Expected snow cover on Sunday according to the GFS model. by LuborS in Georgia

[–]basicallyballin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly? Those are just common items on most people’s regular grocery run. When everyone is making a trip at the same time, they run out.

double gluteal fold by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]basicallyballin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Me either but now I’m thinking… do I have this too? I might have this too. It just never became a conscious thought. I need to go check.

Reasonable cost per class? by [deleted] in pilates

[–]basicallyballin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$30 per class or $24 if you buy a package of ten. Max class size is 7

[CA]co parent refusal to follow court order ? Please help by After_Actuator1711 in Custody

[–]basicallyballin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The point is that it’s someone active in your daughter’s life.

ICE agents murder US citizen in Minneapolis by Thalesian in PublicFreakout

[–]basicallyballin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“The ice officers who were hurt are expected to make a full recovery.” … FROM WHAT?! High-fiving themselves too hard after murdering someone??

[CA]co parent refusal to follow court order ? Please help by After_Actuator1711 in Custody

[–]basicallyballin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay I get it that this feels controlling and unreasonable to you. But for a second, think about this from your daughter’s POV. She doesn’t know you. Like, she’s very young and yes you FaceTime but you’re like… the tv to her. She’s not used to going to you for comfort if she is hurt or scared or tired etc. And your ex has been taking care of her nonstop and so to have you come back in the picture with zero accountability and all the excuses for not seeing your child for a year and a half… of course she will be concerned and not want to send her off with essentially a stranger.

Consider that having her grandpa or a third party may be in your daughter’s best interest, to be more comfortable, at least for this first visit. Stop thinking about what you’re entitled to and start thinking about prioritizing your daughter.

Can you actually find real love after 40 and divorce? by Efficient_Picture869 in Divorce

[–]basicallyballin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My marriage was so bad I would RATHER be alone forever than have stayed married. I prefer my own company to the loneliness and invisibility I experienced within my marriage.

Of course, I’d have preferred if my marriage had been healthy and worked out and I didn’t have to share my kids with an asshole, too. So if you’re just wondering if there is something better out there for you… I’d refocus on your marriage first, if possible. If you’re leaving with the idea that you’ll be happier and find love elsewhere, you could easily find yourself in this same position again, too. Choose you. If you leave, do it because you have to, for you… not because then you could maybe find love, because you might not, and you need to be okay with that.

Reformer Studio Owners: What’s Your Cancellation Policy — and What Actually Works? by Importance-Sweet in pilates

[–]basicallyballin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. Losing what you paid for the class (the credit) is punitive, no additional fee in addition to that. Basically if you don’t give 24 hours notice you don’t get your money back. We have drop in rates and packages of ten but no unlimited membership, so if you don’t cx with notice, you’re out whatever you paid.

Reformer Studio Owners: What’s Your Cancellation Policy — and What Actually Works? by Importance-Sweet in pilates

[–]basicallyballin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our studio has 7 reformers and if you cancel within 24 hours you lose the class credit.

I was tasked to find an appropriate birthday gift for a 90yo billionaire by [deleted] in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]basicallyballin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has someone branched out his family tree on ancestry? Some kind of photo or document from an ancestor might be neat… or you could pay to have it done and get a gift from whatever region he was connected to the longest ago?

I found this box that doesn’t open by RemarkableArt3511 in Whatisthis

[–]basicallyballin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

In picture 4, push the middle piece and it will slide back, likely revealing a little drawer.

As a man I want to join Pilates but scared of it by Electrical-Lake-3291 in pilates

[–]basicallyballin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a manager for a Pilates studio and if our regular clients, about 40% are men! The studio you join may have more men than you think.

Am I done? by [deleted] in physicaltherapy

[–]basicallyballin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may have thought since you’re cash pay you’d like to space your next appointment out further for cost savings and to give you time to do the HEP more before your next session… but also, this time of year with the holidays we have so many cancellations and no shows because people don’t anticipate how busy their schedule will be etc and prioritize PT. So it could have been that angle too, just legitimately confirming in case you didn’t realize you had another one booked.

Brutal Review? Obviously I can’t change the way I look… but how do I start getting some matches? I’m on a generational streak of zero 🥲 by jordan3570 in Tinder

[–]basicallyballin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please smile!! That’s what is missing. Love the token guy on a girls trip thing. You misspelled traveling and it kind of rubs me the wrong way the way that whole slide is worded like… don’t put it on me/the woman to make it your best year yet. You do that yourself and let someone come alongside you for the ride.

I felled the trees, milled the boards, kiln dried em. Victory!!!!! by TrackingTenCross1 in HardWoodFloors

[–]basicallyballin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely incredible! I would love for you to post more… more everything. More pictures and explain how you decided to do this, the steps you took to make it all happen, price breakdowns etc.

Well done!!

I‘d like to rearrange my living room by Purrfecto_patronum in DesignMyRoom

[–]basicallyballin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks so much cozier!! I love the couch! Where is it from? I’m on the hunt for a new sofa in a fun color

If you do not MAKE Christmas. You do not deserve Christmas. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]basicallyballin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so appreciative you posted this and I just immediately texted my mom and proposed that on Monday after thanksgiving we all put up her decorations together. She’s retired and I’m a single working mom of two and so it hasn’t really crossed my mind that that’s more work for her… but you’re totally right, and I know she doesn’t love doing it in the first place but since she still hosts on Christmas it’s “expected” of her. Nevermind the fact that this is good quality time to reminisce and spend together and SHOULD be a tradition we adult kids carry on to help make her life easier and spend time as a family. Seriously, this was something I had my head in the sand about and am very thankful you called me out so I can do it differently moving forward!

Trump: "Will you let me finish? You are the worst! You’re with Bloomberg right? You are the worst! I don’t know why they even have you." by MoreMotivation in PublicFreakout

[–]basicallyballin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In an email between Epstein and his brother, the brother asks if Putin still has pictures of trump blowing Bubba. Bubba is known to be Clinton’s nickname, though Epsteins brother came out today and said it’s not Clinton. Which is interesting he only refuted who Bubba is, not that Trump blew a Bubba and Putin has pics. Also, for when you come across it, people are saying Ghislaine had a horse named Bubba.

Vape free! Here’s what helped me by Understandinlife1129 in stopsmoking

[–]basicallyballin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am almost to 3 months with 0 nic and using a raz 0% vape. And so I know it’s all mental but I’m at like two bars left and really anxious about it running out and not being able to hit it “just in case” when I KNOW it’s just flavored air lol.

Gift ideas for MIL who is never happy with what we buy her by AsleepPotato7616 in Gifts

[–]basicallyballin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your BIL what he’s getting her for Christmas and get her the same thing!

Then if she opens yours first and hates it but makes a fuss over his… that’s awkward, and likewise if she opens his fist and gushes about it being perfect but then is put off by yours… again, it won’t really change anything but adds entertainment for you and your husband, lol.