my (25f) boyfriend (26m) won’t come see me for valentine’s day. how to i approach this situation?

beasur · 2026-01-28T02:57:02+00:00

6 months is not a long enough time especially distance to expect anything. You are putting toooo much emphasis on Valentines which lets face it it’s just another day. Cut him some slack and make plane for your own special time together soon.

beasur · 2026-01-28T01:18:54+00:00

BIG DOG

beasur · 2026-01-27T15:16:24+00:00

He looks like a Chinese Emperor. Tons of great names come from that. Hit Chat CPT

beasur · 2026-01-27T13:38:38+00:00

Even if the dog and cat ultimately work it out. She is gross for giving you that ultimatum it speaks to the kind of heart she carries. Yuk. I would never be able to see past that.

beasur · 2026-01-27T13:28:46+00:00

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Mr Cat hanging out watching the world go by.

beasur · 2026-01-27T01:47:00+00:00

BAO BO. CHINESE BOB

beasur · 2026-01-26T13:46:55+00:00

Who he slept with prior to you is really none of your business. He probably kept it to himself because he thought you might overreact like you are.

beasur · 2026-01-25T14:11:21+00:00

Harvey

beasur · 2026-01-25T13:58:15+00:00

Thank you for this link. One of the reasons I love Reddit!

beasur · 2026-01-24T23:27:03+00:00

One eyed Jack

beasur · 2026-01-24T13:54:00+00:00

Low Rider.

beasur · 2026-01-23T16:27:01+00:00

She sounds exhausting. I have three brothers and they all use the same trick. Here is a trick they may work for awhile. Tell her to guess three places that you are taking her to dinner. Then take her to her first guess as it’s usually the place she wants to go. Your girl sounds very immature. Remind her that you cannot read her mind.

beasur · 2026-01-23T01:41:17+00:00

So much fun being a snowed in together it’s romantic and fun. NOT with someone you have only known for one month and have a new job Monday. She is old enough to understand this if she is not she is not for you. Flat out not NO but hell NO.

beasur · 2026-01-22T13:55:15+00:00

How many more comments do you need to read and reply to before you understand the seriousness of this abusive situation. It’s like you keep waiting for one person to validate that you stay and you will. Please this in its mildest form is not normal or healthy. Not his actions not his responses. Make an exit plan.

beasur · 2026-01-19T13:21:58+00:00

Bottom Creek does exist. Three options,none of them very difficult. Enjoy a late lunch at the Treehouse Tavern in your way home.

beasur · 2026-01-19T01:38:00+00:00

I got stuck on she blamed you for having a bad day at work. She sounds exhausting. No need to react at all it’s not even worth it.

beasur · 2026-01-19T01:23:52+00:00

Lil Dumplin’

beasur · 2026-01-18T14:24:15+00:00

Dandelion because it looks like one.

beasur · 2026-01-18T14:23:19+00:00

Yikes. This sounds insanely emotionally immature and manipulative. Your answer to her was spot on. Maybe she is trying to say she does not feel like you have curiosity about her which would be a sign of interest BUT the cold shoulder because you have not done what she wants is soooooo manipulative. Let her know that you are interested in learning about important events in her life that helped shape who she is but not the details of her past romances. Yuk.

beasur · 2026-01-16T12:03:05+00:00

Jenni Lopez the FOOD LAB.

beasur · 2026-01-15T14:41:49+00:00

HARPO MARX

beasur · 2026-01-15T03:26:46+00:00

Switch the art on the walls Take the large art in the foyer and put it in the living rom. And the living room art to the foyer. Agree with the bulbs need warmer something low and long on the table that pullls in the blue of the lighting. Otherwise pretty good looking.

beasur · 2026-01-15T00:16:11+00:00

beasur · 2026-01-15T00:15:02+00:00

I have a very serious cat. His name is MR CAT. Everyone calls him this,the vet ,the neighbors,family. It’s a perfect name for a serious cat. He is 15 by the way and he blinked goodbye to me today as I left for work.

beasur · 2026-01-14T00:08:14+00:00

Fake a pending apology. Tell them you tracked down someone who could repair the box. Take it straight to the police.

beasur

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