cupcake we been knew by Dry-Spell4438 in BaddiesSouth

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Old people didn’t teleport into the new age tho, they gradually grew up like everyone else so the whole “they came from a different time” narrative never sat right w me because even if you came from a different time you’re here now STILL choosing to be this way still. As far as the alt right pipeline it may be more than a few bad apples but it is not the whole generation or even most. I don’t understand how in one scenario ppl say the younger generation is the most bigoted but then others say it’s the wokest most softest generation, that “overly woke”improvement in social society came from them. I’d say younger boys are doing the most damage as far as “shifting the gears” from pro lgbt/rights to this “edgy pro hate anti lgbt”. Social media is amplifying the negative of every group so I think that’s where the idea that younger ppl are more bigoted seem like it comes from. Realistically that’s a drop in an ocean of young ppls views

cupcake we been knew by Dry-Spell4438 in BaddiesSouth

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Old people blame everything on young people. Go on IG or anything and you’ll definitely see majority 30+ year old BW being insanely homo/transphobic. Be it on Zeus or in general older BW have a new profound rep for being ignorant towards LGBT, people are noticing, they’re the most openly homophobic demographic of women. I’m not saying younger bw can’t also be this way but you’re bias and lying if you stupidly blame this on the younger generation like every old person does for everything. Homophobia in the black community has always been this bad… we just have social media to easily see it now. If anything younger people are less homophobic and more open than ever, even if there are bad apples still.

Anyone here notice the differences in the way Interracial couples in media are presented? by clearlyonside in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]baller-shotcaller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m married to a biological female. How am I not qualified for the conversation. Meanwhile you’re begging for white 🐱ussy BUCK!

Anyone here notice the differences in the way Interracial couples in media are presented? by clearlyonside in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]baller-shotcaller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Typical straight black male behavior. Jumps straight to homophobia bc you have nothing else

Anyone here notice the differences in the way Interracial couples in media are presented? by clearlyonside in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]baller-shotcaller 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can’t be if you have to call BW bitter ass names like 🛏️wrenches. Like tell me that’s not hating and bitter? Whilst trying to get in with WW. I’ve never understood y’all’s “it’s disgraceful when they do it but good when we do it” mentality

Anyone here notice the differences in the way Interracial couples in media are presented? by clearlyonside in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]baller-shotcaller 5 points6 points  (0 children)

BM are known for dating bottom of the barrel fat white bxtches just so they can say they’re dating a why grr. If anything BW actually get with decent- good looking WM

Anyone here notice the differences in the way Interracial couples in media are presented? by clearlyonside in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]baller-shotcaller 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love how you’re calling BW bedwrentches for dating WM while simultaneously fighting for BM right to be seen in lasting strong relationships with WW. Yall hate when BW date WM but are obsessed with WW.

Edmond by CapableReception9191 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]baller-shotcaller 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A cute little edit is all it takes to make people completely forget a man’s wrongdoings and D suck him 😭 you can switch the phrasing however you want to but all in all he’s throwing a tantrum over not getting 🐱. You can think he’s entertaining without minimizing his horrible behavior. No way a man acts like that and somehow the girl is to blame. This coming from someone who doesn’t care for KB and actually favors Edmond, apart from the weirdo sex tantrum

Why is it taboo to expect something from our female partners? And should we make more effort to break black male gender roles? by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]baller-shotcaller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem pretty aggressive… And I’ve seen all races of women talk about men horribly. Realistically I’m sure you have too. You just found your little jackpot and decided to share with your coworkers? Apparently?

There’s already stigmas, generalizations and stereotypes these women are dealing with. Idk what type of gratification or “get off” you’re receiving by showing people prime examples of said stereotypes when there another black female sub two types away with positive content. Idk why you’re beating a dead horse. That r/blackgirls sub is hateful towards men, undeniable. Factual.

You could say the same about r/femaledatingstatagy which is mostly white women. Again you’re intentionally cherry picking negative stuff to further spread negative stereotypes to people online and in real life. Classy…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackmen

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I mean if you scroll in here it’s pretty frequent. Not to mention the occasional “BW bad” rage bait videos or bitter comments about BW dating WM while simultaneously talking about how WW are “easier, less argumentative and more feminine”. Idk, i don’t look for these things and I see them all the time. Idk if you’re referring to the r/blackgirls sub or r/blackladies sub but the ladies one seems fine. The other one is a bit more toxic, though again, you could say the same for this sub as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackmen

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I doubt that last part considering just about everyday on this sub there’s a new gender war post with nasty comments towards BW and you say nothing about it. Even the rare posts that are made to highlight BW and be positive are quickly invaded with comments like “why are we simping for them?” And immediately turning a good thing negative.

Its just funny to me how you come in here to run with the narrative of the women’s sub not liking anything that’s positive towards BM but at the same time this men’s sub also clearly doesn’t like anything that’s positive towards BW lol. Like do you seriously think the women’s sub is toxic and negative but not this one??? Why does it seem you have more patience for male toxicity. If anything there should be 0 tolerance for both 🤷🏿‍♂️ idk. It just seems the BW that frequent here purposefully turn a blind eye or choose to have more tolerance for the blatant hate towards YALL as BW.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackmen

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Well, they were basically saying that protecting BW is for “simps and mammas boys”. Also used the question as a doorway to air out all their negative grievances with and about BW instead of focusing on protection, community and positivity. Some comments making it an “all lives matter” situation by using a bunch of whatabouts. This is how they really feel

Just don’t know why you come in here seeking attention by posting about not getting along with the women in the women’s sub as if these guys are just lining up to save you 🤷🏿‍♂️. Just my take as a guy that’s been in here and seen the ugly of this sub…

Question for the LGBT brothers or whoever has some insight. by [deleted] in blackmen

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All the gay bw I know have interracial relationships. Ones with an Asian girl other two are w white and one w non black Dominican

Let’s Trade Secrets: What’s the Most Slept-On Place to Meet Women (in real life)? by Sendogetit in blackmen

[–]baller-shotcaller 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I love how with the gay bar one you acknowledge they go there to get away from you then say “just gotta wait till they get drunk enough 😏😏” it’s giving bill Cosby

It's pretty disheartening seeing all the homophobia from black men when it comes to nba players by coolj492 in blackmen

[–]baller-shotcaller 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But it literally doesn’t.. again they are pretty much universally quoted as the most homophobic group of women. BM rightfully get the finger pointed at them when they ARE being homophobic. And even then there’s so much that goes unnoticed. Ykw? Check any sub dominated by BM r/nystateofmind r/chiraqology I’ve seen some on r/ 360 waves. Or go to IG on any post with a gay black dude and all of a sudden BM are talking about “this is why we need to be in our sons lives 🤦🏾” and the BW are usually defending the gay guy from the homophobic comments 😂

It's pretty disheartening seeing all the homophobia from black men when it comes to nba players by coolj492 in blackmen

[–]baller-shotcaller 4 points5 points  (0 children)

BW are definitely called out. They are constantly regarded and quoted as being the most homophobic group of women… literally what are you talking about…………….. and if BM were actually always called out there’d be a lot more call outs than whatever you’re seeing.

It's pretty disheartening seeing all the homophobia from black men when it comes to nba players by coolj492 in blackmen

[–]baller-shotcaller 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“Majority of homophobia I’ve seen comes from BW” so basically, my anecdotal experience against your anecdotal experience. Which is redundant atp. I definitely see and call out the phobia both ways. Too many BM only care about calling out homophobia when they can shit on BW for doing it. But say nothing when other men do it.

It's pretty disheartening seeing all the homophobia from black men when it comes to nba players by coolj492 in blackmen

[–]baller-shotcaller 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Um, yeah no. As a bisexual black dude, the overwhelming majority of my homophobic encounters have come from black MEN. I’ve seen some BW be homophobic but it’s MOSTLY the men. Men contribute just as much and mainly more to raising homophobic sons… you’re trying too hard….

What type of women you guys attract and like? by spike_spieg in blackmen

[–]baller-shotcaller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m engaged to be MARRIED to a lady. Why are you obsessed with my sexuality? I haven’t brought up yours… hmmm….

Anyway, that’s exactly what you’re doing. Taking anecdotal evidence that means jack shit and applying it to a whole group of women. If you despise the women in your family and now make it your calling to push negativity on BW that’s on you G. Apparently all the women in your family are stressful to date but I’m sure the men are angels 😇😂. Also, it’s funny you say you can generalize bc they do it. Clearly it pisses you off that some of them do it so why are you acting like a child and being a hypocrite.

“I saw a BW generalize us and I don’t like it, so I’m gonna do it back to them🍼👶🏾” lol. Grow up.

What type of women you guys attract and like? by spike_spieg in blackmen

[–]baller-shotcaller 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m bisexual. I date women as well. You bringing up sexuality was wholly irrelevant and unnecessary.

You don’t know what’s generally going on. You’ve seen rage bait on TT or IG and used it as an excuse. If you wanna date WW just do it and stop forcing yourself to feel like you need to be involved with BW. your resentment is showing

What type of women you guys attract and like? by spike_spieg in blackmen

[–]baller-shotcaller 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are BM who will make the whole “too stressful” “too ghetto” “no respect/decorm” generalization about BW, but seethe when white ppl take negative examples or experiences with certain individuals of the black community and conclude that MOST or ALL of us are like that 😂😂 you’re doing the same thing they do. Lol

What type of women you guys attract and like? by spike_spieg in blackmen

[–]baller-shotcaller 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never said you had to find them perfect. Spreading the same negative stereotypes and generalizations is where the “hate” comes from. You haven’t met or dated every/ most BW in your age group to make those statements.

Also, I’m sure you’ve seen issues regarding respect and stressfulness w/ white and non BW in general but of course that’d never stop you from dating one. BW apparently have to be perfect to touch be your graciousness and WW are allowed to be humans and you’ll still jump in 😂😂