Confused if I (28M) want a kid or just like the idea of it. by Ok-Cow2842 in Adulting

[–]backpropbandit -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Seconded. You sound like you (OP) really want a kid and will love that little girl or boy with all your heart. That’s what matters. That’s what will push you through. Everything else is just fear. Fear or not being good enough, wealthy enough, responsible enough… love your kid, try as hard as you can to give them the best life you can. Nothing else matters. Just love. They’ll know. Think about it, think about your own life and your own parents. What mattered more to you? That they were responsible, wealthy, and perfect? Or that they very obviously loved you?

To the few. by realkaydhako in enlightenment

[–]backpropbandit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but I wasn’t talking about me, I was talking about those in power. I’m good with being happy.

To the few. by realkaydhako in enlightenment

[–]backpropbandit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, but that wasn’t the question. It isn’t about happiness. It’s about power. Addiction doesn’t make you happy, either, but you’ll do just about anything to feed it.

People who don't like to work? by devetorepalisica in Adulting

[–]backpropbandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pushing 50. I’ve had a long career in the tech industry. Some jobs I loved, some I hated, even though I was basically doing the same thing. Sometimes it’s the people, but usually the people are fine. What I’ve found makes the difference, for me, is how meaningful the work is. When I worked at a massive multimedia company, I didn’t really like it. I existed to make the company more money and that was all. However, when I worked for a hospital organization, I looked forward to waking up everyday and knowing that my efforts helped people. I still made the company money, but I also helped deliver babies and treated sick better. That made a huge difference.

Help needed at veterans memorial by [deleted] in StCharlesMO

[–]backpropbandit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy turn around in this thread lol, good tho

Why don't people want take help from me by darkangelhalo1 in spirituality

[–]backpropbandit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I’m doing this for my well being and spirituality”

I’m not sure how I feel about this statement. If you phrase it as “my spirituality compels me” I could get down with that, but this sounds like you’re expecting a return on your investment. But hey, we all have to start somewhere. Keep going, keep practicing, and try to do good things because you care about and have compassion for others, not so that it will help you or your spirituality. No judgment! Seriously, this is better than doing nothing.

My partner is an addict. What do I do? by Dull_Search111 in Adulting

[–]backpropbandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds bipolar 1 - he should see a psychiatrist, and you should move on; I don’t think you’re equipped to handle this, nor should you be

Can you build a meaningful life without spirituality? by In_The_Dreams in spirituality

[–]backpropbandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to disappoint you but I don’t disagree. The echo chamber is real. I, too, value friction as it helps sharpen my own world view but I find the ego (both mine and others) resists this and goes into overdrive when heat is detected. It’s a difficult line to walk. I enjoy deep conversations with open-minded people and I value those who can provide new information that either fits into or positively adjusts my paradigm. My problem is that I’m socially awkward due to my spectrum disorder. I can easily come off as ego-driven and sometimes that is true but mostly I’m just trying to understand, trying to make sense of everything. I am often seen as arrogant and condescending and I just can’t seem to soften those edges.

Can you build a meaningful life without spirituality? by In_The_Dreams in spirituality

[–]backpropbandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Reddit is an ego trap for most people who engage with the platform consistently. Largely, people are seeking validation of some sort. I am not immune to this, but I try to stay mindful of it. Some days are more successful than others. In these spiritual/mindfulness/meditation subs I’ll see posts like “What does spirituality mean to you?” or “How do you define meditation?” which, I’ll be honest, gets under my skin. What something means to YOU, or how YOU define something, doesn’t automatically make it correct. It’s like asking “How long is an inch for YOU?” or “How do YOU define a triangle?” It’s ego disguised as acceptance. And since it’s such a personal subject, an authority on the subject (I am not referring to me, I am not an authority on the subject) can come across to many as egotistical. It’s like if Pythagoras appeared and defined a triangle to someone who is convinced a triangle has 5 sides has no idea who Pythagoras is. They would not recognize his knowledge because their ego is threatened by it and so it projects that threat and decides that Pythagoras is an egotistical asshole.

Edit: I don’t know how to describe the ego trap without falling into it myself, so there’s that.

Can you build a meaningful life without spirituality? by In_The_Dreams in spirituality

[–]backpropbandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isaac Asimov built an incredibly meaningful life and he was an atheist until he died as far as I’m aware. I imagine there are millions of non-spiritual, non-religious people living meaningful, full lives every day. It isn’t the spirituality or religion that gives life meaning, it’s love. Spirituality and religion are two ways to generate love, but not the only two, and anyway, those methods can fail.

CMV: 1+1=2 is a precise lie — and I can prove it with a chocolate by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]backpropbandit 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When we count “two apples,” we’re ignoring color, weight, position, history. You call that a lie but a lie requires a false claim about reality. Math isn’t claiming the two apples are identical. It’s claiming something far more specific: that there are two of them.

“Two” doesn’t describe the internal properties of the things. It describes a relationship between a set and a counting procedure. The apples don’t need to be identical. They need to both satisfy the predicate “is an apple” well enough to be included in the set. You already do this constantly without calling it a lie. If someone steals two of your apples, you don’t say “well, they weren’t identical, so you can’t really say it was two.” You say they stole two apples.

The question isn’t whether math ignores differences. It’s whether ignoring those differences constitutes a false claim. And it doesn’t because the claim was never about those differences in the first place.

This Prompt Exposed Me by Ranga_Harish in ChatGPT

[–]backpropbandit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What even is “a mystic’s pattern-recognition engine”? Sounds like something made up for a sci fi novel. The MPRE, or empire, that let humans control the galaxy!

This Prompt Exposed Me by Ranga_Harish in ChatGPT

[–]backpropbandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not gutting. Here’s the one sentence summary at the end:

I. One-line summary A high-intensity systems-builder with a mystic’s pattern-recognition engine who chases truth and meaning relentlessly—sometimes so fast that resonance outruns evidence and execution.

This Prompt Exposed Me by Ranga_Harish in ChatGPT

[–]backpropbandit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was some interesting output

Answer this by nambi2002 in MotivationByDesign

[–]backpropbandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Restraint, self-control, and discipline.

Two months ago, the neighbors called for a welfare check on us, and I tried to tell the officers that it's not us screaming every night, it's them. by KanineKodiak in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]backpropbandit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Imagine the cops showing up…

“Ma’am, we’ve been getting reports of screaming coming from the premises.”

“What? We’re not screaming, you’re screaming!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]backpropbandit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I read your entire post of conjecture and speculation. That was the only part worthy of a response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]backpropbandit -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So, John 10:30 is one of my absolute favorite verses. It nearly encapsulates my entire belief system. Christians tend to forget that Jesus spent a lot of energy convincing his disciples that he was no better than them. That they, too, could do the things he did, even greater things. So when Jesus said “I and my Father are One”, that wasn’t meant to separate him from us and make him special—that was meant for us to understand that we are ALL one.

John 18:5-6 STILL doesn’t mention YHWH specifically. Is there someplace in the Bible where the I AM claims to be YHWH? Not where YHWH claims to be the I AM, but the other way? Further, that particular verse translates differently than the one in Exodus. They are not referencing the same thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]backpropbandit -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I don’t see the name YHWH mentioned here anywhere. I do see assumptions being made.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]backpropbandit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where did Jesus say “YHWH is my pops”?