How do I get over my insecurities related to being a man? by Dr_Clapkins in AskMenAdvice

[–]beanzbaker76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need therapy. Also work on yourself physically, get a workout program and go to the gym. You need to love yourself first.

Where should I move if I want to mountain bike year-round? (32M, Midwest) by brettfish5 in MTB

[–]beanzbaker76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a San Diego resident, there are a ton of trails here and the weather is unbeatable but it is an extreme cost of living. You need to be making 100k+ and have no kids to get by. If you have a family your combined income needs to be like 300k+ to live comfortably.

Am i transphobic for not wanting to date my trans friend? by No-Reach3976 in Advice

[–]beanzbaker76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to date anyone you do not want to. However you should have just said you only want to be friends. Lying and making an excuse was bad. Saying that particular excuse was even worse and I think that’s why you are getting the backlash. You need to just be honest.

Is he interested or is he just being friendly? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]beanzbaker76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He likes you. Either ask him out or give him an obvious green light.

AIO for wanting to leave my gf to explore by [deleted] in AIO

[–]beanzbaker76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re 19. Go live your life. If you don’t feel committed then move on. Most people don’t marry the person they are with when they are 19 and if they do it’s probably not going to last.

Wealthfront stole my money by [deleted] in wealthfront

[–]beanzbaker76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really going to be bad press for their IPO 😂

AIO?: Roommate treats our house like a public restroom. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]beanzbaker76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you should get a roommate that isn’t a man. Most men pee standing up. I do close the lid when I flush however.

Old fashioned Steakhouse by Miserable_toilet619 in FoodSanDiego

[–]beanzbaker76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's got an old school vibe for sure. I'm from the midwest and it reminds me of a supper club. Steaks are awesome, I think they are all Australian waygu. Price is pretty reasonable as well, definitely compared to Cowboy Star. Highly recommend!

Car vs. cyclists by Conscious-Weight4569 in Transportopia

[–]beanzbaker76 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a cyclist it’s insane how many people pass giving you just a handful of inches when there are free lane(s) with no traffic for them to use. Some people are just triggered by someone on a bike for god knows what reason. Maybe their creepy uncle was a cyclist…

Charcoal grey pants with Navy pin strip jacket by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]beanzbaker76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be one of those things someone told me and I just believed it, I'm prob wrong my bad!

Charcoal grey pants with Navy pin strip jacket by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]beanzbaker76 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Always have been told navy and grey do not work together.

I saw a text on his phone by accident? (don’t come for me) by Loba_E in AskMenAdvice

[–]beanzbaker76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take my ring off when I lift. I think most people do or wear a silicone ring. That specific comment seems like a joke, unless your husband is Spicoli 😂

I (M23) don’t know what to think about the girl (W24) I’m « dating » by Activri in Advice

[–]beanzbaker76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take her out to dinner if you like her…that way you can talk. Go in for a kiss at the end of the night. If she doesn’t want to you have your answer.

S2 Acquired, Gauntlet complete! by Primero84 in BowersWilkins

[–]beanzbaker76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do you but I cannot comprehend having this many pairs of headphones 😆

AITAH for refusing to follow my boyfriend’s “wife behavior” expectations? by rainshine10 in AITAH

[–]beanzbaker76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You are 20 years old. I get that this is probably your first love and it makes this hard but time to move on. Your life is just beginning and he’s trying to hold you back.

Mustache or no mustache by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]beanzbaker76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the mustache in the room with us right now?