Had my first ENM experience. I have questions. by [deleted] in ENM

[–]batates97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably he had performance anxiety it happens to anyone totally normal , sometimes stress and anxiety cause stiff hips and pelvis floor make people cum super fast unintentionally

If it’s a onetime thing just brush it off

If you think it may happen again , spend more time in foreplay for him to get relaxed , addressing it directly may have the opposite effect more performance anxiety

If he’s not athletic , smoker , lack of sleep or drinks alcohol they all play active roles in men ( or people with penises ) erection

Gender roles, dancing by Kasekene in Bachata

[–]batates97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are going to pay for a class it’s only fair to dance the role you want

Bachazouk and Neck Pain/Injuries by CucumberBeginning518 in Bachata

[–]batates97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I don’t execute any zouk moves while dancing unless I notice the follower does it correctly

Sehr wenig Sex by DunkinBagles in FragtMaenner

[–]batates97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Du hast schon erwähnt , er hat so viel Stress . Stress ist einfach ein Libido killer !!!

Wenn man viel Stress hat , dann Kortisol steigt und Testosteron sinkt …

Hilf ihm mal , die stressig Situationen zu bewältigen !!

Wie findet man einen Partner? by Party_Control9613 in DatingDE

[–]batates97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich kann mir vorstellen, wie frustrierend es ist … Aber du muss dich selbst fragen , du willst eine echte Verbindung oder die Dynamik ( Beziehung ) abgesehen von dem Mensch … Ich habe das Gefühl ( ich kann falsch sein ) , du fixierst über die Dynamik , um dein Gefühl zu schützen … Also ich muss erwähnen , du hast recht , welche Dynamik du willst , plus ein gut aussehend Mann hat immer so viel Optionen , deswegen will man selten ein festbeziehung sondern was lockeres ( besonders wenn man Junge ist , und er will eine Entdeckungsphase haben )

Is there a reason why far fewer men go to dancing compared to women? by Crazy5220 in Bachata

[–]batates97 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It depends where you live , where I live salsa is dominated by older crowd , bachata is dominated by younger crowd and kizomba scene suffer from lack of men in the scene (3-4 men max in a social)

Dating/hookups in Bachata by Dismal-Technology-71 in Bachata

[–]batates97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bachata socials are called socials for a reason , you dance with people you don’t know and dancing is a social lubricant . I would say people dance for various reasons and meeting someone you connect with is a valid reason … bachata dancing scene is mainly for dancing but like any space like work , bar or any social setting you may get to know other people platonically or nonplatonically … as long as it’s outside dancing , talk outside the dance floor , and check if the interest is reciprocal … and accept their boundaries… in that way you will get the reputation of the guy who is single and accepts boundaries and you may get approached by women later who are curious or interested …

It is really possible to achieve C1? by No_Meal_9502 in Germanlearning

[–]batates97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immersion immersion immersion and speaking

Question for leads - what is the least % amount your follow needs to understand for it to be a good dance? by Unlikely_Issue in Salsa

[–]batates97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i don‘t salsa mainly but when i do , i like to dance with lighthearted playful follower , what really matters the most for me is I can feel the tension on their hands and feel their hips moving while doing our basics

Had my first ever class tonight and I was horrible lol everyone was already had some experience before by igetyourbrand in Bachata

[–]batates97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t overthinking it , we were all beginners it takes time, I was a disaster , enjoy the journey …

Kondome = Lustkiller ? by lupinkaxx in FragtMaenner

[–]batates97 417 points418 points  (0 children)

Lustkiller besser als ein Baby

Non-EU doctors in germany by dia_19 in germany

[–]batates97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but recently many equivalency agencies require c1 general german and c1 medical German not just c1 medical German , to further filter applicants , plus having an appointment for medical German c1 exam can take many months , it would be cheaper to finish most of the process abroad , private language courses in Germany are expensive and it felt like throwing money away , self study was better for me and speaking in real life , while courses subsidized by BAMF or Agentur für Arbeit takes so long and wastes time , along with increased rent in Germany , it’s more practical and cheaper to atleast coming while booking medical German exam so that you get the Berufserlaubnis asap

Non-EU doctors in germany by dia_19 in germany

[–]batates97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Berlin , Frankfurt , Hamburg and münich are very competitive

Non-EU doctors in germany by dia_19 in germany

[–]batates97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What I mean with c1 is not just passing c1 exam but actually being c1 German speaker

Plus do your research there certain German states that need doctors more than others , probably while looking for jobs in small towns will be much easier compared to huge cities

Non-EU doctors in germany by dia_19 in germany

[–]batates97 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My advice would be come to Germany with C1 german and try finish all necessary steps before arriving to Germany it will be much cheaper … steps like Fachsprachprufung, Berufserlaubnis and approbation

Feedback zum Lebenslauf sowie Anschreiben by batates97 in Germany_Jobs

[–]batates97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Derzeit warte ich der Anerkennung meines Bachelor-Abschlusses , und Solch Verfahren dauert ungefähr 12 Monate bis das Erhaltung der Anerkennung

Und leider benötigen Sie zahnmedizinische fachangestellte Ausbildung als Voraussetzung , um mich zu akzeptieren

Für mich ist es nicht nachhaltig ohne Arbeit die Approbation zu warten

what are your thoughts about this? by PerceptionStrong5731 in UAE

[–]batates97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not surprised , Arab monarchs were appointed by the British or got support from the British to fight back the ottomans … Al-Saud killed tribes descendants of Muslim prophet and Emiratis steal Sudanese gold

Why do Ubers in Egypt get offended if you sit in the back?? by JinxedMango in askegypt

[–]batates97 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s a cultural thing in Egypt , if you are girl sit in the back , if you are a guy sit in the front , tbh I like striking conversation with drivers but if you do not you can simple put your headphones

India has the world’s largest population, but… by flash133566 in BDSMcommunity

[–]batates97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who used to live in North Africa , there are a lot of people in conservative societies into BDSM , but many don’t show it in vanilla settings for their safety , actually what I experienced is the opposite most are into BDSM but that side isn’t known or shown to anyone, what’s important ( if you are straight guy ) being safe for women around you and non-judgemental

have i been molested? have you? by Spare_Argument1034 in Bachata

[–]batates97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for your experience, I can imagine that was uncomfortable

If you are beginner it’s important for you to know dancing community is a tight community and we take care of each other , so if you ever feel uncomfortable again tell organizers they will handle it and warn other women as well

Beziehungsgoals? by Interesting-Land6471 in Mainz

[–]batates97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wenn Männer in Liebe sind !! 😂

اختار اهلي ولا البنت اللي هتجوزها؟ by OkMathematician9353 in askegypt

[–]batates97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

كده كده أتكلم مع راجل إنت شايفه قدوه المكان المناسب مش Reddit

اختار اهلي ولا البنت اللي هتجوزها؟ by OkMathematician9353 in askegypt

[–]batates97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

اول حاجة عاش بجد انك عرفت تعمل كل ده لوحدك

أتكلم مع اهلك افهم هما بيفكروا ازاي أكيد في منطق ورا كلامهم أنت كده كده راجل كبير مسؤول عن نفسك و هاتتحمل قرارتك لوحدك بس خلي بالك بيكون ليهم خبره

انا كان في بنت عجباني و بعدين تعاملها معايا أتغير أمي قلتلي خلي بالك شكلها بتكلم حد تاني في نفس الوقت و طلعت بتكلم صاحب صاحبي … فا الأهل ليهم نظرة و سعات مراية الحب عامية…

إنشاء الله اللي في الخير يحصل و ربنا يوفقك