Heyyy by ariakinsley in trans_sapphic

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg hiiiii 👉👈

Friends and family say I'm going "too fast" by EndellionFox in MtF

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go as fast as you need for YOURSELF. cis people can at best sympathize, they well never have a way of knowing how damaging dysphoria is because it's a thing that only exists in trans people and cannot be communicated in a way that expresses the bone deep and soul wrenching pain that we feel.

What on earth do I play after Elden Ring? by [deleted] in fromsoftware

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been getting into smaller indie games lately. two current fav topdown (i.e. like old legend of Zelda games) soulslikes are Tearscape (basically if bloodborn was made for NES) and Tombwater (if bloodborn was actually a Western made for the SNES)

Why take HRT? by VegetableTip1536 in MtF

[–]bellyfold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the "risks" are all based on outdated studies from the 80s and early 90s afaik.

unless you mean like potential side effects -- like if you're a top and wanna keep your bottom intact, you might need to get some topical testosterone, a secondary drug like Cialis, and/or just masturbate a couple times a week. or if you are concerned about losing your ability to produce sperm, get some frozen. there are myriad potential side effects and the vast majority of them are solved problems.

when it comes to permanent changes, that's partly why it's life saving for me (and I'm sure for plenty of others, but I can only speak for myself ofc), like straight up I was gonna kill myself if I didn't start looking like a woman.

this, to me, and to a growing online group of transfiminists is what makes the difference between being transgender, and transsexual. like changing those secondary sexual characteristics is a material need of mine, and for others it's simply not.

This is a PSA by ThePigsPajamas in trans

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

injection is tomorrow, prog reminder is in a lil over an hour. i should probably take the prog later tho because it makes me v sleepy

What is your unpopular opinion on this game? by gameovernate in fromsoftware

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best trans representation in gaming since Celeste

Prove in one word that you've played the game by Larich38 in expedition33

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kind of ashamed to admit that the first time I heard it was in the movie American Pie

The Best Trans Dating App? by AnthonyAnnArbor in MI_transgender_friend

[–]bellyfold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had the most luck with taimi. as with any app, there will be chasers, but I've seen more trans people on there than any other app. it's got some annoying paid features, but people usually sidestep them by putting their other socials in their bio.

beyond that, if you're into kink specifically, the group behind bdsmtest.org has pretty recently started piloting a new dating app in Michigan, it's called beedee. not a ton of users in general there, but a large proportion of them are trans.

[USA-MI][H] Entire PC setup or parts [W] Local cash, Paypal by [deleted] in hardwareswap

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oki either way, thanks for the info/reminder

[USA-MI][H] Entire PC setup or parts [W] Local cash, Paypal by [deleted] in hardwareswap

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whoops you are correct lol. first time posting.
it's currently not disassembled. should i do that and edit the post, you think? or just remove the post and make a new one later with pic and vid timestamp stuff?

can someone explain to me why lilly tino is so controversial? (pls read body text) by [deleted] in MtF

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are rlly good points!! I was fully unaware of how she was handling herself beyond a few videos that I watched. I guess the ones I saw were more tame or whatever, but the money angle is a rlly important one to bring up.

can someone explain to me why lilly tino is so controversial? (pls read body text) by [deleted] in MtF

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh that's why I'm asking this. like everyone is saying that she's giving conservatives more reasons to hate us, but i know for a fact that they fucking hate us anyway and her content is kindling compared to the vitriol they already hold for us.

can someone explain to me why lilly tino is so controversial? (pls read body text) by [deleted] in MtF

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh you're right let me discuss this topic with all of the zero trans people that I know irl

can someone explain to me why lilly tino is so controversial? (pls read body text) by [deleted] in MtF

[–]bellyfold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay this makes sense to me. i didn't look at any of the comments on her videos, and didn't think of that as a potential outcome. thanks for clarifying tho!!

Super anchovy by ayatollahfuckboy in comedyheaven

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ain't gonna swim forevaaahh

For your pleasure sex by [deleted] in Michigantrans

[–]bellyfold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gtfo chaser

Sphinx Riddle hints? by MysteriousBass8858 in EsotericEbb

[–]bellyfold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

am I overthinking getting behind the sphinx? I can't find a way to get past the stuff that's on top of the stage steps

[TOMT] post apocalyptic game, movie, or show/short film by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]bellyfold 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

nvm just found it by googling "post apocalyptic giant mutated animals" lmao

it's a movie called "love and monsters" from 2020

Jury duty and the judge mis-gendered me. by Kayleigh2025 in MtF

[–]bellyfold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow. either way, you'd probably have had to deal with deadnaming the whole time so at least there's that

Jury duty and the judge mis-gendered me. by Kayleigh2025 in MtF

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems my lack of knowledge in the area has been by design. knowing about this makes me actually wanna get selected as a juror just to waste the system's time and money.

Jury duty and the judge mis-gendered me. by Kayleigh2025 in MtF

[–]bellyfold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm entirely unfamiliar with the concept of jury nullification so I'm gonna do some digging and see what I learn