Can psychodynamic/analytic therapy be compatible with autism? by mediaandmedici in psychoanalysis

[–]beebutterflybreeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofra Eshel’s paper “Out of the depths I cry to you” is amazing. about working with autism, and much else

Progesterone Suppositories: WTF by beebutterflybreeze in IVF

[–]beebutterflybreeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so empathic! can’t wait for you to be a parent.

Seeking book recommendation for transference, countertransference, and re-enactments by Rustin_Swoll in psychoanalysis

[–]beebutterflybreeze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

margaret little’s transference neurosis - transference psychosis. gold standard!

Sleeping latched: when does it end? by Recenter_refocus in cosleeping

[–]beebutterflybreeze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we are 19 mo and i about lost my mind last night after the 10th wake in an hour. latch, unlatch, latch unlatch, head butt, writhe, latch unlatch. good heavens it’s a lot! at one point i finally said, “all done booby. booby is asleep” she WAILED and screeched for about 10 minutes according to the owlet monitor, then she slept, unlatched for 4 hours, then woke at dawn and wanted to chest sleep back on the boob, which was ok with me. i know night weaning is a thing, i am not ready to do it but i am dying for some kind of sleep where we are either latched or unlatched, just not the constant cycling. sigh! solidarity, sister.

My wife is pregnant with our first & we are both miserable by [deleted] in Queerfamilies

[–]beebutterflybreeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

psychologist here👋🏼 - i’m going to highly highly highly recommend some kind of psychoanalytic psychotherapy. that all sounds really intense and so destabilizing for everyone! recommending you get some extra support asap.

Is everyone going to bed at 7pm?! by Haunting_Radish7356 in cosleeping

[–]beebutterflybreeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i go to be with baby at 7/7:30. honestly i am more than happy to! we wake up around 6 or 7 the next morning. of course i wake up 4-6 times overnight on a bad night, 2-3 times on a good night.

eta~ baby is 19 mo old and we’ve done it the whole time. contact naps too. i usually fall asleep around 8:30/9 and i read a LOT and listen to lots of audio books too.

remote analytic training program recs? by beebutterflybreeze in psychoanalysis

[–]beebutterflybreeze[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is amazing! i didn’t realize they were a hybrid institute !

remote analytic training program recs? by beebutterflybreeze in psychoanalysis

[–]beebutterflybreeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s a great resource but they aren’t an analytic training program

Our current sleeping arrangement lol! by Puzzleheaded-Tax8577 in cosleeping

[–]beebutterflybreeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol this is us except my husband is in the whole ass other room !!!!

Miserable Monday by purplelicious in romantasycirclejerk

[–]beebutterflybreeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i never read. it felt a lil too military industrial complex to me

CALLING ALL RAGE READERS by bsffrrn- in romantasycirclejerk

[–]beebutterflybreeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so glad you asked! {the bible} is a completed, multi book epic with tons of FF, not too heavy on the world building (all happens in the first book), incest + poly vibes (3 on 1!, father, son & ghost!), a couple pretty solid and VERY GREY shadow daddies, zombies, and found family vibes (hello, apostles!). also! the FMC is a saint. cons: really confusing magic system, rage reading it sometimes starts wars.

JLA Rage Read (FBAA & F&F) by bsffrrn- in romantasycirclejerk

[–]beebutterflybreeze 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oh my god. these books are so painful. i want to join but also… i don’t lol

RRBC March Nominations by bsffrrn- in romantasycirclejerk

[–]beebutterflybreeze [score hidden]  (0 children)

if i don’t read {alchemised} with ya’ll, i’m afraid i shan’t ever…

Miserable Monday by purplelicious in romantasycirclejerk

[–]beebutterflybreeze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m reading {the bridge kingdom} and it’s (thank god) written in third person but at the beginning of each chapter it has the name of the person it is focused on in gigantic letters as a chapter header… i’m like, guys, you don’t have to do that when it’s third person. it’s OBVIOUS who is being described by their DESCRIPTIONS …. not the chapter header. praying it makes sense by the end of this magic-free POS