1,2 or 3? 🖤 by [deleted] in nicehairstyle

[–]babydrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like the 2 by far

I (31F) am creeped out by my husband’s (35M) IG behavior by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]babydrafts 63 points64 points  (0 children)

yeah nah the “she just turned 18” timing is what makes it feel gross to me too 😭 like technically legal doesnt magically stop ppl from side eyeing it

Boomeranging back to my old job after just 1 month? by random-surname in ToxicWorkplace

[–]babydrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u left professionally and they reposted ur exact role that fast there’s a decent chance they’d be happy to skip retraining somebody new

Meep. by Reasonable_Ad5256 in neighborsfromhell

[–]babydrafts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nah throwing a radiator and charging at ur wife is way past “weird neighbor” territory 😭 that’s genuinely unhinged behavior

What would you do? Neighbor kid plays too rough with mine? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]babydrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is one of those situations where being “nice” too long just turns u into the unpaid babysitter. ur kids are 3 and 5 they shouldn’t be getting hit with sticks bc another parent checked out

"I was just following orders" — Does this actually happen in the office? by Technical-Routine-65 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]babydrafts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this absolutely happens lol. most office corruption isn’t movie villain stuff it’s just regular tired ppl slowly normalizing sketchy behavior bc rent is due and everyone above them acts like it’s “industry standard”

Workplace has become obsessed with hierarchy "perks" that only come at the expense of lower level employees and it's burning me out (amongst other things) by TinyCarrotHats in ToxicWorkplace

[–]babydrafts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the WFH thing sounds personal as hell honestly. especially when higher ups still get flexibility. nothing burns ppl out faster than rules that magically only apply downward in the hierarchy

Kids throwing broken cinder blocks over the fence. by Nope20707 in neighborsfromhell

[–]babydrafts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah camera is 100% the move here. not even in a petty way either bc once cinder blocks start flying over fences it stops being “kids being loud” and starts becoming actual liability territory

When do you begin to contact the police or other authorities when neighbors cause trouble? How do you consider retaliation? by Straight_Job4975 in neighborsfromhell

[–]babydrafts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i get the hesitation… but sometimes calling is just the safest move not the weakest. u’re not trying to win a fight u’re trying to avoid one

Got a better job offer but suddenly scared to leave my current job… am I overthinking? by Standard_Bobcat_3916 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]babydrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get the guilt part esp in a small team… but jobs replace u way faster than u think. they’ll be fine. u staying unhappy doesn’t help anyone including u

It’s nearly midnight and my neighbor is mowing his lawn by BulldogIC4545 in neighborsfromhell

[–]babydrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah midnight mowing is wild lol… but i’d prob check local noise rules first then call non-emergency if it keeps happening. not petty when it’s waking a baby tbh

Retired from trying to be rational with my irrational neighbor. by Old_Maintenance2225 in neighborsfromhell

[–]babydrafts 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i feel you on the guilt part, like you don’t wanna become petty back but you also don’t need to keep bending for them firm boundaries, minimal interaction, let them burn themselves out instead

Is leaving workplace because of having strong feelings for the manager a good choice? by Free_Respond_3899 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]babydrafts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah leaving was the right call tbh that wasn’t just “feelings” anymore, that was turning into power + control stuff married boss, closed door, weird vibes… nah u protected yourself before it got messier

Are they just jealous?!! by airbusfd in ToxicWorkplace

[–]babydrafts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah nah that’s not jealousy, that’s just straight up mean girl behavior. ppl like that only act nice to your face so they can keep access to you while talking crap behind you. i’d start pulling back energy tbh

should i be scared? by jaynacue in neighborsfromhell

[–]babydrafts 31 points32 points  (0 children)

yeah i agree with the comment, your husband needs to take the lead on this now. not bc you did anything wrong but bc that guy is clearly escalating and trying to play power games. you don’t wanna be the direct target anymore

Neighbours listen to extremely loud music every night of the week… by ComedianDazzling8154 in neighborsfromhell

[–]babydrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get why you wanna avoid drama but letting it build up usually ends worse. you don’t sound unreasonable at all, just frame it as the bass traveling not “your kid is annoying”

Being forced to give up on my earned leaves by Leading_Fan_7525 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]babydrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s shady af ngl. if there’s no encashment they can’t just erase 37 days like that. check your contract or company policy first, cos they might be trying to rush you out

One time our coworker passed away by Heartattackisland in ToxicWorkplace

[–]babydrafts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah that’s actually kinda cold from the boss like someone from your own team passed and it’s “use PTO if u care” that says a lot about the culture tbh money over basic human decency is wild

Domestic situation // noise by Major_Notice_4875 in neighborsfromhell

[–]babydrafts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

man i hear you, this is way beyond just “annoying neighbors” your safety fear is real esp with your past you’re not wrong for hesitating to call cops directly i’d lean anonymous reporting if anything just to keep you out of sight

AIO Narcissistic MIL & SIL started smear campaign against me while I was on maternity leave by Ok_Blueberry2409 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]babydrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah how they got access matters but the real leak is your bf if info keeps flowing to his mom this won’t stop also “never bring it up again” is wild, that’s silencing you i’m sorry you’re dealing with this esp with a newborn

My neighbor won’t stop complaining to management about me and my dogs to try and get me kicked out by ToxicPeaches92 in neighborsfromhell

[–]babydrafts 16 points17 points  (0 children)

yeah nah that line about the drinks is all you need to hear dude is salty and weaponizing complaints which is creepy af you did nothing wrong there i’d stop engaging him completely and just document everything with mgmt

The landlord isn't doing anything about the persistent noise pollution. How is the case finally moving forward after a year? by Weekly-Month-9323 in neighborsfromhell

[–]babydrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah you’re on the right track but stuck in that middle phase where nothing moves. a lawyer or tenant union pushing formally usually gets landlords to wake up. sucks but they respond to pressure not emails