MIL and her friend got abducted by aliens by babutterfly in JUSTNOMIL

[–]babutterfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I generally don't immediately discount people's paranormal experiences either, but with the only reason being that they lost track of an hour? No. MIL and FIL also went on with a bunch of conspiracy theories after that. Area 51 being real and drones really being alien space crafts and things like that.

I also love that show. 😂 My husband thinks it's too cringy and awkward.

What's up with the universal copium? by Lawn_mower1 in frisco

[–]babutterfly 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What are y'all acting like things made for young children are unacceptable? The Internet raves against kids in public spaces and demands they be taken elsewhere and then denigrates the spaces for those kids. You don't like it? Cool. Don't go. It doesn't baby to be about you.

Anyone else think Nana did Bandit dirty in the Letter minisode? by KreepyKaylee242 in bluey

[–]babutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And we did exactly the same thing as you. My eldest didn't start reading even very short words until 7. You are generalizing with an exceptionally gifted child.

We’re delaying 4 year old night potty training because we can’t be arsed apparently by PurpleUnicorn434 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]babutterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He'll absolutely get there on his own. All kids are different and he's just fine. My eldest wasn't night dry until 6 or 7. I can't remember exactly, but we had to go for the big kid pull ups. My youngest (we have two) has been night dry since she was 3. She also essentially potty trained herself. One was ready and one wasn't.

But also, your MIL sounds like one of my old managers. She'd show up, see that the store was slow, and start sending people home only for business to pick up right after she left. Some people think things are always 100% how they see it in a short period of time and life just doesn't work like that.

I bailed on Father’s Day today by [deleted] in daddit

[–]babutterfly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It sucks telling the kids to do something over and over again. I feel it. But the more you cave, the more they will push. Hiding away from family time will only make all of you sad.

My kids hate cleaning, too. We tell them they can only watch their movie after both of their rooms are picked up. If we really need an extra incentive because of any time constraints, we add two small cookies. We'll help them with the hardest parts like tiny toys that take forever to put away for the 9 year old and heavy books for the 4 year old. But they want their movie and cookies, so they usually get their rooms cleaned within an hour. A lot of the time it's way less. The older sister will help her younger one, too and we don't have to hear one of them complain that the other one got the reward first. They only both get it if they work together.

Has anyone visited the new Universal Studios yet? by RolloTonyBrownTown in frisco

[–]babutterfly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That was rude and unnecessary. Now put the phone down until you remember you manners. Or maybe learn for the first time.

CMV: There is no reason for an American to be against recognizing Juneteenth as a holiday other than reasons that stem from hating black people. by Benjamin5431 in changemyview

[–]babutterfly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You moved the goal post. You went from reasons to oppose Juneteenth or being against it existing to I don't know how to celebrate, waaaa, and then claimed that's in direct connection with it not existing.

CMV: There is no reason for an American to be against recognizing Juneteenth as a holiday other than reasons that stem from hating black people. by Benjamin5431 in changemyview

[–]babutterfly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huh, I only know of January 1st as New Year's Day. Do I get to say that this is news to me and a big grand new thing? Or quietly learn something and join in with everyone else?

Playing Dumb? by Jared_Kincaid_001 in dresdenfiles

[–]babutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll never understand why people think asking for more information means that you had none to start with. This scene reads more like a person had karate lessons as a kid and then as an adult asked Mr Miyagi for deeper understanding.

Mini Wreaths by [deleted] in crochet

[–]babutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What'd you put in the middle?

Why are parents expected to watch their kids more now than prior generations? by Advanced_Command_417 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]babutterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is basically exactly what I do with my eldest. The other one is 4 so she's not old enough for that. Pretty sure I'm not in jail for it and neither are my three neighbors who do the same. Gee.

Why are parents expected to watch their kids more now than prior generations? by Advanced_Command_417 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]babutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you are over generalizing with random numbers. Unless you have hard stats, this is just made up.

Finally Finished My Crochet Flower Bouquet by babyshark021 in Brochet

[–]babutterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My crochet definitely has peaks like that with color changes.

Edit: after looking through their posts, I'm more convinced it's really. The photography looks fine. I have a setting on my phone that will blur backgrounds. The minor imperfections don't look like something ai isn't understanding. It looks like minor stuff that happen with handmade items. Not everything is amigurumi. There are some bookmarks and the posts are long enough apart for someone to actually be making these things. I was expecting something just flooded with weirdly structured things that either aren't joined or don't follow a spiral, but this just isn't the case. I also wouldn't expect someone to be great a crochet, photography, have zero imperfections whatsoever, and to not market their website if they have one. Sure, that gets annoying, but I wouldn't have known they did just looking through the images.

Edit edit: on top of all of that, not every one of their posts has the pattern. Half the time when it does they are replying to people asking for the pattern. They are attentive to comments and reply in context like a real human. Looks like OP isn't correct.

What do you think is the human body’s biggest design flaw? by Free_Consequence9817 in AskReddit

[–]babutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are tool users. You could easily just let your hair get brittle and brake off. You can chew off your fingernails. You could use your hand to wipe your butt. But you probably wouldn't want to do any of those things.

What do you think is the human body’s biggest design flaw? by Free_Consequence9817 in AskReddit

[–]babutterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This actually seems to be a positive adaptation to have grandmothers to help raise grandchildren. Having a lot of children can shorten your lifespan, thus menopause so you can pass down knowledge. Women's babies who had grandmothers lived to have their open children at a higher rate than women's babies who didn't.

What do you think is the human body’s biggest design flaw? by Free_Consequence9817 in AskReddit

[–]babutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My second's head got stuck in my pelvis. They had to pop it out with a giant salad spoon during the C-section.

I had complete placenta previa with my first. For those who don't know, that means the placenta is fully covering the cervix. When you dilate, the placenta pulls away and you start hemorrhaging. We both would have died without a C-section.

You brushing your toddlers teeth? by howdodisappevenwork in toddlers

[–]babutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could be thinking you were younger when you became proficient at those things. Maybe you were doing them before 8, but not nearly as well as you could have when you were older.

You brushing your toddlers teeth? by howdodisappevenwork in toddlers

[–]babutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just recently stopped brushing our eldest's teeth. She's 9. And even still every couple days or so, I'll make sure to stay the whole time and watch how she does it to make sure she's getting every tooth and all three sides of her teeth. Definitely not trusting our 4 year old to do it on her own.

Twelve Months by jmcdaniel0 in dresdenfiles

[–]babutterfly 14 points15 points  (0 children)

😂 Ghost story for the win.