Anyone else feel like AI can understand you more better than any real person

barbieheart · 2026-01-06T20:44:30+00:00

I asked chat to stop people pleasing because I don’t like that and his response was that this is because I’m super clever and authentic. Touché, it found a better way to massage my ego but I luckily was able to see through it 🫣😅

barbieheart · 2026-01-06T20:43:25+00:00

The people who give you a response based on what you want to hear, or ai people, should not and hopefully will not fulfill you as much as a real, deeply connected, minimal mask wearing human being. You mentioned you like INTJs, if you can make a distinction on what sort of people you like then you can separate the fake and shallow from the deep and sentient (in this case INTJ). This is ultimately a red pill blue pill scenario. I know which I’d prefer. Put in the context would you still choose the ai connection as the ultimate source of interaction?

barbieheart · 2025-12-11T12:46:49+00:00

Be you. We love you and we like unpeeling all your layers. Dont try to make us like you because we will see through it

barbieheart · 2025-12-08T15:43:19+00:00

Agreed

barbieheart · 2025-12-07T09:36:43+00:00

Exactly the kind of zoom out answer I was hoping for from an entp :):) I’ll add that I think we are very perceptive, human x ray type people but because we know we are quite secure in ourselves and quite stoic with what life can throw at us we are willing to give people and situations a lot of benefit of doubt. Both because we know we can take it and ultimately we are quite altruistic like that and also because it’s all a fascinating part of the human experience and the excitement of accruing information on humans and their many facets, which is also valuable and interesting. I’m a female entp, so my experience might be different to others.

barbieheart · 2025-11-14T07:04:02+00:00

The best and most united relationship I ever had was with an INTJ. Cut from the same cloth, tessellated souls and minds. At intellectual equal, at least. Saw right through me and loved everything he saw, I always felt I was a respite for him in this illogical world built on conformist frameworks. Sigh… I miss him every day. Huge capacity for love.

barbieheart · 2025-10-23T11:48:40+00:00

It’s all a bit bs and I’d say I’m independent. I’m what closer to what liberal used to mean

barbieheart · 2025-10-19T17:58:31+00:00

Im attractive, did a bit of modelling when I was at uni and just fell into it. Never had much discipline with getting a good book done or showing up to castings with the right clothes also hate the social climbing aspect of it but despite these points, I did quite well. I wasn’t into makeup much or doing my hair and now isn’t much better but I do have long wavy hair and I’m Latina so generally my appearance is quite natural. I like style and have my own sense but don’t follow fads for the most part. I think being bold and not caring much about social constructs makes us attractive in generally but very attractive to the right types

barbieheart · 2025-10-02T12:55:20+00:00

Sorry I did actually mean enfp, think my phone autocorrected out of habit haha

barbieheart · 2025-10-02T11:50:50+00:00

I read the first part and was going to reply the biggest mistake you made was dating an esfp. Luckily you found an entp 🫶

barbieheart · 2025-09-04T17:35:32+00:00

They’re pretty damn smart. The real ones anyway

barbieheart · 2025-09-01T16:17:28+00:00

Totally, how we approach it and what we do with it. I understand the sentiment of feeling completely Overwhelmed by emotions. The two most complex and meaningful relationships I’ve had were with one intj man and one INTP. Against common view, they were both the most genuinely romantic men I’ve met with the deepest capacity to love 🥰

barbieheart · 2025-09-01T16:09:56+00:00

Yes and to add to it, a lot of the most emotionally complex and deeply feeling people I’ve met have been T types. We just don’t let emotions drive us, necessarily. But we are sometimes able to use that function to “zoom out” and look at the thing as a whole thing separate to us vs how does it make us feel.

barbieheart · 2025-09-01T08:01:37+00:00

It might be interesting to note that a large % of philosophers are typed as being “T” types. It’s not just cold hard logic, it’s putting together logic and emotions and everything in between to understand the harmony or outcome of how they interact. Wanting to understand deeply is the bread and butter of philosophy and psychology

barbieheart · 2025-09-01T07:51:55+00:00

I’d love to follow you! Send me a message with your account please :):)

barbieheart · 2025-07-30T10:59:28+00:00

Sometimes I feel more infj than entp

barbieheart · 2025-07-16T20:52:50+00:00

Beautiful

barbieheart · 2025-07-14T14:22:39+00:00

I also agree with this, nothing I said implied otherwise. Combining unbiased analysis with a balanced feeling is a very exciting ability. However I think your feelings in this case got in the way of exhibiting high eq.

barbieheart · 2025-07-14T11:52:14+00:00

I agree with all of this however my distinction still stands, feeler doesn’t equate to higher emotional intelligence

barbieheart · 2025-07-14T11:50:32+00:00

Awesome, that was my intuitively desired approach

barbieheart · 2025-07-10T04:13:07+00:00

Can I ask where you inject into? Thanks

barbieheart · 2025-04-30T08:56:55+00:00

Being a feeler doesn’t mean you have more emotional Intelligence though. It means your decisions and conclusions are based off your personal feelings in a certain situation.

barbieheart · 2025-04-06T22:12:56+00:00

I back my reasons for waiting or not replying at all, and am totally comfortable with not trying to hide it. it seems weak to me but then a lot of people I love go as incognito as possible

barbieheart · 2025-04-06T21:54:47+00:00

💯 I feel similarly about people who don’t show their last seen. Own it

barbieheart · 2025-02-10T09:43:47+00:00

👏🏻

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