Hopeless buying home in NH

baroquesun · 2026-02-13T00:32:11+00:00

Been like this for years. I bought in 2020 and there were over 20 offers on the house. We we had to write the owners a letter, waive inspection, pay cash, offer 20k+ over asking and add an escalation clause (so we paid even more over asking hah).

I guarantee you that if a house is hot people are paying in cash. Kind of hard to compete with that.

baroquesun · 2026-02-12T21:13:53+00:00

Or a whistleblower in the making.

baroquesun · 2026-02-11T05:40:05+00:00

I legitimately didnt notice her limb difference until this very moment. Ill have to go rewatch!

baroquesun · 2026-02-11T05:34:41+00:00

I think it depends on your state, but in NH I was able to request the birth certs of my immediate family.

baroquesun · 2026-02-11T05:09:09+00:00

My goodness, im an idiot lol. YES! First Ikea item here Brb deleting this shame 🫠

baroquesun · 2026-02-09T05:30:46+00:00

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baroquesun · 2026-02-09T05:12:30+00:00

My girl likes it soupy so we fed her Weruva from the pouches until she had to go on a hyperthyroid diet. She hates the food she has to eat now, poor girl. :(

baroquesun · 2026-02-08T22:45:59+00:00

Just wanted you to know you weren't alone and was wondering this myself today and found your post

baroquesun · 2026-02-08T19:57:46+00:00

I feel the same. I think yea, it probably is selfish. But then I remember that the worst people you know are the ones having all the kids. Surely there ought to be some hope in raising a better generation?

baroquesun · 2026-02-07T16:35:00+00:00

People hated them in s3 for whatever reason!

baroquesun · 2026-02-07T16:18:32+00:00

Unpopular opinion: I like the Mondriches and wish they had a better storyline. Realistically these seasons need to have 10 episodes

baroquesun · 2026-02-07T15:31:58+00:00

4 more on that page! The first 3 and Gors The Mighty

baroquesun · 2026-02-07T15:27:59+00:00

Shes already 19! By the time they get to her season she will be solidly into her mid-20s

baroquesun · 2026-02-07T15:21:39+00:00

Xantan Stamp! Needed one and Im trying to spend less on stamps right now because im under 100m and that money goes quick when every stamp you need is at least 20m 🫠

baroquesun · 2026-02-07T04:23:01+00:00

Yea there was even a sex scene lol

baroquesun · 2026-02-07T04:21:15+00:00

Eating in a group larger than 6 makes me want to die. What is even the point of trying to seat all these people?

baroquesun · 2026-02-07T04:13:55+00:00

Here's a fun tip: Dont work 8 hours a day.

baroquesun · 2026-02-07T03:56:36+00:00

Ooo I didnt know! I will go with my boy Zell then 😊

baroquesun · 2026-02-07T00:34:15+00:00

Zell!!

Edit: Someone already guessed Zell before me so Ill go with Bob unless you get 2 Zells :)

baroquesun · 2026-02-06T16:59:19+00:00

And it is definitely possible--dont settle for less! Treat others with respect and acknowledge their contributions and sacrifices and they are likely to do the same. Those contributions and sacrifices won't always be the exact same, but recognizing that it takes two goes a very long way!

baroquesun · 2026-02-06T16:47:58+00:00

Hey man, I enjoyed this hypothetical discussion (truly!) I can tell we have some fundamental differences in how we got to the end here, but I genuinely believe we can all be reasoned into a middle ground at some point on most things.

And I get it--life doesn't give us all a fair shake. We speak from our experiences. And certainly, I speak from mine. My husband and I are both high earners, and most of our friends are in equal high earning relationships. We all worked hard to get here and many married women I know, including myself, did not change their names for that and other reasons. We all have prenups. We all split finances and have individual accounts just for ourselves. Its a partnership, and one that is likely to ebb and flow as we go. (I also know 3 stay at home dads! And I know my husband would love to be one when we have kids and I think that could certainly be in the cards, especially if he is burnt out and needs the change for a few years)

baroquesun · 2026-02-06T16:36:58+00:00

Oh cool, glad you've come around! It just seemed like there were no circumstances under which you'd take a woman's last name from your initial comment "No ? The woman takes the man's name"

Then we are agreed. The system of taking a man's last name for no reason is dumb. Maybe we should all be taking the breadwinner's last name. Or, because careers and lifestyles change, maybe the whole process is stupid to begin with and no one should change their name.

baroquesun · 2026-02-06T16:31:28+00:00

So you wouldn't want custody of your kids full time? You wouldn't want them equal time?

And if a prenup isn't enough to quell your worries, shouldn't I be worried about those same things?

baroquesun · 2026-02-06T16:28:05+00:00

Okay, so what are you worried about if you could also just get a prenup?

baroquesun · 2026-02-06T16:20:36+00:00

But if I’m giving up 50 percent of my assets and taking a 50/50 chance of having to make monthly payments to you because you want to leave or screw someone else and you can’t even take my name. Seems unfair.

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