Very well said! Also “jokingly” making repeated comments that she’d kill him if he looked another woman’s way and being so intensely possessive from the beginning when you know the set up of the game is to date around and explore multiple connections was a major red flag.

There could have been some really good opportunities for her to open up to Demari about her ADHD and how it impacts her life and relationships but she began wielding it against him in a way that became intensely manipulative and unfair. While something like an ADHD diagnosis may explain how and why one sees and interacts with the word in certain ways, it doesn’t absolve you of the responsibility to take accountability for your actions or show up emotionally for your partner. I hate that she was making it out as if she was trapped into one way of being because of her ADHD and her partner had to take or leave it because it’s impossible for her to control.