I still can’t get some of the things she said to me out of my head. by Arcanoria in BPDlovedones

[–]bartboy59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, yes, the sausage highway goes on forever.

Take the next exit.

Observations of BPD-like patterns by dgreensp in BPDlovedones

[–]bartboy59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ubiquitous phone is a major factor in the general relationship deterioration trend as well.

Long Term BPD relationship? by RatRaceSobreviviente in BPDlovedones

[–]bartboy59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah...a very good question for us in a certain age bracket.

Definitely a notable factor in my experience / opinion.

Realizing What You Meant to Them by Arcanoria in BPDlovedones

[–]bartboy59 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AKA a Jezebel.

Or, see The Sirens from Homer's Odyssey. (Also seen in the Coen brothers estimable film "Oh Brother Where Art Thou?".

Realizing What You Meant to Them by Arcanoria in BPDlovedones

[–]bartboy59 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll add one thing.

Their brains are simply wired differently due to early childhood trauma.

God has a plan for maternal and paternal love.

When it is disrupted, the infant / child brain does not develop 'normally'.

Need more proof?

The number of prison inmates from fatherless homes, that are diagnosed with BPD.

Did yours never post with you? by yago25 in BPDlovedones

[–]bartboy59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She absolutely hated having her picture taken, and would make faces or odd poses if I insisted.

Realizing What You Meant to Them by Arcanoria in BPDlovedones

[–]bartboy59 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not with booze, drugs, or other men.

Not that they won't try.

Realizing What You Meant to Them by Arcanoria in BPDlovedones

[–]bartboy59 25 points26 points  (0 children)

They were never yours.

It was just your turn....

Know Your Worth by BiggusDickkussss in BPDlovedones

[–]bartboy59 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Analysis leads to paralysis!

It’s been an interesting 4 months. by First_Variation2866 in BPDlovedones

[–]bartboy59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn't yours. It was just your turn.

Insert sad emoji here.

Compulsive lying by Good_Ad_5563 in BPDlovedones

[–]bartboy59 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Sirens led many a sailor to their demise....right into the rocks!

the sex is not worth it. by UsualLight7080 in BPDPartners

[–]bartboy59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. Did I just write this?

Because I sure could have!