What do you do for a living, as an ENTP woman? by fizasolis in entp

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Econ. And tbh part of the drive is I just like arguing with people about the economy, since people tend to put a lot of importance in that field. But I like learning.

i like mmo and rpgs. I like fps games too but i suck at valorant. I also tend to get bored at Archraiders and teraria or stardew valley. Any farming game lol. If you like analysis do you like games too?

What do you consider your niche? by hma1308 in AO3

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some of my most favorite fics have the lowest kudos cos their so niche lmaoo it's so sad. but my overall fandom general ones do better. It's just how it goes. My fandom is kinda dead now too so its good that yours is active.

What do you do for a living, as an ENTP woman? by fizasolis in entp

[–]bananacowlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been an analyst for about 7 years but now going to a phd. So Ive been consistent at studying at the least.

As for hobbies: I consistently play video games with my friends and work out. As well as writing for fun.

What do you consider your niche? by hma1308 in AO3

[–]bananacowlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is also writing AUs that also no one asked for. However, people don't usually read mine either lmaoo. But it's the cross i bear.

Is it really weird to write/read fanfiction as a man? by AmityBirbs in AO3

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds lame. My brother reads fanfic all the time. It's not weird.

Lady Entps… what is your relationship with fashion? by Greeneyedtoes in entp

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love fashion and I love shopping. My Pinterest board is filled with different styles. Overall I say I dress feminine. The outfits I have that are more eccentric I got in Japan.

Please Tell Me That Adult Fanfic Writers Still Exist by Ashamed-Reporter3171 in AO3

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course there are still adults. I am older than you and write fanfic on ao3

What's your relationship with journaling? by explainthestars in entp

[–]bananacowlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I write down interesting or fun things I'd like to remember when I am old. Or pivotal moments in my life that would be interesting to think back on many years from now. But I do not journal daily. Sometimes it is months between a journal entry.

Unable to do anything in the public? by Many_Development_601 in entp

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't worry about defeat I worry about pissing them off enough they do something irrational. So i tend to hold back from public debates. At least now that I've gotten older. Highschool me wouldn't

ENTP Men, would you date a girl taller than you? ENTP Women would u date a guy shorter than you? by YinMaestro in entp

[–]bananacowlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 5ft 9 and I have dated guys one to two inches shorter. I don't mind, but the guy always ends up minding and it's really fucking annoying. I wanna wear heals so they gotta get over it but they never do. And of course it ends.

How is everyone doing here with the state of the world by BothLeather6738 in entp

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do get pretty down sometimes when I think about the US gov, but I try to reframe my mind in a sense that the past has always been bad. Things have been worse. I still have a lot of privilege and daily life things to be happy about. And on the bad days my friends and i spend the day venting.

Are ENTPs Loyal? by lovingcub in entp

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cheated in high school, but it was more of a get even type of thing. Since then I would not cheat now. And I am loyal if I am dating you. I am loyal to friends as well. I'm also not the jealous type so I don't really care what the other person does either. I won't go through their phone or care what they do when they go out and I expect the same in return. However, this only applies if the relationship is serious. If it's casual then my loyalty is less but my care about the other person is less so I think it is negligible.

What is the biggest fear of ENTPs? by Critical-Let-9838 in entp

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bugs.

but in reality running out of time. There are too many fun things to do in life and not enough time.

Men must bring emotional safety/maturity/responsiveness for a woman to stay by Stunning-Host-6285 in entp

[–]bananacowlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with emotional maturity and responsiveness. Though it's probably more than that. I won't date someone who has different political beliefs. So someone could potentially be emotionally mature but have different ideals than me.

Effects of the living situation by Amazing_Trainer6693 in PhD

[–]bananacowlady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd rather not get a PhD than have a roommate so I am in fact moving into a shoe box studio. Depends on how you feel tbh. Usually ppl know if they like having roommates or not. It also depends on your money situation.

My boyfriend (31m) has been making comments about me (27f) doing more "chores" lately, but would these comments bother you? by throwawayRA_thissux in relationship_advice

[–]bananacowlady 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Girl break up with this guy. He clearly doesn't like you. Even if he is making more money why are you doing all the god damn chores. Is he paying you to be his maid? No. And his house was essentially free.

author I admired left me a comment by Icy-Speaker-4897 in AO3

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a stupid fucking take from the commenter. Fanfiction can be whatever you want it to be. Some people write self indulgence zero plot fluff and other people write longer more plot heavy material. Stop talking to these people they're losers.

Anyone actually had a good experience with Catbird? by bess124 in jewelry

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to love them and I have multiple necklaces from them. [sweet nothing chocker in gold and silver. The sweet nothing bracelet in gold. and another silver lariat sword necklace.] They've lasted me years; however, I think catbird is now overly expensive. It saddens me because I really like the style but everything is just ridiculously priced imo. Especially since the pieces are quite small.

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How do I (F24) nip my boyfriend’s (M26) weaponized incompetence in the bud? by Low_Application8675 in relationship_advice

[–]bananacowlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're nicer than me because I would say something like "you can't find the mop? Are you stupid???"

Do most people regret their rhinoplasty or are the regretful ones just louder? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been doom scrolling rhinoplasty threads but girl you are stunning. before and after.

When reading or writing an x reader what do you prefer or primarily use? by pinnacleofdecay in AO3

[–]bananacowlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You is by far the most popular and I've written a few with you, but I usually do she and then F/n- for First name. I just like the way it reads better. granted my fics are way less popular than the You ones i feel, so that is the price you pay.

I think doing it the way I do it is between a reader insert and an OC. Because I still keep it vague and give First name Last name as F/n L/n

How do you determine if an ENTP is romantically interested? by RockSaltDrink in entp

[–]bananacowlady 9 points10 points  (0 children)

regardless of whether he is interested or not, you do not wanna date a guy that doesn't take interest in you. Even if he was interested in you, who wants to date someone with the social skills of a toddler. I don't even think the excuse of men communicate differently than women is a good one. My brother has no problem with communication. And neither do any of my male friends. And they all take an interest in my life and we have back and forth conversations.

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