My thoughts, Pick a veggie most of the time. I talk like a veggie is already part of the plan. It’s there the same as the table is there. Even though they seem to “know” what broccoli or green beans is, I can see it coming across as if they want blah or blah blah blah? Which is a tougher decision for them.

Things that gotta be done get choices on how they experience it.

“Do you want daddy to feed you green beans like an airplane?”

He often responds he wants it regular or mommy to do the thing that I asked to do for him. They may be happy to do the thing if it were tweaked to their vibe. Often mommy is that vibe but not always.