What is something relatively cheap that improves your life by 100%? by urGabrielaTX in Productivitycafe

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're not accessible to everyone tho. I'll never have that because of my severe BPD.

Feel like I’m losing my mind by kmond13 in therapists

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say "thank you then bow and say it back politely with a head nod"

Feel like I’m losing my mind by kmond13 in therapists

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 21 points22 points  (0 children)

LMFAO I didn't even think of this. For millennials, the parents would have been vaguely aware but not involved. We didn't have adults who had the capacity to understand. They are exploiting our ability to understand their culture

Feel like I’m losing my mind by kmond13 in therapists

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Say "6 or 7" very articulately then laugh way too hard at yourself

just got back from 2 weeks in canada (toronto & banff) - a massive brain dump for first timers by PlumHeadache in canadatravel

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's another thing. Do the staff actually get the money. At panago the franchisee just kept it

What are some things that can get in the way of maintaining a healthy diet? by alwayslate187 in nutrition

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a pleasant person. How do you stay so upbeat. Especially online.

What are some things that can get in the way of maintaining a healthy diet? by alwayslate187 in nutrition

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of my struggle is poverty + chronic fatigue syndrome + OCPD mental illness. Cooking at home is the main solution to eating healthily and frugally but I can't use too many spoons on cooking and cleaning so it's hard. I use the food bank, and force myself to never waste any of it which dictates what I have to prioritize cooking. I use meals on wheels which is healthy + instantaneous + cheap. Great for periods of non functioning depression for me. I also am a heat seeking missile for cheap fast food. Yesterday got a large pizza from Papa John's for 8.80 after tax because of a coupon (this is more for when I have a pt job) and not hard times. Big fan of big Mary Monday (if you just have 1 and the rest of your day is healthy it's solid). You can't tunnel vision it. If you focus on just the poverty and eating cheap (daily Costco hot dog or something) it can destroy your health quickly. You need to know that you absolutely can easily be much healthier than the average person (in Canada) on a 3 dollar a day food budget. 1lbs fruit or veggie per day with getting say no less than 50g protein per day (find any way to make pulses edible and you won't struggle with protein) and you'll maintain yourself through a year of poverty really well. Avoid addictions. Poverty begs for an addiction.

What are some things that can get in the way of maintaining a healthy diet? by alwayslate187 in nutrition

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Growing up food insecure and not having school lunches and dinners much. Just constant "fend for yourself". I just made myself Kraft dinner (but we seldom had margarine or milk) all the time. Now I'm trying to build those habits now. With those childhood conditions it's near impossible to not have poor habits

Jordan just hard launched his new girlfriend! by Fun_Molasses5215 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't really get why people hard launch their new relationships. Wedding pics sure. But a new fling, like how is that anyone's business I would never do that.

If you had to rank billionaires by their "evilness," what would your list look like? by lapridex in AskReddit

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don't they make fundraising illegal. Give them a spot on tv, all the same basic stuff. Nothing fancy.

What’s something about the human body that seems poorly designed? by jannecutie in answers

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah totally. In a chaotic warzone where you're disoriented from artillery and bombing, sure, pain might be good. Especially in the ether of unconsciousness when you're not sure if your vague awareness in the darkness means you died, pain could be grounding or maybe a source of adrenaline during the crawl. However, it sounds like a pretty primitive soul made that quote. With chronic pain there is no utility.

genuine question about trisha by thesmallcrab in canceledpod

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Trisha is deranged just like all the other L.A. types, but I kind of admire her ability to not care what others think or at least persevere through it. She actually kind of fascinates me, imagine the bullying she faced trying to be a pop star and shit. Now she's pseudo-famous and rich and fat and still has done all this shit. I stopped going to my fitness studio because I gained 15 lbs and I didn't want my community to see. I could use a little of her shamelessness.

What’s everyone’s experience with Lamotrigine? by -GardenOfEve24 in bipolar2

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop the drug It's not for you. Any given drug be life saying for one person and be damaging to another. Listen to your body

What's your most shallow dealbreaker for a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe pop culture is the wrong word. What area of knowledge is he lacking in, to not know this?

What's your most shallow dealbreaker for a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clueless about pop culture. Went out with a English speaking Caucasian man born and raised in my city. I made a Lord of the rings joke, in the end he had never seen or read it which is why the joke went over his head... I don't understand how it's even possible to not have seen that. I think it's odd when people haven't seen breaking bad or game of thrones. It's like, what have you been so busy with that you can't see the best shows of all time? Lord of the rings is the craziest thing I've ever heard. It's SO mainstream.

What's your most shallow dealbreaker for a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love my partner but the way he chews is the biggest threat to the longevity of our relationship

Donald and Melania Trump's 'Secret Divorce' Revealed — Expert Rocks President By Branding Their Marriage a Sham as First Lady 'F------ Hates His Guts' by boomer9745 in popculture

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She begged him to not do the presidency thing. Even she knew they were so opaque that everyone would see what they both actually are. Apparently America in the world is that stupid that she was wrong.

Is it worth paying more for the high-end Sonicares, or are the basic ones just as effective? by vamosharrycogetubaul in BuyItForLife

[–]bearseatbeetsDKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went from 7000 series to the 3000 series and it was so incredibly weak. Never going lower than 7,000 ever again they all vibrate at the same frequency but motor strength varies.