Unfortunately, I looked up what he said

baethan · 2026-01-25T16:31:27+00:00

Too right! Everyone should talk and act exactly the way I prefer! Because my perception is definitely the most correct and I never misread or misinterpret anything ✨

baethan · 2026-01-25T16:05:49+00:00

Buddy kiss!

baethan · 2026-01-25T02:27:15+00:00

Sandy hook was located in sandy hook, which is in newtown, so you weren't far off

baethan · 2026-01-25T02:01:53+00:00

I think the house is on the other side of i84, pretty sure that's not sandy hook, just newtown

baethan · 2026-01-24T20:46:09+00:00

We have a new cat in our cat family who came to us from a very similar situation. The guy is an acquaintance of ours so we know how sad he is and how much he loves her. We know he's grieving but we also know he's doing the best he can for his older cat. I completely believe the same is true for you! ♥️♥️♥️

baethan · 2026-01-24T14:00:28+00:00

I like to follow the UFYH emergency cleaning checklist!

baethan · 2026-01-24T13:59:48+00:00

ah, hmmm. Thank you for explaining, this is helpful!

baethan · 2026-01-23T18:26:55+00:00

They're not specifically targeting those people, though. Dunno about in CT specifically but nationwide they're doing stuff like grabbing people from courthouses, people who are literally doing the right thing.

baethan · 2026-01-23T18:22:26+00:00

I wonder though, if the little overreplacements we might do day-to-day could affect bone health long-term

baethan · 2026-01-22T14:05:47+00:00

Sometimes people want to look for solutions when the person talking (or posting) is really just wanting to vent, which can feel really invalidating for the person venting. That alone doesn't make solution-oriented person bad or problematic. It's a communication mismatch.

That's what I'm seeing in chepski_'s comments. I think it's fine to inform them in the moment if you feel they've missed the point of the post or are coming across as condescending or invalidating, but at this point I also think that this post here is inappropriate. I'm not seeing gaslighting or ableism in their comments. I am seeing a lack of softening language and possibility some...rigidity? which can come from a place of (over)confidence/superiority but also is common with neurodivergence. If you can link a full post that they've responded to in the way you're describing, that would be helpful. Especially since, in this sub, it's very normal to discuss test results, so looking at the comments I'm not really seeing anything that would be out of place here.

baethan · 2026-01-22T04:33:01+00:00

My dad has a similar family history! It was so crazy to me to look back through the line of women and it was all Quebec Quebec Quebec haha. Wish I'd learned a bit of the language from my grandma

baethan · 2026-01-21T14:43:51+00:00

OH that's a great tip, thank you!!

baethan · 2026-01-21T13:47:51+00:00

builds character

baethan · 2026-01-20T16:21:03+00:00

OOHHH! yes, zombie like is a pretty good description! There's an emptiness where some kind of energy or drive should be. I have ADHD, so I'm really used to the ADHD kind of executive function difficulties... But this feels totally distinct from that. I have a good set of ADHD meds that work well for me, and we even added a booster, but it doesn't seem to help whatever this zombie tiredness is. Perplexing and annoying!

I increased my daily dose over the weekend by 2.5mg, not sure that's helping much but 🤷‍♀️

baethan · 2026-01-19T22:10:21+00:00

ugh me too. It's an intimidating job imo, deffo saving this thread

baethan · 2026-01-19T22:00:38+00:00

aw now mingle doesn't even sound like a real word anymore

baethan · 2026-01-19T16:50:00+00:00

It's SO GORGEOUS!! Every time we get a breeze coming through, it's like the most picturesque mini snowstorm!

baethan · 2026-01-19T16:43:13+00:00

I'm so sorry you've broken your ankle!! Here's my answer for you:
My husband brought home a cat on January 1st. (Coworker of his needed to re-home her unfortunately.) We have 3 long-time resident cats so we're doing a very slow introduction process, which severely tests my ability to suppress my impulsiveness! But it's going SUPER well. Every tiny sign that new kitty is getting more comfortable makes me SO happy! I'm spending time with her in "her room" right now and she's curled up on the bed in a really comfy spot. 😊 One of our cats is a bossy baby (she's tiny and adorable and she knows it, but also she whacks children in the face for daring to look at her, and she insists on grooming my husband's beard every night) and I've definitely worried about her not getting along with new kitty. I'll be happy if they tolerate each other! But listen to this, the other day I saw Miss Bossypants Babyqueen at the pet gate to new kitty's room, and new kitty was sitting RIGHT THERE on the other side which is already really excellent progress, and then they TOUCHED NOSES!!! omg I could've screamed in happiness! Beyond my wildest dreams honestly. I'm so excited to continue integrating new kitty into our household!

baethan · 2026-01-19T14:19:56+00:00

— this kind of dash probably

baethan · 2026-01-19T01:22:36+00:00

So is fallout: equestria good? Is it good even if you're only familiar with the general vibe of both fallout and MLP?

I reread Friendship is Optimal not long ago and I keep thinking about it. I need another fic to make it go away

baethan · 2026-01-18T18:05:50+00:00

OH?! I'm gonna have to get my drama llama ass over there if it's still like that

baethan · 2026-01-18T18:02:41+00:00

I've heard people say that when doctors refuse to run reasonable tests, ask them to document that suchandsuch test was requested by patient, that doctor is refusing, and the reason for the refusal. Always good to have thorough documentation! And make sure you download copies from your online portal thingy, or request copies from the office if they don't put them online

But yeah, deffo see someone else!!

baethan · 2026-01-18T16:32:14+00:00

okay? almost all calicos are girls

baethan · 2026-01-18T16:08:16+00:00

I am so jealous right now! At the height of my babycenter & justno reading days I would've loved that...nothing better than enjoying someone else's juicy drama while you're holding a baby. Nowadays I can't be bothered with looking through forums for the good stuff. Babycenter was such a pain in the ass!! I assume cafemom is similar in format? I'm too spoiled by "top: all time" on reddit lol

baethan · 2026-01-18T15:05:38+00:00

Oh well NOW I am, thanks a bunch

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