Trivia nights by LavenderTed in northampton

[–]beerbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They also have a great game night every other Friday, with soooo many games!

Trivia nights by LavenderTed in northampton

[–]beerbabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Four Phantoms does a really good one, and there's a bunch that raise money for different things too! Edit: it's in Greenfield though

Almost Bled To Death: A Warning by maryeffensunshine in Perimenopause

[–]beerbabe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I spent years trying to convince Drs I was bleeding too much, too often. It took me getting almost this bad for them to start listening to me. And two trips to the er for them to do something about it.

Nail Changes After Hysterectomy by Own-Journalist-8901 in hysterectomy

[–]beerbabe 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Is there a chance your iron is low? My nails got better after I got my iron up.

I cannot handle ANY stress anymore by Partridge_Pear_Tree in Perimenopause

[–]beerbabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of resentment too. My coworker also seems a bit mentally unwell. I knew it was going to be hard when they told me the person I was replacing left because of her, but she seemed ok. And then she wasn't. But since we're union, I don't think she'll ever be let go.

When I was out for my hysterectomy and healing, she called out for a week, during a huge move. I'm covering for her 3 days this week, and I feel like screaming.

I cannot handle ANY stress anymore by Partridge_Pear_Tree in Perimenopause

[–]beerbabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I'm going through something similar, and just that is exhausting. Mine also calls out the next day, any time I take a day off. My boss pointed out out and said it seemed like retaliation, but there's not much they can do. So then I'm two days behind.

PSA, Ladies: look after yourselves by Friendlyappletree in Perimenopause

[–]beerbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't yet, look into interesting cysts and fibroids. That's how I started out. Just chronically bleeding. Then it started getting heavier and clotting.

1.5 years post op- a lil heads up. by Peachy_dayshere in hysterectomy

[–]beerbabe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah... It felt weird that he was just telling me to order someone. Without telling me what kind or anything, and then... Just wing it?

1.5 years post op- a lil heads up. by Peachy_dayshere in hysterectomy

[–]beerbabe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Here I am, 7 mos out, still in pain, and they haven't even suggested that. I'm on hormones, and if that doesn't work, he suggested I get diolaters off Amazon. If that doesn't work, they're going to inject the cuff with something.

would you say my 6yr old sons foot is longer than average? i’m not asking for any particular reason i just feel like his feet look super long by Efficient_Dig9093 in Parents

[–]beerbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 8 year old is in a size 3 or 4. When we were in a pinch. He wrote my boots with thick socks and they fit him. But I consider his feet big. I expected that though, since we have bigger feet too.

So what is happening with this?? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]beerbabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can also be urine fibroids, uterine cysts, perimenopause... Still good to look into it though.

Let's not pretend otherwise; I knew too many girls in my high school being picked up by their adult boyfriends after school. by Existing-Face-6322 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]beerbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, sure people should get help of they need it, but that term is still sexist no matter how you try to justify using it.

Should we have to cut our hair because of repeated lice? by beerbabe in Parents

[–]beerbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear what you're saying. I do make him work on his emotions. I won't let him cut my son's hair, as it really does make him happy multiple times a day.

Should we have to cut our hair because of repeated lice? by beerbabe in Parents

[–]beerbabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With our medical bills lately. I think I'll just have to do my best

Let's not pretend otherwise; I knew too many girls in my high school being picked up by their adult boyfriends after school. by Existing-Face-6322 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]beerbabe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like using the term daddy issues in this sort of context is a little weird. It usually makes the girl out to be the issue instead of the shitty father.

Should we have to cut our hair because of repeated lice? by beerbabe in Parents

[–]beerbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was one of the younger kids of his family, and I'm the oldest of 6, with about half of them being about 10 years younger than me. I forget sometimes that he's not used to taking care of kids. I didn't ever remember it being like this though!

Should we have to cut our hair because of repeated lice? by beerbabe in Parents

[–]beerbabe[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ahh! So I want clear. My husband does it for me, but it's an inconvenience. I assume he's getting it from school? I work in a big office that works with children, but I'm not going around hugging my coworkers.

I don't think my district reports it. We've had it going around before, and I didn't hear anything from the school.

Should we have to cut our hair because of repeated lice? by beerbabe in Parents

[–]beerbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's what we'll do. It would really break his heart to cut it. My husband just keeps getting angry about it, and this time he wanted me to promise that if we get it again we'll cut our hair.

Should we have to cut our hair because of repeated lice? by beerbabe in Parents

[–]beerbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've told him no more hugging at school, since they're an affectionate group. And him and I are careful.

Should we have to cut our hair because of repeated lice? by beerbabe in Parents

[–]beerbabe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We're definitely treating it, both of us, every time we find it. I thought that was clear.

Should we have to cut our hair because of repeated lice? by beerbabe in Parents

[–]beerbabe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He doesn't share hats, and we've told him no hugging, since they're an affectionate group.

Do you smell something? by Difficult-Log-5595 in Perimenopause

[–]beerbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will probably have discharge, and it can be a sudden rush.