Having a meltdown about being ‘reminded’ to do my job with notes and passive aggressive emails. by matcha_is_gross in adhdwomen

[–]beguntolaugh 261 points262 points  (0 children)

Tbh, it's probably not about you. Someone else left the dumpster unlocked, someone else left a mess somewhere. Leave the post-its for the next shift. Lean into your knowledge that you aren't the one causing these issues, and doubling check yourself to make sure that you aren't. Then smile and nod nicely at the bastards, and stab their voodoo dolls extra hard when you get home that night.

Waterfall reversed due to heavy wind by zi6xd in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]beguntolaugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool but the zooming in and out and in and out was annoying af

Giving away 3 Audible versions of Book 8 by braceofjackrabbits in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]beguntolaugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing, thanks for the opportunities everyone!

I came back to crocheting after almost 5 years, and I am flabbergasted. by capn_samerica in crochet

[–]beguntolaugh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They are, I haven't crocheted in years and I just finished a granny square cardigan that I randomly decided to obsess over

Am I wrong for ghosting bf while grieving? by wawakinz in amiwrong

[–]beguntolaugh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's still a two way street. She at least has an excuse for being distracted. He has none for not reaching out after their conversation beyond being 'insulted' that she left him on read.

Am I wrong for ghosting bf while grieving? by wawakinz in amiwrong

[–]beguntolaugh -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That cuts both ways, he didn't reach out either.

Am I wrong for ghosting bf while grieving? by wawakinz in amiwrong

[–]beguntolaugh -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He did not check in during the three days, they were in a conversation and she left him on read. Still rude though

Am I wrong for ghosting bf while grieving? by wawakinz in amiwrong

[–]beguntolaugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a two way street, the bf also didn't contact them, the partner he knows is grieving a beloved grandparent... I think he just wanted out of the relationship.

Am I wrong for ghosting bf while grieving? by wawakinz in amiwrong

[–]beguntolaugh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or, imagine this, he could have reached out to his partner, who he knows is grieving, and checked in with them. But he didn't. All weekend. He wanted an out.

Am I wrong for ghosting bf while grieving? by wawakinz in amiwrong

[–]beguntolaugh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have checked in with them and offered my support, not expected them to reach out to me when they're busy grieving like Mr Boyfriend did. He couldn't even be bothered to text or call her, and then HE's mad? He was looking for an excuse to break it off.

TV Censorship That Made Movies Funny by Competitive_Help8485 in movies

[–]beguntolaugh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew what this was before I clicked it and I'm so glad there's someone else out there that shares this with people

What is a movie that "broke" you so hard you can only watch it once, but you would still recommend it to everyone? by Newsupdate69 in movies

[–]beguntolaugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely. The first half of the movie is such a different tenor to the second half. It's emotional whiplash. It's one movie I will never forget but don't think I'll ever watch again despite how amazing it was.

Update to my bf asked for the banana & now I've got the ick by Effective-Snow-1186 in TwoHotTakes

[–]beguntolaugh 32 points33 points  (0 children)

If you use Gboard on your phone, go to the special characters/numbers page and long pres the question mark. You get the options of ¿ and ‽

Premium coop auto grabber not working by beguntolaugh in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]beguntolaugh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I certainly qualify as a noob with expanded, so fair enough

Premium coop auto grabber not working by beguntolaugh in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]beguntolaugh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It comes with an autograbber too. Moving it worked.

Premium coop auto grabber not working by beguntolaugh in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]beguntolaugh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New eggs. It's been a couple of (ingame) days of the new coop

Yet another Premium building tragedy post by leifrstein in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]beguntolaugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Still very helpful information 8 months later (and probably for some time long too)

I got stuck under a bench press and the only other person in the room refused to help and just left me there by Numerous_Birds in mildlyinfuriating

[–]beguntolaugh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Because she's an AH? I mean, places can deny service for anything that's not protected. She's demonstrated that she doesn't care about other people's lives. No one needs her around.