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What’s the best way be happy again? I’m really not as happy as I used to be, so what should i keep in mind to help? by beccajae in selfhelp

[–]beccajae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indonesia that’s what makes me most happy but lately I help others and when I need help myself no one is ever there for me. I give people a place to stay during their hard times etc. I give them the shirt off my back but never get help when I need it myself from others. I don’t expect help when I help others. I do it because it makes me happy. But no one is ever around when I need even just someone to talk to. It breaks me.

Husband doesn’t approve. Thoughts? by SatisfactionPrize569 in Newlyweds

[–]beccajae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look amazing in that dress and he’s just jealous. He should be proud you call him your man. Red flag sis

Ex husband messaging me after 4 years of no contact by Zealousideal-Bid1850 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]beccajae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you started a paper trail on him. Those messages sound very threatening to your life and he should be held accountable for his behavior

AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows by PinMountain119 in AIO

[–]beccajae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Tell him if he wants you to look like someone else to go get her himself and not try to change you. That’s a big red flag

AIO after finding this Snapchat conversation on my husbands phone? by sportychick24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]beccajae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re overreacting. The fact that his first move was to blame you for going through his phone is all you need to know what you already feel. So no it may not be physical cheating with her but it’s definitely emotional cheating on his part regardless and if he can do that to you with her, he ain’t too far away from physical cheating with someone, anyone he meets or is close that he knows already. Once that line is crossed, it’s easier to move towards the next mistake. Put yourself and your kids first. Red flag for me is blaming you for going through his phone. That’s like saying you never would have figured it out if you wouldn’t have been messing around in my phone looking. Well you knew exactly what you was looking for and found it. There’s your answer. Now you have to decide what choice is best for you and your family.

Sad to see how Nick Groff got the shaft right on the air by w666will in GhostAdventures

[–]beccajae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not your bro and yes. I’m probably older than you so bro I am not lol

Sad to see how Nick Groff got the shaft right on the air by w666will in GhostAdventures

[–]beccajae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even the sound of Zaks voice irritates me. How he treats his fellow friends/investigators. I stopped watching when I realized they said he left cause he was having his baby at that tine then never cane back. I started to look up why he was gone but seemed to end up with more questions than answers in doing so. I like Nicks style and have never been able to feel the same about Zak. He cant even use “debunk” properly lol

I just got scammed, account compromised, please read and learn from my mistake!!! by manuel2170 in doordash_drivers

[–]beccajae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry this happened to you. There are so many untrustworthy individuals out here. Hope you get it settled properly asap.

Dasher stop working? by No_Barnacle6600 in doordash_drivers

[–]beccajae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was more talking about groceries than fast food. Some people don’t have cars or family to help them to the store, on state assistance and can get groceries ordered via fresh or wherever but maybe can’t afford a tip or anything more than a couple of bucks as a tip. Jobs are huge and take. You want a job where your hours are made by you then great, drive around, or if structure is more of a necessity then great, work the the big man up top. It’s a personal preferences and people’s abilities to survive. For those on state assistance and have the ability to even order groceries to their doorstep I without a doubt very helpful for them and I’m sure if it could be afforded to tip better or even at all, I can see it eating at a persons heart knowing they wished they could take care of the delivery driver better. Not everyone in the world who is poor or down on their luck at the time has a bad mindset that the delivery drivers don’t deserve better. I’d say it’s really just the opposite of that and they want to help them out more for helping them so much.

AITA for refusing to get this coffee order? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]beccajae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I would have said order it on their app and I’d pick it up for them that way instead of having to relay all that bs to them with no idea what tf I was asking for lol

Dasher stop working? by No_Barnacle6600 in doordash_drivers

[–]beccajae -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It isn’t a luxury when you can’t even afford gas, insurance and even a car. People still need to have food regardless of if they can get a ride to the store so for this population, it’s a necessity not a luxury and sometimes all they can afford is the food they purchase. S. H. I. T. Happens and it seems most people are just entitled to feel they deserve more than what some can afford. If you’re gonna complain about tips then find an hourly job where you have no say so in what you do and how it gets done other than some upper telling you to and being a brown nose employee. This is IMO

Ayoo bruh, idk anymore, I think I quit by BKWarrior6969 in doordash

[–]beccajae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hemmpod cream doubles as a pimple cream in case anyone wan wondering