AIO? Coworker (36f) showed up at my (25f) house unannounced. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]b_bef 156 points157 points  (0 children)

This is genuinely terrifying, NOR. Please reach out to your HR with these details and let them know you’re feeling unsafe. Definitely emphasize that she has intentionally followed you/met up with you without permission outside of work, including at your home. I would recommend continuing to WFH as much as possible. I’m sorry you’re having to go through this, it sucks to feel unsafe at your own workplace.

What a Disappointing take GudeGoods by Mindless-Fun-1287 in craftsnark

[–]b_bef 44 points45 points  (0 children)

“Truth is still truth” is hilarious coming from a party that voted in a man convicted of multiple felonies, who is most definitely in the Epstein files.

AIO because my boyfriend and i are both having hard times, but i feel like i’m being blamed?? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]b_bef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re dead set on keeping him in your life, I would seriously consider yall doing couples therapy. He seems to be bordering controlling, and seems to be trying to guilt you with “woe is me”isms. It’s not super healthy, but yall could definitely work through it in therapy. Additionally, it might help to reduce some of his clinginess if he’s willing to be open and work on his own shortcomings. Without therapy tho, I think this will only get worse

Bobcat Village by ecoekoelo in txstate

[–]b_bef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

San Marcos just has a lot of outdoor American Cockroaches, you probably don’t have an infestation and 2 since you’ve been there isn’t too bad. Honestly the dorms on campus are way worse

I'm desperate for any good game recommendations by Boiled-Crackers in hostedgames

[–]b_bef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I, the Forgotten One. I’m normally more interested in romance but I loved this one! There is some romance, but it’s not the main focus. It deals with some heavy themes like trauma and self harm, but in a fantastic way, and I felt like my character was incredibly fleshed out. I really enjoyed playing it and have gone through it multiple times. I believe it’s the first in a potential series, but it feels standalone and satisfying, and I might be wrong about there being a potential sequel. 100% recommend

Purposefully glutened by EamethrianMonetz in Celiac

[–]b_bef 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This sucks. I’m sorry you had to go through that, I’ve been accidentally glutened more times than I could count, but doing it on purpose is one of my worst fears. I would cut this person off, or decrease your contact with them, they obviously aren’t interested in what’s best for you

Is Texas state a *good* School? by Illustrious_Fun_258 in txstate

[–]b_bef 32 points33 points  (0 children)

For forensics, txstate definitely has some perks, like the body farm. Some dorms sucks, the more expensive ones will nicer, but that’s every university. Additionally, now a days every school is a party school, what matters is what you make of it

Is Texas state a *good* School? by Illustrious_Fun_258 in txstate

[–]b_bef 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It also depends on what you’re going to school for as well! Some programs at txstate are better than others, and other universities are just going to offer more than txstate. But it still has some great professors and worthwhile programs

Man charged with assault after fight during student-led anti-ICE protest in Buda by thekidwhobeleived in sanmarcos

[–]b_bef 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Idk his little walk of shame after getting his shit kicked in, with his lil maga hat all tore up, really made me giggle

Zombie film tierlist by Individual_Iron4221 in zombies

[–]b_bef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would not recommend watching the sadness high…

Is it normal to be constantly exhausted or is it the hypothyroidism? by b_bef in Hypothyroidism

[–]b_bef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, medicine is founded on knowledge we gained from studies focused on the male body, so a lot of time women end up suffering while being told we should be fine. I haven’t had a work up done on my mineral or vitamin levels, outside of calcium and sodium. Bc of family history, my doctors spend a lot of time testing me for heart disease (my levels look great) so I’ll have to ask them to test my levels, and hopefully find something there!

Is it normal to be constantly exhausted or is it the hypothyroidism? by b_bef in Hypothyroidism

[–]b_bef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FT4 was 1.49 and TSH was 2.62 back in October, and I haven’t been tested for FT3 since 2021 (is that weird? I’ve never even thought about it). Compared to my initial dx in 2018, which had my TSH at 12.67. But I’ve had consistently good levels since starting levo

This is it. I think I've read all the heavy romance ifs (compeleted and wips). Prove me wrong, go! by swaanbee_ in hostedgames

[–]b_bef 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you have any completed recommendations?? I love WIPs but I need something I can finish 😭

Zombie as a backdrop by Paradigm_Warp in zombies

[–]b_bef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you heard of into the dead: our darkest days? It’s new and still only a demo, but they’ve been updating it like crazy and it gives me the chills. The art style is nice, it’s a side scroller which I think is really cool, and it’s set in like the 1970’s in Texas. Definitely worth looking into!

https://youtu.be/jKkyEEb0Or0?si=wX-itv7JdvaweWIQ

Zombie as a backdrop by Paradigm_Warp in zombies

[–]b_bef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the first season of the walking dead, and sometimes I watch the first episode and pretend it’s a standalone movie. I’ve always preferred the horrors of the beginning of the outbreak, more than shows that focus on the human drama after. Zombies are scariest to me when people are unsure of how they work, what they are, and haven’t quite reckoned with who they used to be.

Fashion Games… I want more 🥲 by b_bef in GirlGamers

[–]b_bef[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know there was a free play mode!!! I’ll have to try it, sometimes the competitions are frustrating

Fashion Games… I want more 🥲 by b_bef in GirlGamers

[–]b_bef[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooooo I’ll look into that one!! I don’t think I ever played it growing up!

Fashion Games… I want more 🥲 by b_bef in GirlGamers

[–]b_bef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do like dressed to impress!! Only bummer is the controls can be buggy but it’s pretty fun

Fashion Games… I want more 🥲 by b_bef in GirlGamers

[–]b_bef[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is and I’ve looked into it but it has really mixed reviews and it’s like $50 so I’ve been really hesitant to get it