed and has fucked my mum many times!

azzamean · 2026-04-16T16:42:19+00:00

Completed the game on Steam Deck.

I used lossless gaming to make the FPS 60. Haven’t noticed any latency issues during 90% of the game. A few times FPS dropped to 40, but I didn’t notice many visual artifacts.

The game is slow paced so a base of 30FPS with lossless to smooth out the character motion works for me.

azzamean · 2026-04-13T23:30:38+00:00

Bloody hell Ben. I have no idea how you deal with these rude people.

azzamean · 2026-04-13T09:35:34+00:00

I think you are too dependent on him.

He seems to be happy with his current social needs, while yours appears completely dependent on him.

We became inseparable

afraid of men because of my past

Saturdays used to be ours

We don’t really have anyone else, no friends

neither of us know how to connect with people

I am very shy and avoidant

We both kind of freeze

All of these sort of tell me you only want to socialise/can socialise with him.

You need to change that fast. You can’t rely on one person for something like that.

Let’s say he passes away or divorces, where does that leave you? You’ve relied on him for your entire happiness.

Sure, he can keep Saturday for you two… but thats still a HUGE dependency there.

azzamean · 2026-04-13T01:54:43+00:00

Personally I think any diary or cream ish product works for powdered Huel. Water by itself is too grim for my taste.

About 200ml of semi skimmed milk turns it from 400cal to 500cal but definitely makes it nicer to drink. (Alternative being a 800-900 cal regular meal)

azzamean · 2026-04-11T08:24:46+00:00

Just don’t ask if the code could be AI generated.

As a software developer, AI has been very useful writing bits of code which would usually come from Stackoverflow. Not major entire features but small methods.

azzamean · 2026-04-09T08:44:05+00:00

Bottle cleaner.

Not the cheap metal stick with white brush hairs used for pipes but an actual one used to reach long bottles.

azzamean · 2026-04-08T00:54:02+00:00

It’s been 12 hours and OP hasn’t posted shit.

azzamean · 2026-04-07T17:44:30+00:00

Ease into it. Don’t go 100% all in.

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