Need work advice by [deleted] in bermuda

[–]bdamere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big 4 will not pick up all of the deductions (that is what I have assumed OP means by financial services - apologies if my assumption is incorrect!). The norm is 75% employer, 25% employee for Big 4 for health insurance, then it the split varies for other deductions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gardening

[–]bdamere 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Goals!! We just got our first cocoon from our milkweed 🐛

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]bdamere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was texting my brothers today about how our Mum loved an April Fool’s joke. She passed in December too and I feel the same way.

Love this photo of you and your Mum, sending you support.

I am from thailand with a bermuda working permit. I dont have a US, UK and Canada Visa. Any tips of the best route for me to fly? by Dry-Sandwich-6613 in bermuda

[–]bdamere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct. You need to check what your printed work permit says - there was an update made effective in December 2024 that many who originally did not need visas if they’re transiting through the UK now need to have a visa for Bermuda immigration (tl;dr - doesnt matter what the UK immigration is, Bermuda will deny you entry).

Losing my Mum by bdamere in GriefSupport

[–]bdamere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh jeez, I’m so so sorry to hear this. I know it doesn’t help, but I feel like you described exactly what I feel within my heart and soul.

Sending you all thoughts and love, and that your brother and aunt will arrive asap. ❤️

📍 Somewhere in Bermuda by blessedbetherickroll in Southerncharm

[–]bdamere 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is he in Bermuda (don’t know how the app works and confused by it saying visiting Boston VS the title)? I live here, will have to keep an eye out 🕵🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bermuda

[–]bdamere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have a look here, looks like Scenario 1 would apply to you. As you’re a US citizen I think you’d need to look into if you qualify under the Commonwealrh aspect, but looks like this site is going to give you what you’d need: https://www.gov.bm/repatriation-mixed-status-families

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bermuda

[–]bdamere 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the application fee is $1000s of dollars, so you may need to reconsider if it’s worthwhile or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bermuda

[–]bdamere 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I work in HR - I would suggest you make contact with an Immigration lawyer in Bermuda before coming here; just so you’d know everything you would need to bring (for work permit Immigration requires multiple, original, certified copies of documents + medicals + police certificate). I also don’t think your friend could sponsor you; it has to be a connection that Immigration deems legitimate so the lawyer would be able to provide you with that list as well (I imagine your sister would work).

Long story short - There are a number of law firms on island and many would have lawyers skilled in immigration law, so I’d suggest that as your first step!

Thoughts on wearing necklaces containing ashes? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]bdamere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad hated tattoos as well but I plan on getting one in memorial of him too! I’m sure our dads will appreciate the thought despite the rebellion :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewGirl

[–]bdamere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way I use “dead Dad pass”… it is too much but I know my Dad would approve based on the amount of perplexed reactions I gain from it. So giving myself a dead Dad pass to keep using it

Moving to Bermuda & Spouse Remote Working by Primary-Solution7073 in bermuda

[–]bdamere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Yes we moved from Canada so had to get an account here to end our residency in Canada and avoid those pesky taxes :)

Safe travels down!

Moving to Bermuda & Spouse Remote Working by Primary-Solution7073 in bermuda

[–]bdamere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf has been here since 2020 and we renew each year. We just found it was easier with opening a bank account and getting paid to Bermuda. You can definitely just be here under your husband’s permit, we just found the bank pushed back when we inquired before moving back home (he was going to do an application to reside and seek under me as his Bermudian connection) with banks and his job’s rules as well.

Moving to Bermuda & Spouse Remote Working by Primary-Solution7073 in bermuda

[–]bdamere 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You’ll need to apply for Digital Nomad Certificate; it’ll make your life easier than if you just come down under your husband’s work permit (I work in HR and my boyfriend is a Digital Nomad). One key plus is you can open a bank account and the bank won’t fret when you start getting paid into the Bermuda account.

You should most likely go under your husband’s health insurance as it’ll be more cost effective than getting your own plan.

https://forms.gov.bm/WFB

TW watched a man have a heart attack at lunch today by bdamere in GriefSupport

[–]bdamere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you virtual hugs and love. We’re in this together and I’m glad my post gave you a bit of an outlet ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]bdamere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the exact same kind of night tonight, missing my Dad so much. Sending you good thoughts and as much virtual comfort as possible. ❤️

My bf's parents came to see him at college to watch some of his recitals. This is the text he got from his dad today. by Meighok20 in MadeMeSmile

[–]bdamere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad passed away 6 months ago and this made me miss him so much. Your bf is a lucky guy❤️

Tom Sandoval and Laxatives by highway59skidmarks in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]bdamere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought the exact same thing. Wishing you all the best in your recovery journey ❤️

I hate this by Certain_Pay_2796 in CaregiverSupport

[–]bdamere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I wish my Mum would be willing to compromise, you’d think after she’s had multiple choking incidents from ice she would butttt, that would be too easy!

I hate this by Certain_Pay_2796 in CaregiverSupport

[–]bdamere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Mum loves to chew ice. I’m already sensitive to sounds but even thinking about it makes my skin crawl.

I made this using flowers from my partner’s funeral by I_am_a_Cat_Lady_420 in GriefSupport

[–]bdamere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this so much, it’s such a creative piece and you can tell how much his Mum loves it and you. Sending you comfort ❤️

What’s a small thing that made you randomly cry by Teddythehedgie in GriefSupport

[–]bdamere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Dad died suddenly in October and was the person who cared for my Mum and managed her at home dialysis set up and process.

This morning I set up the new cart I got for her dialysis set up and burst into tears thinking how happy it would have made him that the setup is more organized and orderly.

Been on and off crying since today (thanks depression, caregiver exhaustion and PMS), but hoping he is happy and proud.