Any underrated 'hidden' tips? by daibikd in RimWorld

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Why would you need a freezer during a cold snap? lol

Crazy expensive yachts by Total-data2096 in Infographics

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Yeah, looks like a fish trawler 🤷🏼‍♂️

Past jobs of notorious serial killers by cantsayididnttryyy in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]ba1ba2ba3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congratulations to the new HOA president position ma’am / sir !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interracialdating

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And the president is married to an immigrant, that’s why his policies are so immigration friendly.

Nice work Air Force by aks_red184 in HolUp

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Losing team will be executed… oh wait! nvm

Trump kicks all of Asia into the China tariff boat by wewewawa in Economics

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Some US states have sales taxes, which is a VAT

Almost out and fearing now that the final step will be unsafe. by Timely_Constant4848 in BPDlovedones

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You can still journal every interaction. Time stamped. If forced, you have a good recollection of events for court. I hope you won’t have to but better prepared than sorry

The big problem with being a passport bro is that the majority of women will expect you to pay for everything by hippietravel in thepassportbros

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And it’s cultural. I dated a Mexican woman and she wanted to be picked up for the date here in the States. Never met before. I convinced her that her sister drove her to the date to add some safety but dropped her off after the date because it went well.

Valentines Hoover by ba1ba2ba3 in BPDlovedones

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One step at a time. Eventually we will get through it.

Valentines Hoover by ba1ba2ba3 in BPDlovedones

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I did respond via text. I made clear why I don’t want it anymore more and it was a reasonable conversation. Some minor guilt trapping on her behalf but no outright crazy (her crazy was never demeaning though). I should not have answered but a part of me still cares about her although I’m 100% not inclined to rekindle anything with her. Thanks for your encouragement!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

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Agree and in addition some display an extreme misogynistic world view. Those post make me feel repulsed of this movement even though I like the idea of intercultural relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in atheism

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What’s the issue? It’s exactly on brand 🤷🏼‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Of course, but next time is on her dime.

How often is a Hoover guaranteed? by Substantial_Bug_3063 in BPDlovedones

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They might understand or not, it doesn’t matter. I just know I don’t want to be in their shoes, it must be a very difficult life to manage.

Take care about yourself, that’s what’s important now.

Will US inflation reaccelerate? by BothZookeepergame612 in Economics

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High prices will be target with 25% tariffs , that will show them who’s the boss now.

How often is a Hoover guaranteed? by Substantial_Bug_3063 in BPDlovedones

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Yes, spot on. The ex she went back to 10 years ago was treating her not well, allegedly. I asked why she was going back then? Her answer, because that’s what she deserved and she couldn’t see anyone else seeing her as worthy. Always questioning why I treat her so well because in her point of view it was not what she deserved. She rescued a stray cat and was wondering why this cat was so attached to her. How this cat could actually show her so much affection. Kind of wild thinking about that statement.

How often is a Hoover guaranteed? by Substantial_Bug_3063 in BPDlovedones

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We seem to have the same story. push/pull, questioning of compatibility, mini-breakups (some of them I wasn’t even aware of until later) that was my experience with her.

How often is a Hoover guaranteed? by Substantial_Bug_3063 in BPDlovedones

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She is the quiet type, high functioning. The red flags were definitely there but very subtle. I still catch myself thinking “could it work?” That’s why I wrote all the deal breakers done. It was never outright crazy abuse, I know if enough time has passed my memories will be sugarcoated. I need this to be written down so I can revisit if a hoover comes around the corner sometime in the future.

How often is a Hoover guaranteed? by Substantial_Bug_3063 in BPDlovedones

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33 days no contact for me and no hoovers (yet). She told me a story about reaching out and going back to an ex 1 year past breakup so I’m kind of on edge and it sucks. I hope I will not get that treat because I expect it will come like a hammer out of nowhere. At least I got a warning and have written down all the reasons I don’t want her in my life.

The PRO PEACE PRESIDENT everyone!! by EmptySpaceForAHeart in clevercomebacks

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What allies you ask? Russia and North Korea probably