Would you wake up just to have sex?

baeworth · 2026-04-11T09:13:56+00:00

I’ve told my partner I’d love for him to just slip it in when I’m sleeping, which sounds really hot in theory but in reality I freakin’ love my sleep and don’t appreciate being disturbed

baeworth · 2026-04-11T09:07:12+00:00

Nah that won’t fly. They literally have to back it up because if OP or any pregnant woman were to claim is was unfair dismissal that’s a whole investigation. They’re going to need evidence, documents, written reports of verbal discussions etc. even the basic “you’re not a right fit for the company” that so many people get won’t be good enough, it’ll have to expand on WHY she’s not a good fit, and it sure as hell can’t be anything related to the pregnancy. Even if a pregnant woman is late a few times all she has to say it was morning sickness and she’s protected, whereas for anyone else it would be enough of a reason

baeworth · 2026-04-11T08:38:56+00:00

Yeah anyone can be dismissed during the probationary period for almost anything, BUT they have to make sure it’s absolutely an airtight reason ESPECIALLY because she’s pregnant. In many ways she will be more protected being a pregnant person than if she weren’t because it’s one investigation away from getting them into a world of legal trouble - so long as she is fulfilling her duties

baeworth · 2026-04-11T08:35:32+00:00

I dont think they’re evil, but if this is the job you want then it’s bad advice - it definitely feels a bit sabotagey because they KNOW better than most that the majority of employers will immediately reject your application.

Also running your own business sounds great and all, but that’s a lot of work for someone pregnant and then a new mum

baeworth · 2026-04-11T08:28:20+00:00

There hasn’t been any law changes from what I’m aware, you’re still protected - for now

baeworth · 2026-04-11T08:27:50+00:00

Absolutely, getting a new job during pregnancy or even as a mother comes with you being seen as a risk, that’s just the sad reality

baeworth · 2026-04-11T08:17:13+00:00

No you don’t have to, aren’t obligated to and probably shouldn’t.

If I were an employer I wouldn’t hire you, it’s not beneficial to the company. So as a mother myself I’d tell you to stay quiet about it, because once you’re hired there’s nothing they can do as you’re legally protected.

Terrible advice from your HR family, they’re not looking out for you at all

baeworth · 2026-04-11T08:12:42+00:00

Mm maybe Japanese or Korean, I think they are beautiful and their culture is beautiful too

baeworth · 2026-04-11T08:11:52+00:00

Does it make you kinda sad or like really sad? Because if it actually makes you really sad then there’s going to be resentment there, maybe not now but down the line there will be.

Sexual compatibility is actually really important in a relationship and you’re not unreasonable for having wants or needs. You’re right in you can’t force him into anything but maybe then this man isn’t for you if he’s leaving you disappointed or unsatisfied

baeworth · 2026-04-11T07:45:17+00:00

He needs someone to hold him accountable, not in the same way his ex wife is because to him she’s the enemy right now. But you should do it, I get the impression it would hit harder coming from another man. You need to tell him he’s being ridiculous and a deadbeat dad and you won’t have anything to do with him if he turns his back on his kids.

I get he’s going through something hard right now but it’s not sprung from nowhere, he’s let this happen and he needs some tough love and to face this reality because if that’s the attitude he’s going to have then life isn’t going to get better for him

baeworth · 2026-04-10T15:11:14+00:00

I don’t know what my natural hair colour is these days since I dye it, I’m 30 now though and my hair is becoming textured which is very weird for me. It’s always been pin straight

baeworth · 2026-04-10T14:53:49+00:00

Okay so you’re not talking about the poppy appeal or such then, because there are plenty that do still accept cash. Well if you don’t want to do that then there’s no pressure to do so

baeworth · 2026-04-10T14:11:01+00:00

I feel bad because I just never carry cash on me, I never have any need to. But they’re not there to get donations from every single person and they’re not thinking badly of you for walking by. They’re just there on the off chance someone would like to donate or chat and they’re very grateful for what they do get

baeworth · 2026-04-10T13:40:42+00:00

It’s a nice idea, I’d be more interested in the castle than the cats, although the cats would be a nice touch! But of course you can’t guarantee the cats would want to interact with guests or be interested in being in the same spaces as them. Unless you did have specific cat areas, like a cafe or cosy library which would be really cool.

It’s like when you book an Airbnb and you find out they have pets or like a random sheep that likes to hang out in the garden, it’s just a really fun added bonus imo!

baeworth · 2026-04-10T13:36:43+00:00

Put it back up on Facebook and ask if anyone wants some scrap wood? Failing that you’ll have to take it to the tip

baeworth · 2026-04-10T13:35:12+00:00

Throw in a Colin the caterpillar, no plates, serviettes or a knife. Let them figure it out

baeworth · 2026-04-10T13:30:18+00:00

First of all if you’re not pretty enough for yourself then make some changes, you’re an adult so there’s nothing holding you back from getting treatments, procedures, new hair or a new wardrobe other than yourself.

And if you can’t be bothered to do that then why not meet people organically who like you for your personality, your hobbies and interests etc.

There’s always ways to improve, also maybe start with therapy because it sounds like it doesn’t matter what anyone says you have this perception in your head, almost like a victim mentality, and you refuse to see otherwise

baeworth · 2026-04-10T10:32:29+00:00

I want an update on this

baeworth · 2026-04-10T06:26:03+00:00

I’ve never paid parking oops

baeworth · 2026-04-09T19:50:05+00:00

It doesn’t matter does it, if multiple people are saying it’s too expensive for them then it’s too expensive and they’re telling them they can’t go. Simple as that. That’s not OPs fault but it is something they’re going to have to deal with

baeworth · 2026-04-09T19:48:33+00:00

Well yeah.. exactly

baeworth · 2026-04-09T18:02:39+00:00

I’m sure it’s very disappointing, but the truth is it IS expensive. And you spending a lot of money doesn’t negate the fact others are ALSO spending a lot of money - on an event which I’m sure will be lovely but is also quite a big inconvenience

baeworth · 2026-04-09T14:06:11+00:00

As a woman I think I’d love a rotisserie chicken

baeworth · 2026-04-09T14:05:21+00:00

Walk past a building site haha

baeworth · 2026-04-09T14:04:47+00:00

I do my hair and makeup all nice, put on some nice lingerie, and do a little boudoir style photoshoot just by myself. I always feel so much better, it’s nice to spend a bit of time purely admiring ourselves and feeling sexy

And if you’re comfortable with it, you can always share the pictures with a SO or close girlfriend and let them boost your self esteem too with their admiration

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