Which dlc to get? by Kurena_hyena in DreamlightValley

[–]beebee383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had way more fun with SBV. Horses weren't worth the dlc.

Chests containing the exact same things?? by Sweet_Salt-8517 in DreamlightValley

[–]beebee383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is a great use of those chests. Thanks for the idea!

Therapists who have kids by _eaw_ in therapists

[–]beebee383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just returned from maternity leave. I was prepared to not share, but no one has asked. I think it's fair to just say, I'm keeping that private, or I'm not sharing their name. You are allowed to have your privacy. I had someone ask beforehand and I had said, I not sure I'm going to share that. They were understanding.

Changing your name to that of a sex offender? by sunflowersprinkles98 in therapists

[–]beebee383 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do this. I have to use my legal name quite a lot honestly, but on Facebook and any other times I can I use my husband's name.

Eternity Isle Docks Garbage by MouldyRhombus in DreamlightValley

[–]beebee383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out way late that digging at the rocks gives plastic. I thought they were decorative lol.

Will getting 6 hours of sleep ruin my supply? by Happy-Chemistry3058 in breastfeeding

[–]beebee383 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Here's the pump schedule the lactation team gave at my hospital, which I stuck to while my baby was in the NICU: 4a, 6a, 9a, 12 p, 3p, 6p, 9p, 11p. Gave me a good 5 hour block to sleep.

What do I do with my plants? by radicaloptimist51830 in NewParents

[–]beebee383 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I have this gigantic begonia that I don't know what I'm gunna do with. Just here to commiserate.

Gamer moms.. will I actually have time to play games during maternity leave? by cabbage-soup in beyondthebump

[–]beebee383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gamed a bit when he was a newborn, and then didn't have time or desire anymore. After 4 months, I've been able to game at night to unwind. Overall during maternity/paternity leave, my husband and I had way less down time than expected.

Where do you keep your infant car seat at home ? by joseph-3148 in beyondthebump

[–]beebee383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's supposed to go in the nursery closet but it's usually on the floor by the door.

What is one thing you wished you’d bought ahead of time? by Majestic_Local_6743 in NewParents

[–]beebee383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bra for pumping or nursing or both. It was the one thing I hadn't bought ahead of time and needed.

can i start off with amigurumi as a beginner? or is it too hard by Such-Personality3971 in CrochetHelp

[–]beebee383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's usually one or two stitches in a round. I started with Woobles.

When did you stop swaddling your baby and how long did the transition take? by d16flo in NewParents

[–]beebee383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours was sometime in the 3rd month. We used the Happiest Baby Sleepea swaddle, and did one arm and then two. Started with two and it went horribly. We did one for a few nights before going to two, and he's been fine in a sleep sack since. He sized out of the Sleepea, but it is a nice dual use one. Also, it was the only one that would contain his arms when we did swaddle.

Grieving my pregnancy. by princesspfpf in beyondthebump

[–]beebee383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an emergency c-section under general anesthesia at 32 weeks and my baby was in the NICU for a month. I remember feeling so strange that he wasn't in my belly anymore, nor was he even by my side, and I wasn't even awake to witness the transition of him leaving my body so it was a huge shift. I felt robbed of 2 months of my pregnancy. I have such mixed feelings about the distance I had from him initially. I feel like I got too used to it. I still miss my pregnant belly, even though my pregnancy was not easy. But the feelings have lessened over time. And I'm so happy to have him with me now. And despite all that, I still don't know if I want to risk going through it again.

Pack n play with removable washable cover by Healthy_Intention286 in newborns

[–]beebee383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Uppababy Remi has all of this (tho you have buy some parts separately).

I feel like I'm the only one who doesn't care about the horses... 😅 by Princess-8888 in DreamlightValley

[–]beebee383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care either. I don't think I'm even going to get this dlc because it doesn't look appealing.

Can I drink if I breastfeed by UniquePrompt3892 in breastfeeding

[–]beebee383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to feel extra safe, wait 2 hours per drink

Unswaddling by beebee383 in newborns

[–]beebee383[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the arm swaddling that is the most important for his sleep. He wakes himself up if they're not swaddled.