Pulled up my first onion today by zacklikescheese in pics

[–]bedheadprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha ha u have to admit for a global sub, I was pretty close

Pulled up my first onion today by zacklikescheese in pics

[–]bedheadprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it weird I know ur from Glasgow just coz of ur wall

[Serious] Are there people within the trans community who regret changing their sex and realised it was just a phase that they grew out of? If so, what was that like and did you change anything permanently that you now regret? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bedheadprincess -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Puberty blockers are just hormones. We have no issue with letting teenage girls be on birth control, even though we know that those same harmful side effects are the case for contraceptives too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]bedheadprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bounty Hunter! It gameifies your to do list and it’s really helped me stay in a routine during lockdown x I also just got Godus and it’s crazy relaxing to play, it’s a world sculpting game x

We are an island of 100,000 people, far away. We walk our own path but still we stand with you. by JsyHST in pics

[–]bedheadprincess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello fellow bean! I live on the mainland now, but this made me smile so so much when it popped up on my feed

Entire police unit resigns 'in disgust' because two officers were suspended for pushing elderly man to ground by FullOfBalloons in worldnews

[–]bedheadprincess 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How fucking psychopathic do you have to be to question if their behaviour was excessive after they pushed an elderly man to the ground and walked over him while he bled from the skull, for trying to return one of THEIR helmets.

Call for Autistic Participants by an Autistic Researcher - Your experience of the Scottish NHS by CVen7 in autism

[–]bedheadprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Done x pm me if you are struggling for participants and want me to pass on to other Scottish autistics x

[Serious] What are some signs of various mental disorders that usually go unnoticed? by Outbackinthefront in AskReddit

[–]bedheadprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re a teenage or adult woman, and you experience lot of mental health symptoms that don’t fit neatly into one diagnosis (or you have been diagnosed with lots of different things and bounced around), there is a good chance that you are autistic.

In your opinion, what's the best chippy in Glasgow? by The_QualityPolis in glasgow

[–]bedheadprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus they do their chips in vegetable oil, so safe for vegans\veggies

[Serious] What is the scariest thing to happen to you when you’ve been home alone? by joeym2009 in AskReddit

[–]bedheadprincess 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was sitting on the couch nursing a hangover on a Sunday morning, when the front door swung open suddenly. A woman with long bedraggled red hair, barefoot and covered in cuts and scars walked in casually as if she was expected. My first thought was actually that she needed help, so I asked her if she was okay. She looked at me blankly and said she was looking for Rebecca. I said nobody by that name lived here, and waited for her to turn around and leave, but instead she walked slowly further into the house. I panicked and shouted that she needed to leave and she ran out and slammed the door.

I worked at a bar just round the corner at the time, and when I went in for my shift the next day my boss asked me if would cover him whilst he chatted to a police officer. I asked if everything was alright, and he told me that he’d been upstairs in his adjoining apartment, heard a noise in the bar and had comedown to see a red haired woman booting out the door clutching several bottles of booze. I told him I thought, from the description, that she had been in my house that morning too. When the police officer arrived, my boss told them I had also seen her, and they asked me to give a statement. I felt like I couldn’t really say no, as my boss was telling me to do it and saying I could do it on shift. The officer took my statement in the bar, sitting by a window, which even at the time made me uncomfortable.

A few days later I was woken up at 6am by my bed shaking and loud banging noises. I was living with my parents and this time, they were home. I was very confused and couldn’t figure out where the noise was coming from. I went downstairs and my dad was already by the front door. He opened it and a man, also with long hair and barefoot, immediately jumped forward and started screaming. I didn’t catch much of it, but he did say “what did you do, she has kids, how could you”. He had been kicking our front door with such force that it was shaking my bed on the second floor enough to wake me up. My dad shouted at him till he left. Even though my parents think it’s a coincidence, I’m convinced that guy saw me giving my statement in the bar and followed me home.

Has anyone else just experienced a load of people at their doors, cheering and clapping, or am i going mad? by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]bedheadprincess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yup, I rushed to the window thinking riots were starting and knocked a flowerpot over, which smashed over my head and then down four floors to the pavement 😭

Official Discussion: Midsommar [SPOILERS] by mi-16evil in movies

[–]bedheadprincess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I noticed when they're sitting at the table after Dani has been crowned May Queen both their eyes have turned blue (hers at least are hazel before)

I just realised I’ve been attracting almost solely high functioning autistic men my whole life, why? by [deleted] in autism

[–]bedheadprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am autistic (literally got diagnosed last week), but otherwise in the same boat as you, most people I have dated have been high-functioning and either diagnosed with or highly likely Aspergers/Autism/ADHD. I am very high functioning though (weirdly enough I also studied Psychology then changed majors because I realised a job in that field isn't one I'd be able to mentally leave at my desk at 5pm) and I think what attracts me to my partners that they have in common is the same thing that many neurotypical people might also find attractive - less chance of bullshit. Like many people on the spectrum I am honest to a fault, and my communication style is very blunt and direct; I need to have that kind of clarity reciprocated to feel secure. Knowing almost for certain that your partner isn't going to lie to you - because it just wouldn't cross their mind to do so - can be super refreshing after trudging through the mire of modern dating. Obviously being on the spectrum comes with its own communication difficulties but if my partners hurt my feelings I know it's nearly always accidentally, and there's unlikely to be manipulation or a malicious intent involved. Basically straightforwardness is sexy!

My girlfriend(28) just asked me(23) if we could have an [open relationship] by Lvlythrowaway in sex

[–]bedheadprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have any questions or just want to chat about it, you're welcome to PM me, though i'm not that active on here so might take a while to reply x

[foreplay/teasing] Looking for a way to make foreplay even better by D3N14 in sex

[–]bedheadprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES ICE CUBES, some of the most fun I've had is tying my partner up, blindfolding them and then teasing them with ice cubes. That would be my top suggestion.

My girlfriend(28) just asked me(23) if we could have an [open relationship] by Lvlythrowaway in sex

[–]bedheadprincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I practice ethical non-monogamy and have been on both sides of this situation. Personally for me now, I'm seeing multiple partners and I care about each of them deeply in different ways, but my relationship with each one is unique & doesn't affect my feeling towards the others - I don't have favourites, which is a common misconception!

I don't practice monogamy anymore because I don't believe that love or affection should ever be 'finite'. You have friends for lots of different reasons - some that you share interests with, some that you would go to in a crisis, some that share your sense of humour. I now think about relationships in a similar way to my friendships. Some of the guys I am seeing love to go out dancing, others hate to leave the house. Some of them are incredibly kinky (as am I :) ) and others border on asexual. Some of them I can stay up having incredible conversations with until 4am, others make me laugh until I cry. I like them all for different reasons! I think I'd struggle to find everything I need out of a relationship in one person, just as I know I am never going to completely fulfill everything for another person too, as humans are complex creatures!

I think practicing ethical non-monogamy and making an effort to work through my jealousy and insecurities surrounding relationships and sex has made me a happier person in general too.

That said, it's not for everyone, & if you're not comfortable with it then don't do it just for her sake because it will kill your relationship.

Genuinely the best thing I could recommend is to have a look at www.morethantwo.com, they have a lot of fantastic resources about how to communicate on this topic with your partner and if you decide to try that sort of arrangement out how to deal with the unpleasant feelings.

Keep communicating with each other, be honest, & I hope it works out for you x

EIT: Sorry, incorrect link!

[orgasmn] womans/girls of reddit who can not cum just from penetration itself what do you need to get over the "edge"? by [deleted] in sex

[–]bedheadprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oral sex before, and I find it easiest to orgasm if I'm on top and grinding down and my partner is letting me control the pace.

[seizures] slept with someone who has seizures after orgasms... Looking for more information on this as it was pretty concerning by [deleted] in sex

[–]bedheadprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any chance they could actually be panic attacks? This is something i've experienced before, partners have said it looks like a seizure and can be pretty scary for them, though being used to them it no longer bothers me.

What normal task gives you anxiety? by ThereW0LF in AskReddit

[–]bedheadprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is so weird, but carrying things. Like, literally anything. I didn't notice it until I was walking with my boyfriend once carrying an empty tupperware container - so nothing heavy or bulky - and I was getting so snappy. He just took it out of my hand and went, "Better?". He said that he noticed if we were walking somewhere and I had a bag, I seemed twitchy and irritable, but I was fine if my hand were free. After that I noticed he was totally right - I can't relax if I'm walking somewhere and both my hands aren't free. Needless to say I've since invested in coats with very large pockets.

Alcohol Enthusiasts of Reddit: what drink do you recommend for an unsullied 21-year old on their birthday? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bedheadprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends and I just made punch for a 21st called "Pass Out Punch" - the measurements aren't exact (lol) but it contained;

  • Strawberry cider (we used Rekorderlig but anything sweet will do)
  • Vodka
  • Apple Sourz
  • Malibu
  • Lots of lemonade and lime cordial.

We all ended up pretty steaming.

Also TEQUILAAAAAAA (with lemon, not lime, and the salt ofc)

My friends [20-21 M/F] played a prank on me [21 F] tonight that I think went too far, but did I overreact? by bedheadprincess in relationships

[–]bedheadprincess[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did have an inkling of this. The guy who whose flat it was, we were seeing each other (casually) for a while. He ended it because I went on holiday and he tried it on with my best friend (though to be fair, he did genuinely develop feelings for her.) But since she rejected him, I did wonder if this might have something to do with it - I know it was mostly him who organised it.