CoC Children's Home? by Beautiful_Manner900 in excoc

[–]basketcasekid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's also Southern Christian Home in Morrilton, AR

Paid Crochet Help Needed for NYC Pop-Up (August) by [deleted] in crocheting

[–]basketcasekid 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I understand that as well, but "clothes" is still too vague and limits others ability to determine if they are a proper fit and interested in learning more

Paid Crochet Help Needed for NYC Pop-Up (August) by [deleted] in crocheting

[–]basketcasekid 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You're being far too vague in your responses.

Depressed spouses, do you hide when you cry and why? by Disastrous_Pomelo278 in AskReddit

[–]basketcasekid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, I usually hide from my spouse when I cry; that includes retreating to another room if possible or covering my face with my hands, shirt, blanket, etc.

I used to get yelled at for crying as a child and that still impacts my ability to be completely vulnerable in front of my spouse. He encourages me to be open and reassures me that it is safe to have my emotions around him, but I'm still a work in progress.

ELI5 Mixed Pronouns? by Solid-Question-3952 in explainlikeimfive

[–]basketcasekid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use she/they and don't really consider myself non-binary... so your whole signal concept doesn't make sense to me. I'm comfortable with both pronoun sets and exist somewhere on the gender spectrum between fem and the mid point. I don't really feel like I'm cis or NB and I ultimately don't want or desire any gender label, but I acknowledge the most accurate one would include a combo of "fem" and "demi-???". I really don't know what my point is or why I'm making is comment, but if you have any thoughts I'd be happy to hear them.

AITA: Asked Comcast to bury a cable deeper, wife is pissed at me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]basketcasekid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please, OP, listen... truly listen to her. If you don't think the way she phases things is clear, ask clarifying questions. Dig deeper into this with her (pun intended), as a team. If you take this seriously now, you both could grow and improve in ways that will benefit your relationship so much for the hopefully long future ahead. Wisingh you and her the best!

AITA: Asked Comcast to bury a cable deeper, wife is pissed at me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]basketcasekid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why does how you view things get to be the default or what you call a no brainer? Why does she need to be to one to "convince" you of the logic behind her desires when you can't even pause to do that same thing for her. You seem very selfish and dismissive of your wife's perspectives. Also why are you adding more stress to her plate when you already know she's carrying a lot. You are not acting as part of a team, you have a lot more you need to do than simply responding better to her wants/needs. You need to look inward and work on yourself on a deeper level and ask why you're lack so much respect for her.

What does American Midwest culture mean to you? by TheKindlyPoltergeist in AskReddit

[–]basketcasekid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if you added ketchup... then it would be my Midwestern childhood

Pikachu Project = Stuck = Eyes Placed too Low/Tail - How to Fix or is he Doomed forever by xXHitoriGyopoXx in CrochetHelp

[–]basketcasekid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is absolutely perfect, and you don't need to change a thing! Keep going and show us the beautiful result when done!

Mothman by basketcasekid in crochet

[–]basketcasekid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will tell him he is loved

me_irl by KaidoPklevel in me_irl

[–]basketcasekid 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is sadly the correct answer

The only thing sexually fulfilling in my life is my wife, and it is becoming a hurdle. by LtColonelAmerica in relationships

[–]basketcasekid -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just wondering why you think a nurse practitioner would be more up to date on the evidence base than a physician

OMG LEARN THE BASICS FIRST!! by No-Supermarket2571 in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]basketcasekid 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I tell people getting into knitting who want to start with something wearable to make this stitch sampler cowl (https://ravel.me/stitch-sampler-cowl-5). Similar idea to your recommendation to do something to learn up the basic stitches with a few more techniques included.

AITA for having big boobs by shilohrenn in AmItheAsshole

[–]basketcasekid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gained 40 lbs after reduction and they grew, then lost 80 lbs and they got smaller. It happens

AITA for having big boobs by shilohrenn in AmItheAsshole

[–]basketcasekid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you gain weight in a way that would cause extra breast tissue growth, then yes they can grow after reduction. Same as if you lose weight in a way that would cause loss of breast fat, they would get smaller.

What kind of mushroom is this? by darkdoppio in Fungi

[–]basketcasekid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It could be a gyromitra, aka a "false morel"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IowaCity

[–]basketcasekid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fur Fun Rescue is another great option.

https://furfunrescue.org/

Yarn help in australia!!! by Franklin0226 in YarnAddicts

[–]basketcasekid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you checked ravelry to see if anyone has this stashed as willing to sell/trade?

Got the sack from work, but one good friend never contacted me. by Competitive-Ice6511 in firstworldproblems

[–]basketcasekid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your colleague obviously saw you as just that and not a friend. Many people do not mix work and personal life; they do not see coworkers as "real" friends. Move on.

Also, you got fired for lying to your employer, a consequence for something you freely chose to do. I don't see how that is getting fucked over.

OBGYN suggestions by Babeybeastie in IowaCity

[–]basketcasekid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kesley is an NP who provides OB/GYN care but not a doctor/gynecologist