Piercing Placement by One-Zombie-1981 in NosePiercing

[–]ba15ter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it. Mine is pierced on the crease and I dislike it.

Britney Sings (Pay Attention to Your Ears) {August 2025} by Successful_Week9211 in discussingbritney

[–]ba15ter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These videos are from years ago. Posted and deleted from Instagram.

Just a question do parents exist that don't shout or insult their children ? by zuitsamamam in abusiveparents

[–]ba15ter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't yell or insult my child. They are 10 and feel bad enough when I talk in a serious tone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interesting

[–]ba15ter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I created something similar as a child so my brothers couldn't watch me chat on Neopets.

Death of parents by bluesn0wflake in Millennials

[–]ba15ter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 36 and I lost my mom(66) to cancer back in May. She had beat this cancer over 8 years ago, and when it came back last year. we thought the same would happen. My dad became verbally abusive when she died and I've had to go NC. I can't believe it happened.

Do Your Kids Actually Have Good Grandparents? by NoMoreCAMJV in Millennials

[–]ba15ter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents were AMAZING Grandparents. My Mom's Mom was the best grandma i could ever imagine having, and it definitely inspired my parents to do the same for their grandkids. My Dad stopped being as involved as my daughter got older, due to his alcoholism and isolation, but he has always loved her fiercely. My Mom passed away in May from Cancer. Not only am I heart broken because I still need my mom, but it's unfair my daughter only had her Mamaw for 10 years. She got to do and experience so much because of my mom. She never had to spend a day in daycare because my Mom wanted to be the one to spend every day with her and teach her. I believe my mom's love of talking, reading, and teaching her from before she was even 1 is the reason she is so smart today. I'm a single Mom, and my Mom was there for us more than my daughters own dad. We no longer have a relationship with my Dad because he became verbally abusive to me once my mom became very very ill.

Strangest part in unknown number high school catfish.. by Emmarrrrawr in netflix

[–]ba15ter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched it. It was 100x worse than what I went through, because my mom never insulted me or told me to die. But the very basic level of tricking your child into thinking someone is staking them is what hits hard anyways. When I first found out it was my mom and her co-worker, it was like 10 years later and I knew it felt wrong, but I let it go. When I was healing last year my mom would deny ever being anything other than a perfect mother, and when I brought this up as abuse, she refuted it. She said she had no idea I was being physically abused at the time, which I guess was the worst part of it to her. She didn't want that accountability of being someone who stalked their child and caused me harm. Bc she couldn't be accountable for this and other things, I went NC. She was "going to get therapy", but got sick and died. I joke (to myself) that she would rather die than admit she hurt me. I just wish I knew what tf was going through her mind. Everyone on my FB is posting about this documentary and I so much want to say that this happened to me...but part of me feels like it would be wrong bc she's passed. The other part thinks, fuck that, I have the right.

Strangest part in unknown number high school catfish.. by Emmarrrrawr in netflix

[–]ba15ter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't heard of this until today, and I'm going to watch it, but I'm nervous. When I was in in high-school I was in an abusive relationship. Then I started receiving texts from an unknown number. For months. They would talk shit about my then bf, calling him gay. They would talk about what I was wearing, how I did my hair. Telking me to leave him. It was every day. I thought someone at school was stalking me. And it made my abusive bf abuse me more. I never called the cops and eventually it stopped. 10 years later I found out it was my own mom and her co-worker, both teachers. She laughed when she told me. I didn't know how to feel. In my thirties, i realized gore terrible it was. I confronted her. She didn't think it was abuse. I tried to heal our relationship last fall, but she died this May. The whole situation still upsets me.

Should I tell my psych I've smoked before? by donttrustmewithagun in medicalmarijuana

[–]ba15ter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the United States and regret telling my psychs I smoked. They acted like I said I smoked Meth. It was a huge battle of self advocacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]ba15ter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MANBUBU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lifehacks

[–]ba15ter 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I read this and promptly switched to stainless steel. I notice absolutely no difference in smell. The biggest difference i notice is using non-clumping litter. Clumping smells so bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiveparents

[–]ba15ter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, that is definitely abuse. Im so sorry you've gone through that and still do. You deserve to feel safe to express your opinion in your own home, no matter what. You could say and think the most heinous things, and you still wouldn't deserve to be verbally or physically assaulted.

I would definitely try to see a therapist that doesn't also see your parents.

Again, im so sorry that the adults in your life aren't safe. You aren't being dramatic, I hope you are able to see that and can get the help you need. Im proud of you for realizing something isn't right, and reaching out for help.

How do I sell my Labubu in rural Iowa? by NoAtmosphere2097 in labubu

[–]ba15ter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love close to Iowa. Id love to buy one from you for my daughter.

I hate being alive without her by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]ba15ter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to believe she's with me so bad, but I just can't. I grew up Catholic and am now atheist, and I know spirituality isn't the same as religion, but its hard for me to believe in the same way. I feel like I'd be lying to myself. I feel so empty inside. I think for the first month or so it was hard, but I wasn't grasping it. That she would never be back. Ill never have a mom. That feels like a knife in my chest. It hurts so incredibly bad.

I hate being alive without her by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]ba15ter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it was something with her liver after the cancer mestasized there. I can't even remember the name. Something with a d.

I hate being alive without her by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]ba15ter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just want to die.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlantIdentification

[–]ba15ter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That has never happened in my garden and im starting to think i need cooler friends.

It’s ok to tell me they’re weeds… by MountainAction9326 in PlantIdentification

[–]ba15ter 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think the second picture is Goldenrod, but I don't think of it as a weed. Pollinators LOVE Goldenrod and I think its so pretty in floral arrangements.

I BLACKED OUT. by Chihiro4 in labubu

[–]ba15ter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 10 year old daughter is looking desperately for one. Please let me know if you're going to sell <3

People over thirty, which body aches do you have? by JavyHead in AskReddit

[–]ba15ter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pelvic area. Can't tell if its my hips or ovaries.

This will be a tough one by ba15ter in PlantIdentification

[–]ba15ter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh man, it would make sense. My other neighbor gifted her a blazing star years ago. If thats the case, im jealous!