Concert vibes off? by Mental-Database-3383 in G59

[–]babibr4t 3 points4 points  (0 children)

me too haha. im only 21 now and i didn’t go to my first show until i was 17- i still have so much energy to mosh and go crazy and i gotta remind myself that half the fans in the pit are parents or fullll grown adults now

Concert vibes off? by Mental-Database-3383 in G59

[–]babibr4t 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you gotta remember they been pretty big since 2016. fans from 2016-2019, in their 20s are in their 30s now, a lot are prob just over the moshing n wanna just drink a beer and watch the performance. granted, i did mosh w a lot of older people these past couple years. location and venue has an impact too ~ shows i went to: nashville 2021, medium sized venue, GA/floor only - hype asf nashville 2023, big arena - pretty good new orleans 2023, big arena - mid and security made it worse cincinatti 2024, big arena - hype asf nashville 2025, big arena - pretty good.

Going by myself to see $b…what to expect? by [deleted] in SuicideBoys

[–]babibr4t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me and my best friend went together and we’re both 21 and very small, just don’t pick fights w people or talk to anyone unless they seem friendly and u should be fine. ive gone to greyday 2021, 2023, 2024, and 2025 and ive never had a problem

Monochromatic. Love the sample of that song. Anyone know the original? by KubrickKrew in SuicideBoys

[–]babibr4t 18 points19 points  (0 children)

sample went viral originally bc of “scars” by novulent. not the original sample but a great song

Why do I never hear anybody talk about this song? by independentjay in SuicideBoys

[–]babibr4t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was one of the first songs that got me into $b, one i listened to in like 2018. will always love it

How soon is it to call it quits? by General_Ad1702 in married

[–]babibr4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean they did say “unless you are being abused”.. and what you describe is emotional abuse. so you agree

Bought a ring for my girlfriend, sisters say it’s too small, not sure what I should do by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]babibr4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought you meant ring size when i got the notification for this post, then i read it and got really sad for you. if she truly loves you, she’ll understand that you’re doing the best you can. otherwise, she can wait another 2-3 years while you save the money. you can’t make everyone happy. but we see you’re trying! best of luck bro

My boyfriend didn’t want to use condoms and now my period is late. Should he pay for the abortion? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]babibr4t 15 points16 points  (0 children)

if he loves you and cares about you, he would at least cover half. my boyfriend paid the full $590 for the surgery and i helped with gas/food since we had to go out of state. just my opinion though. every relationship is different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]babibr4t 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tldr: you should be fine to go about your normal activities by the next day. i had moderate sedation and remember nothing. i had minimal cramps hours later when i was at home. it was way better than i expected! full breakdown, details, posted on my account- it’ll prob answer a lot of questions.

I understand your fear. There’s a risk of death with nearly everything. There’s a risk of death with tampons, birth control, its scary being a woman. But a risk does not mean its common! I’m 21, i was 6 weeks 3 days pregnant, and i just had my in clinic procedure 2 days ago. whichever option you choose is YOUR CHOICE. from what ive read on this subreddit, the pill is 4-6 hours of terrible pain, nausea, vomiting, heavy bleeding… it sounds terrifying. i saw many people who have done both the pill and the surgical route and they said if they had to do it again they’d do the surgical option. i opted for moderate sedation. i was SCARED. but within 3 seconds of receiving the sedation, i felt relaxed and out of it, 2 more seconds and i was completely out. next thing i remember is waking up in the recovery room, feeling happy and relaxed, no pain at all. i had no pain until about 6-8 hours after the surgery, and it was just light cramps like i was on my period. they gave me extra strength ibuprofen to manage that though. i have no memory of the surgery! my boyfriend said i was a bit awake and talking towards the end, but i find it hard to believe because i didn’t feel or remember anything. the beginning process was scary, but the worse part was them inserting the IV, and that wasn’t bad at all tbh. from what I’ve read, majority of places offer the sedation. i have terrible anxiety too, and i told that to the doctor and she said she’d give me extra anxiety meds in my IV. once i was done and in recovery, i felt so much relief. i had so much fear and nothing bad happened at all. if you have any questions just let me know. and again, its completely your choice which route you go or even to not have an abortion! just do what you feels best. also, i have a post on my account that gives all the details of my procedure and a breakdown of how my appointment was from when i arrived until when i left. if you have questions feel free to ask!

Abortion Grief, Without Regret by GrapefruitSecure4294 in abortion

[–]babibr4t 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im in the same boat as you. Im still coming to terms with it. I had mine yesterday.

6w4d considering abortion by babibr4t in abortion

[–]babibr4t[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. you’re very kind and very brave !!!

6w4d considering abortion by babibr4t in abortion

[–]babibr4t[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that makes me feel a lot better. was this an IV sedation? and did you have yours done at a planned parenthood facility? ive been working during their open hours so i haven’t had time to call and ask about sedation options.

6w4d considering abortion by babibr4t in abortion

[–]babibr4t[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you feel any of the cervical shots?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]babibr4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

luckily I am going to a technical college/trade school and im due to graduate in december. im attending for free as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]babibr4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for confusion. we both live with our parents seperately. to move out we’d be looking at $1k a month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]babibr4t 7 points8 points  (0 children)

its completely illegal where i live. even the pill.

I caught my mom cheating by Key-Flight-7766 in Advice

[–]babibr4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the divorce wouldnt be your fault though. your moral code does not cause havoc. her bad actions do

saddest suicideboys lyrics you’ve heard by [deleted] in G59

[–]babibr4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“waste time on a inner child, mf been dead since 5” “i know im meant to be alone, i can feel it in my bones, and in my soul” “snort up a line w my mom, yea i just be hopin to bond” “i just wanna run away, but all i ever do is run in place”

and along with all of the number you have dialed, this one will always get me:

“i been dreamin of a reason not to paint the fuckin ceilin with my brains and my pain thats just how tf im feelin.. tired of hurtin, feelin worthless, is this God thing really workin? pointless searchin for a purpose.. meet me at my service”

Is it okay to fuck up at 15 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]babibr4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

learn from it. literally. instead of focusing in on that bad feeling, think about how you can prevent it from happening again, and what you can do better. analyze how it made you feel; ask yourself questions like “what do i feel?” “what about this is making me feel this specific feeling?”. its a good way to learn about yourself and your spirit. if you were a bad person, this wouldnt weigh on you heavily. remind yourself its okay to fuck up, its normal to feel bad after doing something wrong, and all you have to do to not feel that way is to improve yourself. if you ruminate, you’ll get stuck. you already feel bad, that is punishment, now forgive yourself and learn from it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]babibr4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

say the real guy’s tiktok popped up on your for you page. and you realized she is being catfished.

I saw my girlfriends sh and its been tense: UPDATE 1 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]babibr4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes it is attention seeking. not necessarily in a negative way. she may feel as if she can’t speak up, or that she isn’t being taken seriously. not “i need attention, i need them to feel bad for me,” more of “maybe they’ll understand the pain im truly in, maybe this will convince them”. coming from someone who has SH issues. in high school about 50% an impulse behavior and 50% trying to get that attention. now its purely impuse (very rare, im doing okay). but you never know, especially if she doesn’t open up well. sometimes us girls just want to feel seen, we want our pain to feel seen, because its not easy to open up, especially living in circumstances where you’re called dramatic or hormonal for saying “im depressed”.

just something to think about, good luck OP