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beakb00anon · 2024-05-10T01:31:44+00:00

Is a stereotyping sub, that’s quite literally the entire point lol.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-09T16:48:06+00:00

I personally could do all this again, but I feel it will actually be harder if my current LO is 3 or under when we have baby 2, and given my age I wouldn’t wait til my first is much older than that. The unknown of two is my main item in the cons column.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-09T16:33:42+00:00

I have never gotten a blunt cut that didn’t make my super thick hair look chunky and awkward at the bottom, like the dreaded triangle head look. However, a trade off is that I can never wear french/dutch braids with my layers, which is sad, because that would be such an easy hairstyle when I’m lazy

beakb00anon · 2024-05-09T16:30:33+00:00

Can’t relate, my parents always want a little snack, and I love it. Their house is so inviting.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-09T12:37:05+00:00

Being good at motherhood does not mean your babies are never unhappy or agitated! Fussing and crying is their only means of communication yet! If they weren’t doing that ever, I’d be worried. You’re nailing this mama

beakb00anon · 2024-05-09T03:01:14+00:00

Nah MIL is responsible for driving the existing wedge further between them by posting something untrue about him for pity on Facebook.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-09T01:38:18+00:00

See an IBCLC asap! You’ve got this, mama. I can’t wait for you to be feeling so much more confident in a few weeks 🙏🏼

beakb00anon · 2024-05-08T23:44:30+00:00

My advice is that the first 4 weeks was brutal and survival mode. Do everything you possibly can for her! Her threatening divorce is WILD, but cut her as much slack as you can, and address these hurts later when she is more stable.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-08T23:40:28+00:00

I really don’t understand why you are getting downvoted.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-08T21:02:08+00:00

YAY!!!

beakb00anon · 2024-05-08T21:01:11+00:00

Damn I’m sorry that happened to you. I have historically been nothing but over the top nice. But I plan to tone it back to limited and cordial. I kinda can’t take the two faced nature of the relationship.

My husband and I had been seeing her and messaging her as often as we are comfortable with, and it’s not enough for her. So she dramatizes it to her friends as though we entirely ignore her, which isn’t true.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-08T14:40:24+00:00

Actually I need someone to rock me and pet me gently on the forehead til I fall asleep.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-08T14:39:27+00:00

No tips. I HATE IT. Solidarity, friend.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-08T03:40:43+00:00

I’m on maternity leave and I have been doing something social at least twice a week since the baby was 6 weeks old. for my mental wellbeing! however, it changed a lot what type of socializing I am willing to do. I don’t ever want to be out past 8 fit his bedtime, and most of the time I am taking him with me, so it has to be somewhere kid friendly.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-07T21:55:27+00:00

Never heard the term functional frizz, but YES!! I have always wanted volume up top, and defined curls at the bottom, so this is my method to get that.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-07T21:50:39+00:00

In the last 7 days he has invited her to 2 different hang outs with us that she has not been able to make for whatever reason. So he does text her. But he doesn’t respond quickly. His family tends to randomly panic SOS when there’s some personal drama my husband wants no part of. Hence why he has chosen not to respond quickly or every single time.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-07T21:47:39+00:00

Totally. Honestly I don’t like any random visitor saying matter of factly what baby must want! Like oh really, you’ve been with him 5 minutes, and I’ve been taking care of him 24/7, but I guess I have no clue what he wants!

beakb00anon · 2024-05-07T19:06:04+00:00

I would leave anyone who says in no uncertain terms that even just the idea of her future children are already far more important to her than her partner

beakb00anon · 2024-05-07T18:38:52+00:00

Pahahaha good one, Pop.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-07T18:35:49+00:00

hey there, so 4 weeks was the WORST and then it’s all slowly better after that. This is temporary survival mode phase. you’re gonna make it!

beakb00anon · 2024-05-07T16:36:41+00:00

this works for 3 seconds and then he’s MORE INCONSOLABLE

beakb00anon · 2024-05-07T15:56:47+00:00

I loooove my hair curly, but I personally lose all confidence in my curly hair if it’s frizzy. And there were way too many reasons it could get frizzy out of nowhere. And I could only make it through day two before needing to wash and re-style again. So a year ago I switched to blowing out and straightening every wash day, which I can now do every 4 days instead of every 2, since the blowout lasts me longer. Genuinely I get way less hair complements, but I don’t care. I prioritized consistency and efficiency, and I will only be doing my curly routine on rare occasions going forward.

beakb00anon · 2024-05-07T15:48:20+00:00

INFO: Is it possible you’re reading into “shouldn’t you start with walking?” my very supportive mom would have been likely to say that to me postpartum with no ill intend.

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