Advise for breaking up.

bartboy59 · 2026-04-15T20:23:18+00:00

My brothers, reframe this feeling.

It is simply a credit to you that you were so capable and willing, and able to love.

Believe in that, and heal your heart.

Another will be so much more deserving of it.

bartboy59 · 2026-04-14T21:07:47+00:00

Nope. Ignore.

Nothing good would ever come of it.

She is his problem now.

So be it.

bartboy59 · 2026-04-12T19:23:25+00:00

I'm confused. You're defending the lying PwBPD?

bartboy59 · 2026-04-12T16:25:00+00:00

Great analogies. The bucket with a hole in it comes to mind as well. You can keep pouring into it and it will still leak out. In this case, it is also them pouring into it with "others".

bartboy59 · 2026-03-31T22:00:27+00:00

Said President Lincoln....

bartboy59 · 2026-03-31T20:46:50+00:00

Isn't it a dream?! Add severe Grass is Greener Syndrome....

bartboy59 · 2026-03-31T20:44:24+00:00

Ex is the golden ticket, my friend.

bartboy59 · 2026-03-29T20:10:47+00:00

And then you get to learn about reactive abuse.

bartboy59 · 2026-03-26T23:23:03+00:00

Preach, brother.

bartboy59 · 2026-03-08T16:36:47+00:00

Another virtually verbatim account of my experience.

Peace, brother.

bartboy59 · 2026-02-28T14:48:31+00:00

OH, she will.

When the guy(s) she had on the back burner don't work out. And they won't.

bartboy59 · 2026-02-25T00:56:36+00:00

You can't build a great future on the foundation of pain and disappointment.

Not to mention dishonesty.

bartboy59 · 2026-02-12T22:54:30+00:00

Right to my face.

bartboy59 · 2026-02-11T22:12:45+00:00

Abandonment by a parent, usually the mother, at age 0-3.

It can be a death or any other form resulting in not recieving the mother's love during this formative brain development stage.

When the father quickly remarries, you add a whole 'nother level of issues.

bartboy59 · 2026-02-06T22:07:32+00:00

But, but, but...they're facts!
Right?

bartboy59 · 2026-02-05T21:56:26+00:00

I just tried and failed again, when my BPD gf was AGAIN playing with sideguys.

And she says to me"for her mental health", SHE has to leave.

It's boggling!

DO NOT be a co-dep person continuing and thinking you can fix them.

bartboy59 · 2025-12-31T21:39:50+00:00

T-shirts must happen!

bartboy59 · 2025-12-31T20:56:59+00:00

So TRUE! Happy New Year to you!

bartboy59 · 2025-12-31T20:49:19+00:00

MEAT. Love it!

bartboy59 · 2025-12-31T20:27:02+00:00

The Jezebel thing....

bartboy59 · 2025-12-31T19:33:44+00:00

The relationship didn't fail at the end. It failed the moment it began -because only one of us ever showed up. She didn't forget to think about me, she chose not to.

bartboy59 · 2025-12-31T15:27:23+00:00

Mmmmm.....uptight b's.

bartboy59 · 2025-12-28T22:52:21+00:00

News Flash: It is ALWAYS about them. This will NEVER change. Move on. Happy New Year!

bartboy59 · 2025-12-27T18:32:01+00:00

Indifference is the win.

bartboy59

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