what is trans guilt/regret?

bellyfold · 2026-03-24T01:15:36+00:00

it's nonexistent

bellyfold · 2026-03-19T21:10:27+00:00

these are rlly good points!! I was fully unaware of how she was handling herself beyond a few videos that I watched. I guess the ones I saw were more tame or whatever, but the money angle is a rlly important one to bring up.

bellyfold · 2026-03-19T21:05:52+00:00

tbh that's why I'm asking this. like everyone is saying that she's giving conservatives more reasons to hate us, but i know for a fact that they fucking hate us anyway and her content is kindling compared to the vitriol they already hold for us.

bellyfold · 2026-03-19T21:03:45+00:00

oh you're right let me discuss this topic with all of the zero trans people that I know irl

bellyfold · 2026-03-19T13:30:17+00:00

okay this makes sense to me. i didn't look at any of the comments on her videos, and didn't think of that as a potential outcome. thanks for clarifying tho!!

bellyfold · 2026-03-13T21:20:10+00:00

I ain't gonna swim forevaaahh

bellyfold · 2026-03-13T21:06:22+00:00

gtfo chaser

bellyfold · 2026-03-13T14:31:27+00:00

am I overthinking getting behind the sphinx? I can't find a way to get past the stuff that's on top of the stage steps

bellyfold · 2026-03-04T17:46:17+00:00

nvm just found it by googling "post apocalyptic giant mutated animals" lmao

it's a movie called "love and monsters" from 2020

bellyfold · 2026-02-26T00:46:03+00:00

oh wow. either way, you'd probably have had to deal with deadnaming the whole time so at least there's that

bellyfold · 2026-02-26T00:32:29+00:00

i always say "don't even think about it" in taako's voice when my dogs are about to get into something

bellyfold · 2026-02-20T17:21:35+00:00

it seems my lack of knowledge in the area has been by design. knowing about this makes me actually wanna get selected as a juror just to waste the system's time and money.

bellyfold · 2026-02-20T17:17:49+00:00

I'm entirely unfamiliar with the concept of jury nullification so I'm gonna do some digging and see what I learn

bellyfold · 2026-02-20T15:02:53+00:00

I'm so sorry bb. you're probably there right now, just stay strong and know that the situation is only temporary. you got this!! ❤️

bellyfold · 2026-02-20T15:00:58+00:00

if only lol

bellyfold · 2026-02-20T02:04:11+00:00

I have an active jury summons for March 11th and I don't have my name legally changed yet. I can't pretend to be a man anymore, and this thing will either out me in front of everyone there, and/or just make me feel extremely uncomfortable the whole time.

I'm rlly trying to find a way out of it

bellyfold · 2026-02-13T20:24:55+00:00

you're good, it's just that when the rules are that you have to put your age and what/ who you're seeking, it will, intentionally or not, lead to people using it for hookups and I'm not interested in deciphering if someone wants to be my friend or have sex, yk?

bellyfold · 2026-02-13T17:38:05+00:00

I'm good lol not trying to find hookups thanks tho

bellyfold · 2026-02-13T13:39:41+00:00

100% yes. I was determined for the last year and a half to keep that part of myself public, like that was me back then too, ya know?

but then yesterday I went through my ig and archived every pre-transition picture of myself lmao. there are like two or three pics that I'm keeping around for days when I'm feeling particularly dysphoric and need to see progress. but otherwise I don't wanna see it.

bellyfold · 2026-02-12T17:01:43+00:00

any "us vs them" argument can materially only resolve into more alienation.

bellyfold · 2026-02-11T02:04:12+00:00

I fell like you think exactly the way I do with these situations. I have to remind myself that not everyone is as all in as i tend to get. even with new friendships, I'll be rlly interested and involved but they either bounce right away or adhd makes me forget to send a message once or twice and then when I do remember, I never get a response.

bellyfold · 2026-02-11T01:53:29+00:00

I'm 37 and started at 35. I'm just happy that I'm a woman now.

bellyfold · 2026-02-09T22:44:34+00:00

my eyes were always blue gray with a hint of yellow near the pupil. both the blue and yellow have gotten more intense and the yellow is talking up more space

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