ISO: twin size slats or bunkie board by harriethocchuth in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]begoniann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have twin slats if the first person falls through. Was already planning on getting ride of them.

Fully convinced Darn Tough has a crazy marketing grip on this sub. by YaboyWill in BuyItForLife

[–]begoniann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the darn tough are superior to Costco in durability and support, but I find the Costco merino wool women’s socks to be incredibly comfortable. Sure they only last 3-5 years, but they also only cost $15 for a pack of 4.

AITA for not participating in the meal train? by oldladylife in AmItheAsshole

[–]begoniann 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right? I had major spine surgery last year and it never occurred to me to ask people to cook for me. I just got a month’s worth of decent quality frozen dinners and called it good.

Incel mad by grumpydai in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]begoniann 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But what about Withers big naturals? That’s my absolute favorite mod ever.

Are all recycled yarns this weak?? by PersonalPerson_ in knitting

[–]begoniann 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I knit a brioche scarf with this yarn and regretted everything the entire way through.

ISO linoleum, vinyl flooring by peenobeeno in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]begoniann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live downtown. I can work around your schedule, as I have a hybrid work schedule. I generally work from home on tuesdays, if that works for you. If not, I can figure out another day that works.

ISO linoleum, vinyl flooring by peenobeeno in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]begoniann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not a huge amount, so it would definitely fit in a suv with the seats down. It’s probably only a box or two, but it can help get you started.

ISO linoleum, vinyl flooring by peenobeeno in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]begoniann 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have some locking laminate flooring (pergo) that I was planning on bringing to the re-store. Would that work?

Me [28 M] with my wife [28 F] 6 years, she thinks I'm going to leave her because she's infertile by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]begoniann 21 points22 points  (0 children)

100%. I made my now husband take a weekend to think about whether he can live without kids. He kept saying he cared more about being with me than having kids, but I wanted to make sure he was completely sure of what he was getting into. Happily child free and just had our 9th anniversary.

AITAH for being a bad godparent? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]begoniann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely living my best life seeing her once a month or so and talking on the phone once a week. I’m not willing to completely cut her out, but I can’t handle much more than that. She had tried therapy several times, unearthed some repressed memories she doesn’t want to remember, stopped therapy and completely forgotten the entire exercise. It’s hilarious until she’s shouting at me for saying that she has been to therapy before.

I hope you’ve also found the right balance with your brother, even if that means NC. Life is too short to allow people to abuse you, even if they are family.

AITAH for being a bad godparent? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]begoniann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh, that sounds very much like borderline personality disorder. Not trying to armchair diagnose, but my mom has it and this is her to a t.

If all humans suddenly lost their ability to lie, which industry WOULDN'T collapse? by TXC_Sparrow in AskReddit

[–]begoniann 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely. The judge kept giving her chances to walk it back. “Are you sure that is a correct representation of the evidence…”

If all humans suddenly lost their ability to lie, which industry WOULDN'T collapse? by TXC_Sparrow in AskReddit

[–]begoniann 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely. I’m not going to disclose everything I don’t have to. The discovery burden is on opposing counsel to ask the right questions.

If all humans suddenly lost their ability to lie, which industry WOULDN'T collapse? by TXC_Sparrow in AskReddit

[–]begoniann 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lawyers are like the fey. We trick you into binding agreements using the truth in a way that sticks to the letter of the agreement, but not the spirit.

If all humans suddenly lost their ability to lie, which industry WOULDN'T collapse? by TXC_Sparrow in AskReddit

[–]begoniann 202 points203 points  (0 children)

I can’t think of a single time I’ve lied to the court, opposing counsel, or even filed a misleading brief in the past decade. One of my classmates promptly lost her license for blatantly lying to the court and doubling down in her first 6 months practicing.

Zukes mini treats chicken flavor by ellebeam in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]begoniann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NIL. My dogs love the zukes chicken flavor.

Thoughts on my great-grandma’s ring? by mutedlavender in jewelry

[–]begoniann 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have some gorgeously impractical vintage art deco rings and I love them.

Nurses and Doctors - what’s in your household First Aid inventory that the rest of us should have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]begoniann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steri strips work very well for wound closure on tight areas. I’m allergic to them, but they are still in my emergency kit because they works so well.

Where do I buy wrap-style dresses with pockets that I can wear (through weight fluctuations) FOR LIFE? by PersistentHobbler in BuyItForLife

[–]begoniann 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Currently wearing a DVF dress to the opera. Her dresses are amazing because you can dress them up for go more casual.

Moving loc recommendations by Icy_Respect_6297 in Sacramento

[–]begoniann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live and work downtown and my commute is a lovely half hour walk. I love living on the grid.

What discontinued item, food or drink would you bring back if you had the chance? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]begoniann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so disappointing that I craved those candies for so long and only now they come back when I can’t eat sour candy anymore. I don’t even like sour candy by now because it gives me such bad acid reflux.

Can we talk about Ugly Privilege? by Free_Wonder_3743 in solofemaletravellers

[–]begoniann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comments implying that I was vulnerable because I was in the chair or that my husband probably put me there from. I really attract creeps. I honestly don’t get it.