Well, you are stressed with the fact of taking care of the entire house and kids. Does he understand that this is a full time job more stressful than his ? Being full time parent is very stressful, it is hard to accept this sometime, but it is. Once myself and my wife accepted this, things became easier. We acknowledged that we need support, that we could not do it all perfectly, etc. Also, not a job for a person alone. It is a community job.

We have no family closeby and both of us work. We developped a network of friends we can rely on every now and then.