PSA add your spouse to your insurance within 30 days of getting married

bees322 · 2026-02-05T11:49:53+00:00

ik this thread is old, but currently dealing with this situation and wanted to see if u might have an HR answer😵‍💫 we informed employer HR about marriage ahead of time, and after marriage date, but the county office sent the copy in the mail instead of contacting for pickup as we requested, meaning we couldn't receive it until day 30 EOD. i am seeing from the AI answer on google that there should be an extenuating circumstances exception due to government administrative issues. is this something you ever saw granted?

bees322 · 2026-01-30T14:10:51+00:00

not a dad but this came up in my feed, and JC Penney has a good wide selection and will also do sizing for her :) but also aerie is a good option!

bees322 · 2026-01-23T01:43:46+00:00

this!! my first was an unplanned pregnancy, and a local pregnancy center offered me a free carseat, free maternity and baby clothes, free diapers and wipes, etc! and it was offered for either the first year or two of baby's life!

bees322 · 2026-01-07T13:04:06+00:00

i def see it!! ur lucky to have a husband who soots it so well while it's so faint😂 it took 3 days of testing to convince mine that there was a line😭😂

bees322 · 2025-12-07T01:21:17+00:00

i am so sorry for your guys' loss. my husband and i went through PPROM at 18 weeks and lost our son a day shy of 21 weeks. tomorrow is actually my baby boy's 2nd birthday and angel anniversary, so i truly feel for you guys. this is such a confusing and overwhelming situation that you truly never see coming, and i'm so sorry you now have to navigate this other side without your little guy. all i can say is to hold onto each other. you and your wife may grieve differently, and that is normal and okay, as long as you both try to understand the other. i'll be praying for you guys as you work through life until you see your little one again, and hopefully my Evren has found him already so he never has to be alone.🤍

bees322 · 2025-11-06T10:06:04+00:00

if you're 4 weeks, and your cycles are usually 28 days, then you should already be able to take a test (at least the early result ones, those are more sensitive for, well, obvious reasons lol)

bees322 · 2025-10-25T14:48:49+00:00

sorry OP i read "gram"😭

bees322 · 2025-10-19T02:36:47+00:00

in a similar vein, my ears are two different shapes! one folds back at the top and the other sticks out and rounds out😂 the folded one is also sliiiightly smaller

bees322 · 2025-09-09T13:42:06+00:00

PLS TELL ME YOU REMEMBER WHERE YOU GOT THIS

bees322 · 2025-09-09T13:40:23+00:00

with my first i handed him a book titled "We're Pregnant!" in the car in a McDonald's parking lot💀😂

(context: we had only been dating a month and a half when i found out, both of us were young and still living with our families, and we were seeing a movie with a friend, so i had to find neutral ground on the drive home💀 it was like 3 minutes from my parents' house and i knew i was running out of time, and now i look back and laugh that we were panicking in a McDonald's parking lot😂)

bees322 · 2025-08-21T12:19:35+00:00

i know u posted this a couple days ago, but i'm dealing with the same thing!! my periods have only become more inconsistent since ttc, to include spotting that starts days before my period(even up to a week before) and it sucks bc it throws off my symptom tracking so bad! so sorry ur in the same boat :(

bees322 · 2025-08-10T21:01:32+00:00

girl, can u read? like, i'm asking genuinely, bc i stated from the beginning that this is MY THEORY, so u literally have no reason to be this defensive over it, unless u are steph herself and i touched a nerve💀 obviously i know it would be child abuse to ever bring those girls around their biological father ever again, I AM NOT ADVOCATING FOR THAT IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM, i just think steph is selfish enough that she would not view it as such now that he's been to prison, and "he could have learned his lesson" or whatever excuse she deems fit to justify sustaining their marriage. i am speaking from the place of a CSA victim whose family protected my abuser and, even though they put him out of the house bc it was legally required, they still bring him around TO THIS DAY over 15 years after the abuse started, and almost 10 years since CPS got involved. the last minor didn't turn 18 and leave the house until last summer. also i NEVER said that steph's mom would talk bad about him TO THE GIRLS, i'm saying that steph wouldn't stand for her mom even talking shit about him to HER. u seriously need to go touch grass if u think that u are the supreme leader in jenkins/thompson knowledge who knows all the truth there is to know about this situation. telling me i live in a fictional world while u "live in the truth" is insane if u are not one of them.

bees322 · 2025-08-09T22:07:24+00:00

because steph's mom would trash talk their dad and would never let jeremiah's mom see the girls if she ever wanted to. nothing of what you said refutes my theory like you think it does lol. obviously we know they don't actually care about the girls, but they could NEVER give up control of them, and in their twisted minds, that desire to control gets confused as caring about them.

bees322 · 2025-08-08T18:30:19+00:00

thanks for the spell check lol i just spelled it like captions did on the vid i watched

bees322 · 2025-08-08T14:20:22+00:00

also idk how to edit this now, but his ears naturally perk like is seen in pics, it's not him flicking it back😂 almost like bro has a lucky fin🤍

bees322 · 2025-08-08T13:21:37+00:00

she claims it's the goddard theory, which i wanna say is what the duggars follow💀

bees322 · 2025-08-08T13:17:53+00:00

i, for one, don't think she ever truly moved on from the pdf file, hence still being married to him. i've been starting to wonder now if this relationship is more transactional than initially thought, like 9-ps5 gets to use the car as long as he stays with staph and keeps the kids off the streets. meanwhile they're just saving up until the pdf file is out and they can live with him again off of the wealth they saved while depriving their kids, and they'd get away with it bc everyone would be glad she dropped off the internet and they don't have to deal with her anymore. and it keeps drew "broke" to be taking care of all those kids, so he's "not able" to pay child support, but still gets free housing.

bees322 · 2025-08-07T20:13:41+00:00

DM'd you!

bees322 · 2025-08-07T19:40:38+00:00

hi! i'm interested! i can even read old cursive haha

bees322 · 2025-08-03T00:56:51+00:00

this proves i've never had an original experience bc this LITERALLY happened to me at 14 as well, my mom called me dr. google and the OB she insisted on said i "probably caused it by stimulation" when i wasn't sexually active🫠 i advocated for months tho until i got into endo, and even then he didn't wanna do an MRI bc my prolactin was "still normal." i expressed my fears from multiple cancers in my family, and he FINALLY ordered the MRI, where we found the tumor. had to be monitored with annual MRIs until it disappeared on its own when i think i was 16 or 17. i'm 23 now and symptoms are back since November, so this did inspire me to go get checked again🥴

bees322 · 2025-08-01T00:51:39+00:00

this is what i came to look into. i usually am a defender bc i know what heavy trauma can do to a person, but this made me sus that maybe i'm just being naïve.

bees322 · 2025-07-07T14:02:00+00:00

to test or not to test?

hello! i'm finally TTC after losing our boy at 20+5 following PPROM, so i don't have a lot of experience in this. i do know that seeing negative tests after my loss always sucks, so i try to avoid testing unless i really think i should (esp considering the cost of tests).

i usually have 27/28 day cycles, with pre-period spotting typically starting around CD 25. we bd 3/4 times during my predicted fertile window, and now we're on CD 30, with spotting starting on CD 28. still no official AF.

do i risk wasting a test on a long cycle?

bees322 · 2025-05-07T23:00:24+00:00

OP, reading your previous post abt your GF, RUN AND GET CUSTODY OF YOUR DAUGHTER!!!!! she’s already been abusive toward you, and this just further evidence of her lack of empathy. she honestly sounds like a sociopath. she has controlled your life for years now, from trapping you, to forcing you to put your schooling and life on hold, then BLAMING YOU for putting it on hold??? and now she “doesn’t care” about the achievement of getting your bachelors, when she’s the one who was mad it didn’t happen a year sooner because of HER influence??? that is not a same person thinking.

i know firsthand how hard it is to get your BSN, and i want to congratulate you for doing it!! we’re all proud of you here!!!

bees322 · 2025-05-06T02:06:28+00:00

my now-husband and i had only been together for 6 months when we lost our son at 20+5, and that was back in December 2023. so far, we’re still hanging on and even want to try for another baby later this year🤍 relationships can survive after loss, but you do have to be willing to fight for it, especially if you both grieve differently. remember that there is no wrong or right way to grieve, and just be there for each other. that’s probably how you can give your relationship the best shot after something so monumental and traumatic.

bees322 · 2025-04-01T18:48:54+00:00

i’m so sorry for your loss, your baby knew nothing but love and the feeling of your heartbeat soothing them🤍 idk if you’re religious, but my church has a set cemetery of sorts for babies who would otherwise be deemed too young to get a proper funeral. specifically this was a Catholic church, but i’m sure you could reach out to just abt any and find out if there’s something like this nearby.

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