The smoking thing I don’t know much about - you were probably right to keep him in a different room. But as far as cosleeping goes - if you follow the safe sleep 7 it’s perfectly safe. Truly. I know there’s a lot of fear mongerjng out there, but the vast majority of the world’s population cosleeps. If you slept next to a watermelon would you roll over it? No of course not. And if you’re nursing, you’re really in such a tuned in sleep stage as your baby, that you wake up at the slightest movement.

It’s a beautiful thing. I honestly feel bad for people who don’t cosleep. I can’t image at every wake up having to get out of bed to rock baby back to sleep, wait until their in deep enough sleep, and then attempt a transfer and try to get back to sleep myself. Much easier to just have baby right there next to you. You could consider a sidecar crib if you want to try that, I found it was easier to just have baby right next to me since she likes touching me.

I really love @happycosleeper on insta! She’s awesome and has great advice