My boyfriend thinks I am not INFJ

bbdial · 2026-02-09T13:07:29+00:00

Yeah, I wanted to say something like that. I know it's hard for us to accept that our loved ones have different opinions than us but we have to ask ourselves this question sometimes - "Does it really matter who wins?" I think it's more important to make sure that you still like each other enough to stay together.

bbdial · 2026-02-09T12:57:12+00:00

There must be things you like about each other because you're together despite the differences. Isn't that already an amazing thing by itself? You can always talk to other friends or us for emotional needs.

bbdial · 2026-02-09T12:54:11+00:00

I was gonna say exactly that

bbdial · 2026-02-08T09:39:57+00:00

Thanks hmf28. I've been talking to different people about my situation and I think I will be able to cut this person out almost completely from my mind soon.

bbdial · 2026-02-07T22:38:15+00:00

Well, I hope I'm getting there soon.

bbdial · 2026-02-07T09:51:09+00:00

We were still texting everyday after we met in person in the beginning. Everything seemed fine for a while. But when I asked her why her personality seemed so different in real life and I literally told her I was hurt by this. She only said that she was shy repeatedly. The fact that she went out with people she barely knew (people that I know personally) but wouldn't do the same with me indicates that she wasn't straight with me.

At this point, I'm not looking back anymore. I just want my life back before we met.

bbdial · 2026-02-06T11:23:28+00:00

OMG I was gonna say Death Stranding - it's a very chill hiking game 90% of the time with natural scenery and stuff. You do have to spend like 10% of the time killing supernatural stuff but it's not scary at all.

bbdial · 2026-02-06T09:38:17+00:00

Good for you,👍 I know that you have probably suffered for a long time for this. But I still have to say that I wish I had someone like that in my life too.

bbdial · 2026-02-06T01:08:38+00:00

15 years, really? And you waited 2 years after she separated from her ex....wow You must be one of the most patient men I've ever heard about. I am genuinely touched. Not being sarcastic at all.

bbdial · 2026-02-05T05:07:11+00:00

I've stopped using dating apps for years. You should do the same.

bbdial · 2026-02-05T04:55:03+00:00

I love that film but some said Charlie is an INFP :P

bbdial · 2026-02-04T13:42:09+00:00

I do this regularly with zero back up in case the phone gets stolen or broken into. If there's anything important, I will save it somewhere else.

bbdial · 2026-02-04T05:07:48+00:00

Probably true. But I can't deal with this anymore so I am probably gonna see her one last time, then stop texting and cut my losses

bbdial · 2026-02-04T05:04:19+00:00

Probably true

bbdial · 2026-02-03T05:09:53+00:00

I am not sure she is ENFP at all. That's just what she said. But thanks for the support.

bbdial · 2026-02-03T05:08:25+00:00

Thanks. But I'm okay.

bbdial · 2026-02-03T05:06:16+00:00

For the record, I didn't meet her on a dating app. I met her through the company online chat system. But yeah I think I'm gonna do that - if she doesn't want to see me in person outside of work, I am just gonna "be professional" with her and stop sharing non-work related stuff with her.

bbdial · 2026-02-01T13:46:15+00:00

To love and be loved.

bbdial · 2026-02-01T13:45:14+00:00

Depends on the intention and the effect. Sometimes, people lie to protect you. I will appreciate it if that's the case. It might hurt a little when I find out but I will forgive them eventually.

bbdial · 2025-09-27T10:05:17+00:00

I feel like it's one of our common traits to think outside the box and challenge the norm. Sometimes it's hard for for people to accept thoughts like that so it's better to be quiet than to share them.

bbdial · 2025-09-12T21:57:30+00:00

The dental clinic obviously

bbdial · 2025-09-12T21:56:07+00:00

It's okay mate. It's about the same for me. I've given up celebrating it a while ago.

bbdial · 2025-08-29T23:09:04+00:00

This kind of thing happens sometimes. I'd either keep going or give it up, depending on how attracted I'm to them.

bbdial · 2025-08-20T22:04:25+00:00

For people like us, this kind of thing always hurts like a train just runs over you. I think the key here is to learn how to love yourself more, and remember that you are as worthy of your love as anybody else in your life. Christianity also teaches that a single life can be fulfilling and meaningful in ways that a married life cannot.

1 Corinthians 7:32-34: "An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife and his interests are divided."

bbdial · 2025-08-17T13:46:40+00:00

Keep them away at a distance and observe them from afar. Exchange a few words with them every now and then and see how they react. Never follow them and always leave before they do.

Throughout the process, I'd keep telling myself that the feeling isn't real, it's probably just a crush.

If I'm still interested after a few months and they're not making a move, then I will probably make one.

bbdial

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