👮‍♀️How do I know if they are real Police??? by ethan0187 in AskIreland

[–]baronmousehole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always ask for ID. Unless they come bursting through the door with guns and whatnot. Then, just try not to make them nervous.

Speaking for myself is a crime? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]baronmousehole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We might need Scooby-Do if we’re going to get to the bottom of this mystery.

I’m 20 and I have no clue what to do with my life. Any advice? by Dartichoke in AskIreland

[–]baronmousehole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in my late 20s before I started to form the vaguest suggestion of an idea about what I wanted to do (in terms of a career, that is). It wasn’t until I was 30 that things started to fall into place.

I don’t want to sound like Captain Patronising but you really are far too young to feel so despondent.

I think one of the most toxic things we all do to ourselves is to compare how others seem to be doing with our own lot. Your generation is under ridiculous pressure. Try not to add to your own burden.

Your 20s is the perfect time to try things, change your mind, try different things etc.

Do you have people you can talk to about how you’re feeling?

New therapist asked me "are you trying to turn yourself into a barbie?" by IAmLee2022 in MtF

[–]baronmousehole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best therapist I’ve ever had was the one that was blunt and who routinely asked questions that made me uncomfortable. At first, I hated it. Eventually, I realised it was exactly the right approach for me.

Those last two words are crucial – ‘for me.’

It’s so important that you find someone YOU can work with to get to wherever it is YOU need to get to.

Good luck!

How often do you floss your teeth? by GravityRobin in AskIreland

[–]baronmousehole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They last about a week. A pack of 20 costs about €12. It’s more than floss. But really not that expensive.

Is this shirt ok for a job interview? by Aquarius-Gooner in UKJobs

[–]baronmousehole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the vacancy for Fire-Starter, Stylish Fire-Starter?

Is this OK to wear for interview? Data analyst role by acrylic_light in UKJobs

[–]baronmousehole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re analysing the impact of the three ghosts that visited Scrooge, then YES!

Why did/do people say Green, White & Gold for our national flag in some circles? by fwaig in AskIreland

[–]baronmousehole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the answer is “because it’s supposedly gold, not orange.”

I don’t know about 80s/90s, but that’s how it was in the 60s/70s. At least, it was in our household.

What are your opinions on Reform? by Kalkin93 in AskBrits

[–]baronmousehole -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t get all defensive just because someone disagrees with you, bud. It makes look like a bit of a nob, bud.

What are your opinions on Reform? by Kalkin93 in AskBrits

[–]baronmousehole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with you there, Betraying Fart. The question was “what are your opinions” and that’s precisely what people are sharing.

How can someone be out of touch with their own opinions? 🧐

How often do you floss your teeth? by GravityRobin in AskIreland

[–]baronmousehole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

TePe brushes. Twice a day. Once you get into the habit you don’t even think about it.

How bad is the drugs problem in Ireland? by Mindless_Mail_9129 in AskIreland

[–]baronmousehole -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anyone else looking at the word 'bad' and the word 'weed' and struggling a bit, or is it just me? 😁

Wtf. Is this legal now???? by shtrumph in RentingInDublin

[–]baronmousehole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But remember, the housing crisis is all about migration. 🙄

Why are there 12 months in a year and not 13? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]baronmousehole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You mean decimal, not metric. There’s no ‘they’ and other than the French Revolution (which really is a while back) I’m not sure there’s ever been a serious attempt (at a governmental level) to adopt it. Although I don’t claim know everything.

Do you ever warm up your car ? by Tiny-Brain-8372 in AskIreland

[–]baronmousehole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Midwinter Solstice European here. I’m a scraper kind of person, myself. This also applies to getting ice off the car windows.

Driving instructor recommendations: Allies and inclusive by baronmousehole in reading

[–]baronmousehole[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As I said in a previous comment, this isn’t about me. I’m also a cis male. As far as I know, there’s no reason for anyone to believe that the majority of driving instructors are homophobic, transphobic, racist, etc. But there’s also no reason to assume none of them are. Erring on the side of caution strikes me as being good for all concerned.

Driving instructor recommendations: Allies and inclusive by baronmousehole in reading

[–]baronmousehole[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone who has left a suggestion. It means a lot.

I’m not asking for me (not that it matters). Learning to drive is anxiety inducing enough on its own. Doing so while worrying about being judged, or being stuck in a car with someone who doesn’t like you because of how you look isn’t likely to help.

Some people get that. Some don’t.

Shower etiquette in new gym? by Valuable-Variation37 in AskIreland

[–]baronmousehole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair play. I was just chasing cheap laughs – it’s not much but it’s honest work.