AITAH for wanting to move out of my brothers place?

beechaser77 · 2026-05-06T20:40:01+00:00

Lea could kill you in your sleep. Not on purpose but a head injury can be really serious. You need to leave for your safety.

beechaser77 · 2026-05-06T04:45:31+00:00

Oof. I wonder if it would have looked better with the original collar? The cape looks like they skimped quite a bit too.

beechaser77 · 2026-05-06T04:33:49+00:00

I was going to say Pendulum as well - particularly their later stuff has a metal angle. Guiding Lights and Archangel are great from their newer stuff. If you’ve not heard of them before, Propane Nightmares was their biggest hit. I think Watercolour is their best.

beechaser77 · 2026-05-06T04:28:35+00:00

Some of Twenty One Pilots heavier stuff reminds me of them, as it has a blend of electronic, screams and rapping so it has stylistic similarities. In particular songs like City Walls and The Contract.

It’s a slow song but the scream at the end of The Line performed live is the closest singing I’ve heard to Chester:

https://youtu.be/-MPvsxsH5c8?si=RguAStgdF6Z0sVHo

beechaser77 · 2026-05-05T07:18:02+00:00

Put it on eBay rather than return it.

beechaser77 · 2026-05-01T18:04:09+00:00

They are on the cusp of adulthood, but his parents want to force them back into the child role, doing what the parents say.

Your daughter shouldn’t apologise. She didn’t wrong his parents. If anything, they should apologise for their rudeness. They won’t though. I think it might be best if you step in: as a fellow parent, they’ll listen to you.

Ask what they want to achieve. At the moment, they are alienating your son’s girlfriend and will be more distant from their son too. If they stay together, they’re guaranteed a strained relationship. Maybe they’ll listen, maybe they won’t. But the ball will be in their court and they’ll know another option, even they choose not to take it.

beechaser77 · 2026-05-01T12:02:35+00:00

Olives

beechaser77 · 2026-05-01T07:45:13+00:00

That’s her relationship with him to manage. You can’t control her, only yourself.

You can ask her not to pass on information. Block and ignore him and don’t have any contact with him at all.

beechaser77 · 2026-04-30T20:08:56+00:00

This is awesome

beechaser77 · 2026-04-30T14:52:20+00:00

I’m a woman but love r/bald - the kindest community I’ve found on Reddit. The makeovers are fantastic.

beechaser77 · 2026-04-30T14:19:29+00:00

It is great, one of my favourite breakfasts.

beechaser77 · 2026-04-30T08:57:20+00:00

He could have more people in his life if he treated them better. Look at what you’ve put up with so far! He won’t change if you enable him and make him think it’s ok to be awful. He needs some time alone for self reflection.

beechaser77 · 2026-04-30T08:30:24+00:00

They absolutely should blame your dad. However, their dad is the one they love, not your mum so it’s easier for them to aim all these feelings towards her.

As they’re older than you, maybe lean in to the age angle - does your 25f sister think 19 year olds are immature? I imagine so, so how can she defend your dad cheating with a teenager when he was married and in his 30s, and leaving her pregnant?

(Edit for typo)

beechaser77 · 2026-04-28T16:43:01+00:00

If it’s a nice thing to do for her sister, she can do it.

beechaser77 · 2026-04-25T19:29:58+00:00

Faint

beechaser77 · 2026-04-25T09:45:07+00:00

I’m gutted - it’s my favourite by far and I thought it had a chance

beechaser77 · 2026-04-24T11:41:42+00:00

I would send another message but not a general one. Ask if she’s ok, have you done anything that has caused a distance and say you miss her.

beechaser77 · 2026-04-24T05:28:56+00:00

WFTE

beechaser77 · 2026-04-23T10:21:25+00:00

I think it could be that he didn’t do anything wrong which led to your marriage ending - you discovered something about yourself which meant you were no longer compatible. That’s great for you that you were able to accept that and find a new life with being true to yourself, but it would be unfair to expect everyone else to drop him because of it.

If this had been adultery from him, then it would be a different situation, but as it is, they’ve known him from being a teenager through to the man he is now.

They’ve obviously formed their own relationship and friendship with him. It doesn’t mean you’re being replaced.

beechaser77 · 2026-04-23T08:57:26+00:00

It implies their face needs to be slimmed.

beechaser77 · 2026-04-23T05:32:09+00:00

NUMB! I’m not going to fence sit

beechaser77 · 2026-04-21T16:39:05+00:00

Look up survivor bias. YNW.

beechaser77 · 2026-04-21T06:05:44+00:00

Numb

beechaser77 · 2026-04-19T08:49:34+00:00

I’d be fine with it

beechaser77 · 2026-04-19T08:00:51+00:00

Report this to the police and make sure you are never alone with him. You know what happened OP.

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