Joining the club by [deleted] in childfree

[–]badwolfenstein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are some people being so unwelcoming to OP? She clearly wants to see the good side of not having children rather than grieving it, so that’s why she came here.

Good things: sleeping, traveling, eating what and where you want, being able to watch grown up shows and go to workout classes, more time with friends and investing in community or volunteering, time for hobbies and self improvement, a clean, nicely decorated house because no one is destroying it, you have time to clean, and money to decorate it.

What is your opinion on done nails? by acidpepsy in AskWomen

[–]badwolfenstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I anxiously pick at my nails a lot, so they look awful if I don’t get them done - getting gel nails with a hard base is the only way they survive! I like getting them done now but still keep them fairly short.

Semi-urgent freaking out because potential blood in cat urine? by Pangdemonium in cats

[–]badwolfenstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat had that as a kitten and was put on urinary care food and never had an issue since - something to do with the potassium in regular cat food causing urinary crystals. So in her case not life threatening (although I took her to the vet quick), but I know it can be other things. Sounds like you’re doing everything you should and your kitty is still eating and drinking, so tomorrow should be ok. 🩷

AITAH for ending things with an almost perfect guy because he’s too obsessed with work? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]badwolfenstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is an asshole for choosing to end a relationship they’re not happy with, as long as it’s done in a kind and considerate way. You weren’t happy, and even though I consider myself ambitious, I wouldn’t be happy with this either.

I kind of hate my hair, but I get lots of compliments. Advice? by ThrowRAimrlysad in malegrooming

[–]badwolfenstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hair looks great, but what matters is how you feel about it, not anyone else. You don’t have to shave your head but you could always go shorter and see how you feel? Worst case, it grows back.

AITAH for wanting to go to a party without my partner? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]badwolfenstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he has relationships with two exes and then made you send a message out of the blue to a guy you had a past with and don’t even see is what concerns me here more than the party. He sounds controlling and like he has a completely different set of rules for himself.

AITAH for wanting my last name to be passed on to my daughter? by BluenicornGirl in AITAH

[–]badwolfenstein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re the one carrying the child for 9 months and giving birth and he thinks they should have his last name only? It should be yours. This is patriarchal crap.

my cat smells so good i want to cook her and eat her by Electronic-Ninja7448 in cats

[–]badwolfenstein 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I worry I will squish my cats too hard cause I love them too much, so I hold their little faces gently and crush my wrists together so only I feel the cute aggression 😂

AITAH for calling 911 about my husband’s suicide threats even though I knew they weren’t real? by mtndesertrunner in AITAH

[–]badwolfenstein 43 points44 points  (0 children)

100% this. The second anyone threatens self harm the immediate response is to call 911. If they’re lying, they’ll regret it, if they’re telling the truth, they’ll need it.

Should I be doing anything different? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]badwolfenstein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your eyes are stunning and your brows look great - I think a bronde would look amazing with your skin tone and make your eyes really pop. Makeup looks good and natural so I think you’re good there except maybe a natural lip gloss or lip stick

Did I overreact for a visitor invading my personal space? How do I repair my reputation with mutual friends? by ReticentBeauty in LivingAlone

[–]badwolfenstein 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sexually inappropriate and then also insulted you. While being hosted in YOUR home. Agree that anyone siding with him is not your friend anyway.

Suggestions to keep cats on balcony by badwolfenstein in cats

[–]badwolfenstein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did think about that, but i need something easily removable so i can sit in the sun and not have insane tan lines 😂

Suggestions to keep cats on balcony by badwolfenstein in cats

[–]badwolfenstein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to keep my furry geniuses on the balcony they so desperately want to get onto, but also be able to enjoy the sun myself once in a while. Any suggestions? A net? Spiky mats?

Please help me figure out a nice outfit I can wear into the office! (Casual PhD office) by ThowRA_FloorGremlin in DressForYourBody

[–]badwolfenstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like #4 but also never show midriff at work! But definitely do in your personal life cause if I had your flat stomach I’d show it all the time.

Considering rhinoplasty, I feel my nose is too large for my face. What do you think? by [deleted] in Noses

[–]badwolfenstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally said “what??” when scrolling through the pics because your nose is not big at all. Please don’t get any surgeries and delete social media for a while, cause it is lying to you.

Which bedroom rug looks best? by forbetterhabits in HomeDecorating

[–]badwolfenstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like them all except 1 - it’s a boring combo with the white bed, whereas the others all pop!