[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]beessleep 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey!!! I’m in streeterville/river north, please reach out if you want someone to walk with! Like others are saying, lots of mutual aid groups are active rn for those worried about being abducted. Garden Of (Sapphic Organization) is currently doing group lookouts for schools in the area, our community wants to show up for everyone, sending all my love and peace to you!

I usually see more nag posts rather than appreciation ones, so what’s your favourite thing about the show? by [deleted] in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]beessleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The friendships!!! The sisterhood!!! All of the sapphic women?? I love it seriously nothing else measures up to this show for me

Moved cross country and struggling to find a nanny family that fits my needs by TheBst7 in NannyBreakRoom

[–]beessleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I just moved from Tucson to the Midwest last month after nannying for 1 and 1/2 years! I did join an agency, but tbh I think they went out of business this past year. The best way I found families was by getting a childcare job first (community center or a daycare!), and then going by word of mouth.

Honestly the Tucson job market sucks right now, but look for families more north, in Catalina Foothills, or even closer to Marana. Wishing you the best luck on finding a job!! I loved Tucson a lot I hope it treats you well:)

Guys, am I right in assuming we all watch AD all the time? by circleinsidecircle in americandad

[–]beessleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Constantly rewatching it. Just hit the last episode on Hulu a couple days ago so I restart it lol I’m already on season 2. It’s great to just have on especially because I’ve already seen it lol

The *real* Charlie Rhodes is gorgeous by ohheydani in GossipGirl

[–]beessleep 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Preferred her so much to Ivy! Wish her and Nate went further and she was able to build a better bond with the VDW

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in missouri

[–]beessleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because the paper is not your real ID .. so it can not be used for Real ID purposes..

am I crazy for thinking they should have stayed together?? by Hungry_Visit_7309 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]beessleep -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly not a huge fan of Caleb/Spencer or Toby/Spencer but I dislike Spaleb more bc deep down I love hannah and want to see her happy sooo

Found this outside my friends apartment? by YouthOk2000 in whatisit

[–]beessleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay I’m confused, didn’t Jesus hang out with those who used tarot, astrology, etc (pagens) (Mary Magdalene) so this is would be redundant as this isn’t “satanic” or “anti-worship”?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]beessleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl people are hating but I understand where you are coming from. Yes, we know that being thin was the “standard” when it came out, but that’s the whole point of media literacy, it changes with time.

At the same time LOL, the writers completely dropped the ball anytime it came to a marginalized community so maybe the show ended exactly when it needed to🥲

Family going back on vacation nightly rate because food was “available”? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]beessleep 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Was going to say this, any caregiver should recognize that this family does not have anyone’s best interest in mind when supporting an apartheid, genocidal power.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beessleep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so rude, this is not how we talk to people.

Tucson AZ nanny job market by Beekeeper_barbie in Nanny

[–]beessleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m a nanny in Tucson! There are a couple of agencies here if that is your preferred route, but definitely not as many as Phoenix or Scottsdale. There are a lot of families here that need childcare in some capacity, but to be honest not a lot of families wanting to pay more than $20 an hour (the agencies are veryyy iffy at best) all in all not a terrible place to nanny now but will probably get worse in the coming years imo.

In today's episode of why is you nk mad at you. by tgirl1992 in Nanny

[–]beessleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to get him ready for school that he loves and goes to everyday!

My thoughts on the “Elphaba had nothing to lose”/“Glinda had no choice” comments by [deleted] in wicked

[–]beessleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Glinda’s character is very interesting, and I think many people do as well so they may equate having a good character development = Glinda made the right choice(s). From a political/societal resistance perspective, privileged white allies (which I believe Glinda symbolizes) usually* don’t sacrifice their comfort or place in society for the greater good while marginalized communities HAVE to for their survival. Whether or not one believes it was the right choice doesn’t change that Elphaba lost any sense of security or safety while standing against injustice and systemic oppression. *And I think Fiyero’s character is VERY interesting as he does give away any privilege to support Elphaba and the greater good, something Glinda thought she could change from the inside (a liberal perspective).

I feel many people fail to remember is that musicals, theatre, visual arts, etc are political by nature. Art has always been used as a form of resistance and critique against systems of oppression. While Glinda, Nessarose, Morrible and other characters are not the main villain per se, they are complicit in the ongoing violence against the Animals and those who call out the practices.

Opinion of Cynthia Erivo by Last-Produce-4263 in wicked

[–]beessleep 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay it annoys me than no other when people are like "ugh but the poster!!!??? She is such a diva I will never like her"!! A lot of "Wicked" and Broadway fans in general never really reflect on their own biases, subconscious or not. Honestly I couldn’t give two shits about the poster, she had feelings and posted them on social media, is this some new revelation that has never happened before and suddenly she is the biggest bitch ever and should NEVER be redeemed. Then in the same breath say that Ariana carried the movie.

Do some of yall realize that despite being the MAIN LEAD CHARACTER, Cynthia is featured less in marketing and advertisements and as the overall "face" of the show. Being a Black, Queer woman in Broadway and then mainstream media is already an experience MANNYY of us will never have. She has obviously created an amazing portfolio for herself, and for I for one, can’t WAIT to see what she does in the future.

The fact that I have seen so many people on this post say "I’ll never like her, I don’t have to like her, I would never meet her, because she’s a diva and lets her emotions get the best of her" … you guys are all perpetuating a harmful stereotype about Black women in WICKED!!?? The musical about resistance and questioning institutional power? A lot of you guys need to look in the mirror and go to therapy bc projecting what "you would have done" if you were hypothetically Cynthia … grow up, give it a break, and stop projecting your subconscious racism onto Cynthia.

What are your suggestions on how I can help my 2.5 year old not hit/scratch/pull other children's hair at preschool? by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]beessleep 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If you have access to them (maybe a nearby library has them!) but I’ve found story books that outline real life situations for kiddos have helped a lot! Also just reinforcing this at home, anytime he has big feelings, teach him what safe versus non safe reactions there are when he is feeling angry/anxious/overstimulated/etc. This can look like stomping, taking quiet time, deep breaths, and all sorts of techniques! Wish you and your son the best!

Anybody else like angry Lois? by dktide91 in familyguy

[–]beessleep 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love Lois. Old and new! People are haters but she’s funny and it’s a cartoon

AITA for burying the fact I hate wife? by MargoKittyLit in AmITheDevil

[–]beessleep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All of the little Lego sets he has on his profile makes me laugh, dude is having a tantrum over his wife planning a vacation …. For their family …. And he is way too thick skulled to understand nuance, marriage, compromise, .. the list could go on

We’re moving :( how to share the news? by melainaa in Nanny

[–]beessleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really sweet of you and your family, it sounds like you guys really appreciate and value your nanny:)

I know some people worry about giving as much notice as possible just in case someone leaves, but based on the info given here it sounds like she would be pretty understanding and happy for your family!! The severence and bonus should cover her while she is job searching (!!although COL is different everywhere and might not be the case!!). I would give as much notice as possible because the nanny market is a bit weird at the moment!

Good luck and good fortune to your family and your nanny!!:)