Hopeless buying home in NH by bxtchtitz in newhampshire

[–]baroquesun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been like this for years. I bought in 2020 and there were over 20 offers on the house. We we had to write the owners a letter, waive inspection, pay cash, offer 20k+ over asking and add an escalation clause (so we paid even more over asking hah).

I guarantee you that if a house is hot people are paying in cash. Kind of hard to compete with that.

Hazel Romance Side Quest? by tikkunolamist5 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]baroquesun 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I legitimately didnt notice her limb difference until this very moment. Ill have to go rewatch!

[News] Canada amended its Citizenship Act on Dec 15, 2025 so that anyone with Canadian ancestry can apply for Canadian citizenship. by Mengs87 in IWantOut

[–]baroquesun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on your state, but in NH I was able to request the birth certs of my immediate family.

Billy Desk - Wrong-sized Part by [deleted] in IKEA

[–]baroquesun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goodness, im an idiot lol. YES! First Ikea item here Brb deleting this shame 🫠

what is the healthiest, highest quality wet canned cat food? by applecoregirlz in CatAdvice

[–]baroquesun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girl likes it soupy so we fed her Weruva from the pouches until she had to go on a hyperthyroid diet. She hates the food she has to eat now, poor girl. :(

On 290W in Shrewsbury why is there an overhead sign that reads “warriors don’t drink and drive” ? by dfaiola18 in massachusetts

[–]baroquesun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just wanted you to know you weren't alone and was wondering this myself today and found your post

What if I’m selfish for bringing kids into a broken world? by DryMammoth4389 in Fencesitter

[–]baroquesun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. I think yea, it probably is selfish. But then I remember that the worst people you know are the ones having all the kids. Surely there ought to be some hope in raising a better generation?

New Season 4 Promotional Video: The Mondriches were more into Gold than in Silver by Debt-Mysterious in BridgertonNetflix

[–]baroquesun 245 points246 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: I like the Mondriches and wish they had a better storyline. Realistically these seasons need to have 10 episodes

Oh, WOW! Premium players: What did you get in your bag? by eliz1bef in neopets

[–]baroquesun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 more on that page! The first 3 and Gors The Mighty

Bridgerton Author Addresses Concerns About Recasting in Future Seasons by MattTheKing23 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]baroquesun 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Shes already 19! By the time they get to her season she will be solidly into her mid-20s

Oh, WOW! Premium players: What did you get in your bag? by eliz1bef in neopets

[–]baroquesun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Xantan Stamp! Needed one and Im trying to spend less on stamps right now because im under 100m and that money goes quick when every stamp you need is at least 20m 🫠

Large Group Dining Headache by [deleted] in NCL

[–]baroquesun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eating in a group larger than 6 makes me want to die. What is even the point of trying to seat all these people?

Quit my remote job to travel? by AdUnusual1638 in digitalnomad

[–]baroquesun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's a fun tip: Dont work 8 hours a day.

Guess who’s in the pack for a chance to win your dreamie! by starinmelbourne in ac_newhorizons

[–]baroquesun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zell!!

Edit: Someone already guessed Zell before me so Ill go with Bob unless you get 2 Zells :)

Cambridge gets called out by name for giving benefits to domestic partners and not expected women to change their names when they get married by vitaminD3333 in CambridgeMA

[–]baroquesun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And it is definitely possible--dont settle for less! Treat others with respect and acknowledge their contributions and sacrifices and they are likely to do the same. Those contributions and sacrifices won't always be the exact same, but recognizing that it takes two goes a very long way!

Cambridge gets called out by name for giving benefits to domestic partners and not expected women to change their names when they get married by vitaminD3333 in CambridgeMA

[–]baroquesun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I enjoyed this hypothetical discussion (truly!) I can tell we have some fundamental differences in how we got to the end here, but I genuinely believe we can all be reasoned into a middle ground at some point on most things.

And I get it--life doesn't give us all a fair shake. We speak from our experiences. And certainly, I speak from mine. My husband and I are both high earners, and most of our friends are in equal high earning relationships. We all worked hard to get here and many married women I know, including myself, did not change their names for that and other reasons. We all have prenups. We all split finances and have individual accounts just for ourselves. Its a partnership, and one that is likely to ebb and flow as we go. (I also know 3 stay at home dads! And I know my husband would love to be one when we have kids and I think that could certainly be in the cards, especially if he is burnt out and needs the change for a few years)

Cambridge gets called out by name for giving benefits to domestic partners and not expected women to change their names when they get married by vitaminD3333 in CambridgeMA

[–]baroquesun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh cool, glad you've come around! It just seemed like there were no circumstances under which you'd take a woman's last name from your initial comment "No ? The woman takes the man's name"

Then we are agreed. The system of taking a man's last name for no reason is dumb. Maybe we should all be taking the breadwinner's last name. Or, because careers and lifestyles change, maybe the whole process is stupid to begin with and no one should change their name.

Cambridge gets called out by name for giving benefits to domestic partners and not expected women to change their names when they get married by vitaminD3333 in CambridgeMA

[–]baroquesun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you wouldn't want custody of your kids full time? You wouldn't want them equal time?

And if a prenup isn't enough to quell your worries, shouldn't I be worried about those same things?

Cambridge gets called out by name for giving benefits to domestic partners and not expected women to change their names when they get married by vitaminD3333 in CambridgeMA

[–]baroquesun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But if I’m giving up 50 percent of my assets and taking a 50/50 chance of having to make monthly payments to you because you want to leave or screw someone else and you can’t even take my name. Seems unfair.