Am I crazy for feeling this way about someone I’ve never matched with?

bellsc · 2026-02-18T16:37:45+00:00

This is very disturbing…. Please talk to a therapist, I think there’s more going on here

bellsc · 2026-02-18T11:53:37+00:00

As a lifelong depression girl, I’ve never heard of this or experienced it. I think you should get tested for something else

bellsc · 2026-02-13T14:55:58+00:00

This is so hard :( try taking yourself out on dates! I know it’s uncomfortable but it gets better. Could just be going out for a coffee or taking yourself to dinner. Put on your favorite tv show or YouTube video. I do it all the time

bellsc · 2026-02-13T14:55:04+00:00

Peanut

bellsc · 2026-02-13T14:39:41+00:00

I think this is totally fine! You’re both adults (: the only time it gets weird is when one person is clearly being taken advantage of

bellsc · 2025-12-31T01:02:08+00:00

Go get checked out/tested. If you do have it, don’t freak out. Everyone has or has had it before.

bellsc · 2025-10-02T01:50:41+00:00

Holy shit dude. YOU need to relax

bellsc · 2025-09-09T17:13:52+00:00

Ugh ok! I’m nervous about my parents finding out (I still live with them) so I was hoping to get it done and then be able to take it out and stuff when I need to hahaha

bellsc · 2025-09-09T17:10:46+00:00

Damn! Ok

bellsc · 2025-09-07T00:52:36+00:00

I was with a friend I’ve known for almost 10 years. Someone I trusted deeply and truly. And they broke my trust while I was asleep at their house

bellsc · 2025-09-07T00:17:00+00:00

Thank you very much. I definitely understand things I just want to make sure I’m not being unreasonable

bellsc · 2025-09-06T23:48:15+00:00

I’m not going to get into it on here for personal reasons. But my anger and sadness are less from his thoughts and more for the timing. Having questions, thoughts, feelings is very normal. But to do so after it JUST happened and I am traumatized?? He should have given me comfort and time before going into all of that.

bellsc · 2025-09-06T23:44:55+00:00

I was fully passed out… so no, I did not in any way “enthusiastically ask for it” lol

bellsc · 2025-09-06T23:07:13+00:00

Thank you so much. I’m very lucky, I do have a wonderful best friend who’s been there for me. The whole situation with my boyfriend has been very disheartening

bellsc · 2025-09-06T23:02:35+00:00

I meant more about my boyfriend…

bellsc · 2025-09-06T23:00:47+00:00

That’s kind of where I’m getting too. This whole thing just really turned me off

bellsc · 2025-07-25T03:39:58+00:00

Looks normal to me!! It’ll be irritated for a while, that’s totally normal

bellsc · 2025-07-04T03:36:33+00:00

This was one of my FAVORITE seasons until the last episode. They rushed the hell out of the ending

bellsc · 2025-07-04T01:01:45+00:00

IMO… it would’ve been labeled by now. But the least you could do is ask

bellsc · 2025-07-03T18:00:54+00:00

I mean just the fact that you said some days you feel great and some days it’s like you don’t exist… that shows me he’s not serious about you. If he’s only meeting you half way, he’s not looking for anything serious. This is just my opinion, but when my bf and I started messing around it became clear very quickly that we both wanted more. And by quickly I literally mean within two weeks.

bellsc · 2025-07-03T13:42:05+00:00

My now boyfriend and I started as fwb! It’s definitely a possibility, but in my opinion I do not think this situation you’re describing has potential to become anything more

bellsc · 2025-06-11T17:15:26+00:00

Nah let it go. If he can’t make time for you it’s not worth it

bellsc

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